Not a clue

Having to cope with the loss of a partner and moving house is a heck of a lot to go through. You sound as though you’re trying to make the best of things but it must be very hard and I can completely understand you dreading Christmas. Would it be an idea to book into a hotel so you’re not on your own but don’t have to socialise if you don’t want to.

When it comes to making friends I think you have to go slowly and settle for just finding a few people to exchange a friendly word with or maybe drink a coffee with , at least to start with. Look for activities in your area and try them out, maybe look at opportunities to volunteer if your health allows it. It does take longer to make friends when you’re older but they can pop up in the most surprising places.

It’s the 5th September……Christmas is a long time away.

Start with your neighbours…..

I’d try your local volunteer bureau. They will know what’s going on locally, and will point you in the direction of any meet ups locally, Mens Shed etc.

I was also going to suggest volunteering.
Some charities will be looking for Christmas help any time now.