Going it alone.

I once got the train from Cornwall to London on my own to see Sean Bean in Macbeth. Quite happy on my own and loved every minute of it!

We have a "silver cinema " here. Tuesday and Thursday seniors pay just £3 and that includes tea and biscuits! The films are usually a few weeks old but most of the people are on their own so are very welcoming

Hi - I often go places on my own, including the cinema, theatre and holidays. However, look out for the U3A in your area. They often have a cinema/theatre group and that means there is always someone to go with. Don't be nervous about going somewhere by yourself though, just enjoy the movie/show. Good luck

I was widowed two years ago, so the person I did these things with is no longer here, and I have had to look for friends in the same boat as me who live locally. Not sure if you are in this position. If so there are a couple of groups called way up and jolly dollies, so you could join your local group you will find details on the Internet. There is also a group called streetlife, I've met people through that.
Hope this helps you or others.
I live in Surrey so a bit far from you.

If you feel confident to go on your own, just go. But, have you thought of putting an ad in your local paper saying you are looking for a female friend to go to the cinema and shows with. Am sure there are plenty folk of a certain age who for whatever reason has lost touch with their old friends who would like some new ones. Hope you enjoy your film/show.

Tell me how you start a women's coffee club please.

Jamie you can start a group through "meet up", search online.

Many U3A's have cinema/theatre groups, and if they don't t is easy to start one.

Jaxie, I go to one of Essexgirl's coffee groups. As far as I know she found suitable venues and then advertised date and time in places like GN local, streetlife and on posters. She then took contact details as people turned up and keeps everyone in the loop as to what is on. Word has spread and the groups are doing well.

I used to go to the theatre on my own all the time in London as well as with friends. A tip is I would pick matinees, the National Theatre at the SouthBank has several matinees for every show, some weekday afternoons, some Saturday afternoons. You might not feel so bad when you see how many people go at that time of day.
I used to go to the Tricycle in North London, they almost always had a Wednesday 2pm matinee - it was always packed with people over 40..

What's your area Ruby ?

I'm in sunny Bolton, Lancashire. X

Yes, go it alone, get yourself a big bag of popcorn or whatever takes your fancy, settle down and enjoy it, take your slippers if you want. I would. I never care what anyone else thinks.

Actually Shanma this thread was started some time ago, when I was new to the area. I have since made friends and have a selection of people to go to the cinema or anywhere else I fancy with, men and women. Being single, I have a choice of company.

Hard at first but I do now go to the cinema and ,a few times,even the theatre (matinee)
on my own if friends not around or interested in the same film or play.
I do also go WITH friends if possible which IS nicer,but would rather go on my own than miss something I would really like to see.
I do envy those who still have their partners to go with, but it's now 8 years since I lost my DH so I've had to adjust to doing things on my own -still not easy!
Be brave Rubylady and I guess you'll be surprised how many others you see on their own . I was!!

This is a problem. I really need about 4 friends. One to go to concerts with, one for garden visiting, one for going out to eat and one for going to art galleries. Oh and one for the cinema .

We have a very active group started through Street life. I can't go because of my H but a recently (12 months) widowed friend has found a very active social life including meals out, cinema, theatre, walks etc. Mostly women but a few males and she could be out every weekend if she chose. It is sometimes a question of searching for local activities.

As a widow, I go to the cinema on my own and also to museums and galleries and lunch out. I tried holidaying on my own but didn't like the evenings stuck in a small hotel room. I'm happy to do things on my own daytimes but not evenings, mainly because I'm nervous about travelling on my own in the evening.