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Could you live on a cruise ship?

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nanna8 Thu 23-Jul-26 03:57:43

I have come across a couple of people who spend their lives permanently cruising. They actually live on board and some pay a sort of rent to keep their suite. I couldn’t stand it, personally but I suppose you do meet a lot of different people from different countries. The main cruisers we come across are Aussies, Kiwis, Canadians, Americans and South Africans but not a lot of others except if you go over to Singapore where Chinese and Malaysian people like to cruise.

AmberGran Fri 24-Jul-26 16:19:52

Well I have to agree that it would be better than a care home but for those not yet destined for a care home - I would rarely see my friends and family, I would miss all the family celebrations, I would miss the cycle from Spring to Winter in my home. Might be possible for a year I suppose, but all those things are far more meaningful to me than not having to cook and care for a home.

missdeke Fri 24-Jul-26 16:11:05

Just the thought of it makes me shudder. Those huge great ships that just look like tower blocks of flats, nowhere to escape to, definitely not for me.

Lemonred Fri 24-Jul-26 15:45:33

Where do I sign?
Yes I would, providing good WiFi, a nice big TV and my PS5 or laptop. Much better than a care home. Fabulous food, no cleaning or gardening. Ditch the responsibility for too many possessions. No property to maintain. You meet lovely people, and some dickheads too, just like anywhere else. I’d like a layover in the UK every so often to see my children though.

pigsmayfly. Fri 24-Jul-26 15:42:32

I can see that if you are without personal care needs but don’t want other responsibilities, a cruise life would work very well. You wouldn’t have a home to run and more people to joke and laugh with. If you progress to having personal care needs I assume your cruising days are over…

DeeAitch56 Fri 24-Jul-26 15:15:46

Yes I could live aboard a cruise ship, but that’s despite other people, I’ve never made ‘friends’ on holiday, I’m polite and will join small talk if I have to share a table at dinner

Mmc123uk Fri 24-Jul-26 15:14:42

It's better than a care home ..prob cheaper too 😎

Kitty55 Fri 24-Jul-26 15:04:59

I’m with grandMattie 100%. I am definitely a land lover. I’ve been on a cruise before and as nice as it was I was pleased when it was over.

mokryna Fri 24-Jul-26 14:59:21

I met a nanny on a fit-farm. She said that , the father of the children kept her on to look after the children. She would fly them out to wherever the boat with his cabin was when there were school holidays. Every year the owners of the cabins decided where they wanted to go.
However this is what she said. I have no proof if is was reality.

mrsjonesy Fri 24-Jul-26 14:39:16

Yes, if I won the lottery, I'd happily give it a go. I never want to board another aircraft again, but there are still lots of places I'd like to visit, so I'd sail away, and hop on and off depending on what port takes my fancy. I would be happy with a nice room and balcony and plenty of socialising when I felt like it.

DrWatson Fri 24-Jul-26 14:38:03

Quite a few comments from "I know I wouldn't like it" folk. We know a chap who said the same, for years. Finally his wife got him to try a cruise -- now he cannot wait to go again!

We went on a few - when we were both working! -- and there's LOTS to do, but you do NOT have to join in if you don't want to.
Plus of course the ship stops at ports most days (that's the whole point?!) unless you're going across the Atlantic or Pacific.
There's a cabaret/show most nights on most ships, plus a bar or two will likely have a singer or pianist for an hour or two.

As for the food, yes, you could overeat, I recall finding myself in a deckchair one afternoon next to one of the entertainers. I asked him how he avoided eating millions of calories a week, he said HIS routine was to only eat lunch (plus teas and coffees I think).

I recall on one ship we used to hit the buffet, after a late-evening stroll, we could get a tea or a fancy coffee without a big crowd. The boys and girls of the dancing troupe used to get there about 11pm, (after their second evening show), they struggled to eat much in the day what with rehearsals then shows, plus helping with daytime entertainments.

We also used to occasionally get up on deck for a sunrise moment, and you'd find regular joggers and power-walkers trundling round whichever deck was marked out for them!

I also recall taking some crochet 'kit', and I guarantee if you're like that, out on deck somewhere, you'll soon draw some new friends wanting instruction or the pattern?!

There are specialist cruises for Bridge players - and there's plenty to do for their stranded bridge-widow/widower if that's the case! Others for gardening themes, wine enthusiasts, all sorts. If you're new to the cruising idea, have a look at one of the specialist sites, 'IGLU' is good, Bolsover Cruise Club, lots of them.

We did meet one or two people who cruised year-long, though I think they swapped ship somewhere?

BUT -- though we like cruising (especially on a smaller ship, a floating city is NOT for us!), we couldn't do it year-round.
If you REALLY like, say, theatre, would you go EVERY night, and EVERY week?

alisonsmith4 Fri 24-Jul-26 14:20:01

Yes - I would , definitely! Bring it on - better than sitting at home on my own in the cold and wet! XX🚢

Happygirl79 Fri 24-Jul-26 14:08:00

Ive enjoyed cruises over the years but as for living on a cruise ship permanently it would be a No from me. I would feel as if I was in prison. Too restricted

cookiemonster66 Fri 24-Jul-26 14:07:49

that would be my idea of HELL! I have only been on a couple of cruises including Norweigan fjords and spain, but spent the whole time with my head down the lav throwing up

Jules777 Fri 24-Jul-26 14:07:25

No way in the world! I'd be terrified of the thing sinking in the middle of the ocean, far, far away from the RNLI. I'd very seriously miss all the wildlife and trees we have on terra firma, even though I live in suburbia where there are far too many motor vehicles for my liking.

MaggsMcG Fri 24-Jul-26 14:04:52

Except for my Cat Yes I would. I love cruising. I love Sea Days. The problem I would have would be my Travel Insurance because I'm having enough trouble getting any at the moment.
It would also depend on the ship and the cabin. I think it would have to be a balcony cabin or a suite. I'm not sure my finances would last long enough to do it. My house is already half tied up to my three daughters so selling that would maybe mean I I wouldn't be able to afford it.

4allweknow Fri 24-Jul-26 14:04:30

If this is a cruise ship for older people only, no thank you.

Would go stir crazy inspite if being able to go ashore now and again.

If it's a cruise ship for all and sundry, again no thank you. Kids yelling and screaming, music blaring, yuck!

SillyNanny321 Fri 24-Jul-26 13:59:41

Love the sea & a brief trip on a boat. Love river & canal holidays as do love the water. Living on a ship no way! Need my countryside too & would miss birds & trees! So think I’ll just stay home & visit the sea often now I do not live on the coast! Each to his own my Nan would say!

dalrymple23 Fri 24-Jul-26 13:45:44

BN: aren't the fees about the same?!!

Paperbackwriter Fri 24-Jul-26 13:41:43

For some reason those who run that ship called The World, that people do live on, thought my husband and I might like a tour so we went to look round it while it was in Falmouth. The year's travel itinerary is decided by owners' ballot but you get more say if you've got one of the most expensive apartments. We had a look at a couple of them, decorated by the owners. One was hideous, the other rather lovely and contained some serious art. Hardly anyone was in residence as they'd apparently gone off to see some golf in France and were being picked up later in the week by the ship in Paris.

I'm with those who couldn't ever think of it (though the library was a delight..). I am scared of the sea and couldn't even do a cross-channel ferry but the ship was OK, if a tad beige in the public areas. I think I'd get horribly fat! Luckily I idon'thave the required minimum of £250,000 per year to find out..

nanna8 Fri 24-Jul-26 01:57:19

The big ships actually have hospitals on board but you do need medical insurance because it can be very expensive otherwise. I spent a day in one once and they were really good, I had a heart monitor on and a drip ( no heart attack, thank goodness just a seasick reaction to being in a cyclone!) Some go for medicines etc , it is usually at the bottom of the ship near the gangplank area presumably so they can send you to hospitals in really bad situations. Oh, if we were all poseurs then there are a hell of a lot of us ! What a snobby comment , never heard that one before, Not that many from the UK though but we cruise mostly the pacific region so it is probably too far.

nexus63 Fri 24-Jul-26 01:40:24

i have never been on a cruise but i did read about a very rich lady who decided cruising was better than a care home, she does not stay on the same ship, she transfers to different ships, she had been doing this for about 2 years, she has care on board if she needs it and gets reduced packages as she is a valued customer, i suppose it is better than a care home or being on your own at home.

Crumbly159 Fri 24-Jul-26 01:12:46

JenniferEccles

Those of you who say an emphatic no, have you ever been on a cruise? Of all types of holidays, cruises I think have to be experienced before we can say with any certainty whether we would enjoy it or not.

Even though we have been on quite a number of cruises over the years, and have thoroughly enjoyed every one, living on one would be a no from me too.

Even a world cruise which typically lasts three months would be far too long.

I know some people will disagree with me as they have already been mentioned but the fact that there are no dogs on cruises is a big plus factor for me!
We can actually eat our meals in the restaurants on board without some dog slobbering nearby.
How many places ashore these days are truly dog free!

Yes I have. That is the reason my "no" is emphatic. Cruises are, quite emphatically for poseurs.

Tra-la!

Madmeg Fri 24-Jul-26 00:50:36

I always said I would never cruise unti abt 8 years ago when we went for 16 nights round the Med and were instantly smitten! Since then we have been on several cruises including three World C'ruises of abt 100 days and were heartbroken when they ended. There is as much or as little as you wish to do or eat, plenty of company if you want it but also quiet spots if not, entertainment is rich and varied and there are tons of groups and classes you can join. Or you can just sit and read. On the last world cruise I read 57 books which I never get time for at home.

As we live in a house too big for us it is bliss to be in one room (plus balcony) with no housework to do except tidy up a bit.

Then there are the port stops where you can explore far and wide or just potter round the nearby town and sample the local cuisine and markets.

It's not as expensive as you might imagine considering you have no food to buy or cook, no heating bills, no water rates and most activities completly free of charge unless you choose pricey shore trips (not all are priceu at all).

Sadly DH is now disabled and so we are unlikely to go again.

Oh, and we've made some wonderful friends over the years whom we are still in touch with in the UK and beyond.

BoggledMind Fri 24-Jul-26 00:43:01

I haven’t been on a cruise and not likely to either. Which means I don't know much about them, which leads me to this question.

If a person was to live permanently on a cruise ship, having sold their home, and the ship was now their home, what happens if they develop a condition that requires daily medication on prescription? Are there doctors on board who can diagnose the problem, issue a repeat prescription, and a pharmacy stocked with those medications?

Living in a house may not be as glamorous and exciting but one's medical needs are easier to deal with on dry land.

srn63 Thu 23-Jul-26 23:33:21

Crumbly159

Nope. Because if you only come across just one person you can't stand then you can bet the Crown Jewels that you will bump into them at least 500 times a day........

Just how I feel!