Your money or your grandsons

No, no, no!
That's blackmail.
If he was my son I'd have told him what to do with himself.

Dear dear - I am so sorry your son is behaving so badly. Do not give in to his blackmail - if only because you have no way of keeping him to his word.

Yu must be so disappointed in him - I do feel for you.

YOUR SON DESERVES NOTHING FROM YOU. I HOPE YOU HAVE CUT HIM RIGHT OUT OF YOUR WIL

How old are your grandsons and what does their mother think of all this? When I first read your thread I couldn't believe it could be true as surely nobody could behave this badly. But, assuming it is true, I would not give in and I would cut him out of your will. He sounds like a psychopath.

I think you need some professional support with this Jgran

Call Hourglass, it's a helpline for elder abuse

0808 808 8141

see a solicitor and get a will cutting him out completely after your death. What a piece of

And that’s a no from me too!

Don't even think about it he will have you out of the house as soon as he could if you did this.Have you any other family members to put him in his place do not be browbeaten by this bully.

Before you know it you'll be homeless, what a money grabbing moron.

How disgusting is this ? Tell him to take a running jump.

That is abuse and blackmail.
Please do not do this. A man who makes that threat will never give you what you want but will have no problem throwing you out.