I don't often post on gransnet but often read the posts and what strikes me is how often a positive and upbeat message is responded to by such negativity and, at times, unpleasantness. There is always such kindness expressed when someone is ill or is suffering emotionally but as soon as someone is positive, enthusiastic, full of joie de vivre, they get knocked down. Surely there are some jolly, happy grans out there! I, for one, am excited about Christmas!