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I’m a Pear/Apple - Part 5. Still going!!

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NanKate Tue 22-Oct-24 12:47:23

On 08 May 2018 I started this thread for those who wanted to lose weight and have a healthier lifestyle.

We now have a small band of ‘regulars’ called Pears and Apples. I am so grateful to those who have stayed loyal and contributed a lot of useful information and given support, especially Whiff 👍

Do join us, the rules are simple.

Choose your own style of diet plan.

Check in regularly with a report of the highs and lows of the diet.

Have an occasional binge but get back on the wagon ASAP.

Pass on any useful diet tips.

You have nothing to lose on this thread, other than weight.

Our mantra is - EAT LESS FOR LIFE.

NanKate Sun 17-Aug-25 21:49:59

No I’m not yogitree but you are very welcome to join our happy bands of losers.

I’m envious Whiff of your impending trip to Betty’s in Harrogate. I went to the York Betty’s for Tea and it was wonderful. 👍

yogitree Sun 17-Aug-25 20:10:50

I'm an apple and am considering going back onto the Keto diet. I lost 4.5 stone eating that way and I have now, after 5 years, put back on 3.5. Anyone else do Keto way of eating?

Whiff Sun 17-Aug-25 20:06:27

Realised I never checked in last week put on 1lb but glad to say lost 1.75lb this week.

I had the great pleasure of meeting MayBee in May last year and spent time with her , her partner and her lovely dog. I never dreamed they would take me places. And MayBee and me when on a boat trip. The sea was calm and it was a beautiful day. It was thrilling and a deckhand pointed things out to us.

I am very lucky I have meet 3 from GN in the flesh and we got on ..Plus I what's app with someone else and see her when I remembered which button to press 🤦🤷🤔.

Pity we can't have a Pears met up all healthy food of course. It's funny that you can get so attached to people and gladly call them friends even if you never meet.

Full length mirror Allsorts thats brave . I try not to look when in a hotel but I do. But even though still fighting to lose more weight I look and feel.better than I did 6 years ago. I know I am fitter and eating healthier. And big bonus I have my 2 diagnosis of what I was born with.

NanKate that's what I did pre 2017. Which I now see was stupid as I then had more weight to lose. But we learn by our mistakes and pass on what we learn to others. And hopefully it helps them to see they are not alone.

Had an awful day yesterday and my HPX went into overdrive. But posting about with my HPX group helped me as they are the only people who understand what it's like living with this . Because I was feeling so bad I missed my husband all the more so water works time. As he was the only person I could admit how I really was . But my wonderful group rallied round and I slowly felt better. Our numbers have grown to 1,132 . I can travel the world from my sofa..
And I didn't turn to food .
Today back to old self and booked my room for May as I decided I am going to Lancaster for 5 days . All paid for with meal deal and early check in ..

Four weeks I go to Harrogate for 5 days. So this week finding a taxi firm which helps disabled people and see if I can book afternoon tea at Betty's. I can't book for the bookable room because it has stairs . I can make it down it's getting back up after sitting still eating that will be the problem.
I can't queue this year January change a lot of things healthwise.y neurologist is going to get me an appointment for MRI and after that speech therapy as I keep losing my speech. I am hoping the MRI shows something wrong. Then I can deal with it .

Shirleyw Mon 11-Aug-25 20:48:08

Thanks nankate…didn’t realise it was that long…..time flies,,,,,☀️🏃‍♀️‍➡️😎

NanKate Mon 11-Aug-25 08:02:14

Welcome back shirleyW 👋

Shirleyw Mon 11-Aug-25 04:06:11

Been away with the family for nearly a fortnight, I put on about 4lbs, for me that’s good as usually could quite easily of been half a stone. ,…I kept up my running in that time, I’m sure that helped .
Back to Pilates and calorie counting, like you say whiff & nankate calorie counting is the way.
I’m gonna be stiff as a board at Pilates today I’m sure, I’ve missed it for a month….

Enjoy our next heatwave this coming week…..saying that, it has felt a little autumnal these past early mornings then warms up.

NanKate Sun 10-Aug-25 07:26:42

Good to have you back Allsorts.

I want to make a suggestion. I used to set a date ahead to start my diet and in the days leading up to that date I used to scoff anything I wanted. It took me some time to realise I was self sabotaging my quest to lose weight.

What I do now is start my Eating Less for Life regime immediately, with occasional days off to eat what I fancy.

If this method doesn’t appeal to you just ignore it. However it really has helped me get a control over food, not the food controlling me.

Allsorts Sun 10-Aug-25 04:21:05

Hi everyone, glad you're all on track despite holidays, afraid I have once again put on what I lost.. I am a lost cause. Birthdays a plenty, inactivity and that's all it takes.
Maybe, your fillings must cost so much buying all those things. The dentist told me nuts are to ge avoided, she did more fillings because of them, they are my downfall as well as biscuits.. I don't buy chocolate but once they are in the house I eat the lot.
I really want a mini incinerator, be much better than my temperamental shredder.
I will start my weigh in next Sunday as I have things lined up this week where I know I will be tempted. Plus a mirror that is full length in spare room.

MayBee70 Fri 08-Aug-25 18:16:33

It was really soft toast and I drank liquid with it, too, to soften it even more. Thank goodness I still have a NHS dentist who saw me today. He replaced my filling ( during which we had a nice conversation about the merits of early Pink Floyd compared to the later Dave Gilmour years). I asked him if I could have it crowned but he said it was too small a tooth to crown. When I asked him about what I should eat he said eat whatever you like as long as it isn’t pork scratchings (can’t remember the last time I had a pork scratching but I remember another dentist I had telling me that the main reason she found for replacing fillings was when someone had ate crispy bacon).The best bit is I lose fillings on such a regular basis that they’re usually still under guarantee which was the case today. So I spent the money I thought I was going to spend on the tooth on a new top, a nice ceramic container for my spider plant, a cyclamen to replace the winter pansy that is on it’s last legs and a mini incinerator so I can burn a few bits and bobs without smoking out the whole street using the big one. On top of that I did some of my leg exercises in the waiting room to save having to do them later (not the ones where I have to lie on the floor) and I found walking down the high street much easier than the last time I did it thanks to seeing my new physio.

NanKate Fri 08-Aug-25 17:18:43

I love both toast and rice cakes 😋

Whiff Fri 08-Aug-25 11:52:46

The think your teeth are telling you no rice cakes or toast MayBee . Having new filling is going to cost a lot more than bread or rice cakes.

MayBee70 Thu 07-Aug-25 19:13:29

Won’t be eating much for a while. Just lost another filling. Was only eating a piece of toast. Serves me right for giving in and having some bread. Mind you I have been eating rice cakes and have lost fillings because of rice cakes in the past.

NanKate Thu 07-Aug-25 15:25:59

When I feel hunger pangs I have a small glass of fruit Kefir. It really lines the stomach quickly and it’s good for you. 👍

Whiff Thu 07-Aug-25 09:32:14

MayBee small movements won't use up many calories but they will help with your joints and muscles . The slower the exercise the more you have to control it and therefore it's making you work harder . Eg sit on a chair and just lift your leg straight out front up and down normal speed . Now try counting doing it counting to 5 to get it up and 5 down . You will feel the difference you have to work harder to control it. So it's doing you more good.

Slow small controlled movements are harder to do than fast ones . Also when you sit down do it slowly that's also exercise and standing do it slowly you will notice it in your thighs .
Note to self don't buy the rice cakes again . Then there is no temptation 😁🤸

MayBee70 Wed 06-Aug-25 22:36:34

I stupidly just ate quite a few salt and vinegar rice cakes. It’s because I wasn’t actually hungry at teatime so didn’t make the omelette that I’d planned to have. Then hunger caught up with me at 9. Won’t make that mistake again.

NanKate Wed 06-Aug-25 21:53:48

Glad Maybee and Whiff we are all supporting each other. As you say Whiff maintaining weight is also a bonus.

MayBee70 Wed 06-Aug-25 19:46:13

I’m asleep for most of the fasting ( I sleep a lot!). The main difference is that I drink hot water instead of tea and coffee in the evening and ignore the urge to snack when I’m watching tv! I was amazed at how many inches I lost during lockdowns because I wasn’t eating between meals. All of my weight goes onto my thighs which can go up and down by several inches in a short space of time. When Winnie wakes me up far too early for her breakfast I have a mug of hot water and go back to sleep listening to my relaxation tape. The knee exercises are more like Callanetics in that they’re only small movements and probably don’t use up any calories.

Whiff Wed 06-Aug-25 19:13:00

NanKate staying the same is just as hard as losing weight. Counting calories is the only way that works for me .

MayBee be careful fasting especially as you are exercising as well. You need a balanced diet . Otherwise lactic acid can build up in your joints and muscles and it hurts like hell. Only happened to me once I made sure it hasn't since .
Glad you are finding the exercises less painful. I even do mine on holiday and I walk more . Well what I call walking 🤣

Lost half a pound this week better than putting on.
Out for lunch tomorrow so will be only yogurt for dinner . Need to get my weight loss mojo back . My hospital stay and what happened to me sort of re set my control over my eating and I want it back .

MayBee70 Wed 06-Aug-25 13:24:04

I'm finding that doing an evening fast for as long as I can hold out has really stabilised my weight and I've lost inches, too. Also cutting out bread as much as possible. The exercises given to me by the physio seem to be helping. They really hurt at first but now they don't and I seem to be walking better. Going to try to go on a walk with my dog walking group on Saturday to see if I can manage better. Don't want to raise my hopes too much though.

NanKate Wed 06-Aug-25 08:03:03

Although I have been keeping a steady weight I know I should restart calorie counting as I am not where I want to be weight wise. This is a lifelong struggle but worthwhile.

Eating Less for Life is the only way for me.

MayBee70 Tue 29-Jul-25 18:42:41

Reported (sigh)

MayBee70 Mon 28-Jul-25 07:54:15

I’m having a physio session with her tomorrow Whiff. My GP has given me a hospital referral which also includes physio but the hospital is such a long way to travel to. And I bet the appointment will be made for when I’m away in September. Please send me those exercises; I keep looking up exercises to do but there are so many to choose from I’m a bit overwhelmed. My GP said my BP was a bit high which was a first for me but I was a bit stressed when I took it; I don’t go out much and even a trip to the doctors makes me nervous. When I’m awake I do potter round the house most of the time so I am walking up and down the stairs etc but it still isn’t anything like the exercise I used to get.

Whiff Mon 28-Jul-25 07:06:06

Finally feeling like my usual self . Not been myself since January and my week in hospital. Plus BP tablets caused me to have a kidney infection . Then antibiotics for cellulitis on my toe . Who knew you could get cellulitis on your toe only had it on my legs before. Because of the sort of antibiotic could take my statin last day of taking them had the paramedics here for 2 hours . 111 sent them . My BP went very low and heart beat 108 . It was funny they had to put more leads on me to get readings twice . Good job they had plenty . And sent my HPX into overdrive.

Oops think I had written this before but can't go back a page or risk losing this . 🤦🤦🤦🤷🤷🤷.

Better not tell you what happened at Doncaster incase I have already told you .
Anyway lost 2.5 pounds this week . But really miss the ice cream 😋.

Mo did the chair pilates woman get back to you ? If not I can send you some sit down exercises to do at home via email . You do them at your own pace and gently.

Sit fit this afternoon. But no move it or lose it until September as our instructor has gone to Canada. She runs 7 classes her job . I will go back to them but don't know how many others will after a gap of 5 weeks . Our sit fit instructor only goes away for a week couple of times a year even though it's not her main job.

But will do a hour exercise tomorrow after having my eye test. As you all know my life runs because of routine and planning in advance.
Hope all pears and other fruits have a good week . 🤸

NanKate Wed 23-Jul-25 07:52:38

I’m glad whiff we both enjoyed our ice cream on hols. I didn’t weigh myself when I got back last Friday but have today and I am the same as I was before my hols, so I’m pleased about that. However I have noticed that I have been feeling hungry again late afternoon. I have resisted food but upped my drinking which has helped.

Losing weight isn’t easy, however with support from all the Pears and Apples it is doable.

MayBee70 Tue 22-Jul-25 16:53:14

I've found a recommended physiotherapist who also does a chair pilates class. Trouble is she's not answering her phone or emails [maybe she's on holiday]. What I do food wise these days is just think of what I really fancy eating and then have it for my main meal; I find that mentally satisfying. and it means I don't get cravings for certain food. I have stopped treating myself to a packet of crisps each day, though, as I was too tempted to have another packet and then another... I've been on a diet for so long I think I see everything in terms of their calorific values [could probably go on Mastermind and answer questions on it!].