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Ijustwantpeace2020 Sun 30-Aug-26 15:26:04

When did it become a thing to have multiple bridesmaids (think 20/22) and a gay man of honour? 2 weddings we’ve been to in the last couple of years have had this.

Georgesgran Sun 30-Aug-26 15:56:49

Is it a thing?
15 years ago, DD2 had her gay friend as a brides-man - he sobbed his heart out! He’s now Aunty C to DGS2.

Smileless2012 Sun 30-Aug-26 16:04:21

Surely he's a man of honour who happens to be gay.

labazs Sun 30-Aug-26 16:04:47

times i move on I guess. i was a bridesmaid years ago with my cousin and the brides sister so all the family connections covered!

62Granny Sun 30-Aug-26 16:07:23

Videos of weddings in America that are on FB, seem to have loads of bridesmaids so I suppose it has come from there, but honestly 22!! That is absurd, if you have a gay friend I suppose you would like them involved.

62Granny Sun 30-Aug-26 16:08:55

Out of curiosity are they still married? Or was it all about the day but not life time commitment.