This was really not meant to be about the royal family and I can't see why you can't get past that. Our head of state is the Queen and until that changes, I think you will find things will go on much as they always have done. Bringing in what they do or don't do is just a "straw man" or "fallacious" argument. If you want to discuss the Queen's family, etc., then why not start a separate thread instead of beating this one up?
This was about how we might recognise those who have gone above and beyond what is normally expected of them after a time which is incomparable with anything except war-time.
I could understand if you were to say it's too soon to think about this; it probably is but state recognition is state recognition and we currently run the state in the way that we do.
Just to add a few facts rather than fictions. Wootton Basset was made Royal Wootton Bassett after the delivery of Letters Patent on behalf of the Queen. Old fashioned or a continuation of our history? I am sure that many will have a different point of view but that is really not the point. This is how we do things.
This was done on a "petition" from the PM, i.e., it was decided by the state. The Queen said it was "an enduring symbol of the nation's admiration and gratitude". The Queen will say what is agreed by parliament. It is nothing to do with the royal family, their wealth, the way they dress or whether they use the NHS. It is simply the way we run our state, who is the head of state, and whether our government decides they want to recognise people, groups, etc. after all this is over.