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You must be old if you have a purse or a wallet.

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ROMILO Wed 22-Jul-26 15:20:35

I have just read a news item that states if you have a purse or a wallet, carry store cards or have cash then you are definitely old!

Today's bright young things have no need for anything but their phones.

What happens when said phones are stolen or lost?

So do you have a purse or a wallet?

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M0nica Wed 22-Jul-26 19:17:52

I couldn't care less. Every generation does things differently to the previous one and the older generation, which ever generation that is, will always feel more comfortable doing a lot of things the way they did for the first 40 or 50 years of their life.

All of us adapt and change with new technology and ideas as we go through life, anyone on here grow up without a telephone and has till never had one? I thought not.

The interesting thing to see, which, of course, we never will, is what things are the young generation doing now, that they will do into old age, to the patronising amusement of those two generations younger than them.

hulahoop Wed 22-Jul-26 19:03:24

I always carry cash and card if I'm classed has old so be it.

crazyH Wed 22-Jul-26 19:03:05

Oh my phone goes in my pocket

crazyH Wed 22-Jul-26 19:00:19

I am obsessed about having all denominations of notes and coins in my beautiful purse bought from TKMaxx years ago. Cost £25 at the time and well worth it. All sorts of compartments, for notes cards, coins etc. If it wasn’t for the fact I need to carry my asthma inhaler, I wouldn’t carry a handbag.

fancythat Wed 22-Jul-26 18:51:13

PamelaJ1

Be prepared for every eventuality.
Who knows these days what is going to be asked for.
We in the back woods still have some parking ticket machines that only accept coins.
Well I AM old.

Us as well.
And glad we do.

Some takeaways only use cash. Well they used to up to about a year ago. Not sure if they have all changed or not.

fancythat Wed 22-Jul-26 18:49:48

MT62

I’ve been in three super markets where the terminals were down.
I could put my shopping through as I had cash.
All the rest had phones so were ranting & raving 😂

Quite

petra Wed 22-Jul-26 18:39:42

Whitewavemark2

One of the recommendations in view of a national crises, is that we all have 3 months (I think) worth of cash stored away in the house.

I haven’t yet, but I guess if things are looking dodgy I might consider it.

If you do that make sure you read the small print on your house insurance. In the rare event that you might be burgled some insurance companies will only pay up to a certain amount of cash stolen.
It happened to my next door neighbour 😥

Oreo Wed 22-Jul-26 18:23:23

MT62

I’ve been in three super markets where the terminals were down.
I could put my shopping through as I had cash.
All the rest had phones so were ranting & raving 😂

You must have gone into smug mode🤭I would have done.
No purse or wallet but I carry cards and cash in a compartment in my bag.

ROMILO Wed 22-Jul-26 18:03:26

Graphite

OP What happens when said phones are stolen or lost?

What happens when said purse or wallet containing the cash is stolen or lost especially if it also contains debit and credit cards?

In my case I have my phone as back up. I don't use cash.

Fallingstar Wed 22-Jul-26 17:55:37

I have a Kipling lightweight cross body bag and a purse, never go out without either, always carry some cash though I pay mainly with card.

kittylester Wed 22-Jul-26 17:48:12

Well, i always carry a handbag so I have both in it. If i'm just shopping in the vilkage I might just take my phone.

Until recently one of our hospital car park's was cash only. Lots of people have been glad i had cash with me.

Casdon Wed 22-Jul-26 17:26:31

I like to hedge my bets - I usually use my phone, but I have all the cards too. I’m not worried about my phone getting lost or stolen so much as me forgetting I’ve left it at home or in the car on charge, or dropping it. I also keep and use cash, it’s just easier for small purchases, and it’s a back up when all else fails.

Graphite Wed 22-Jul-26 17:18:18

OP What happens when said phones are stolen or lost?

What happens when said purse or wallet containing the cash is stolen or lost especially if it also contains debit and credit cards?

PamelaJ1 Wed 22-Jul-26 17:12:39

Be prepared for every eventuality.
Who knows these days what is going to be asked for.
We in the back woods still have some parking ticket machines that only accept coins.
Well I AM old.

BlueBelle Wed 22-Jul-26 16:51:34

MT60 not just medication Boots take all empty beauty products, hairspray, creams, toothpastes etc etc into their schemes tubs
I save all mine and give to my grandaughter to take and get a little windfall
And yes I am very, very old as I still carry a purse with my money, bank cards, store cards, bus pass, etc in

Grammaretto Wed 22-Jul-26 16:50:46

I am old in years but nothing to do with the cash v card business.
I carry my card and have various club and store cards on my phone. I always carry some cash which came in very useful at an art gallery café recently when, you guessed it, their card reader wasn't working.

I volunteer in our community store on the till each week and although most customers pay by card many don't and not just the old ones either.

It's a bit of a trek to the nearest ATM but sometimes needs must.

MiniMoon Wed 22-Jul-26 16:50:24

I have two purses. There is nothing in either of them. My cards are in a separate anti cloning case and everything else is on my phone. On holiday recently when we ate out, and this was in every restaurant/cafe, we paid with a card as none of the took cash. We were in Staffordshire.

eazybee Wed 22-Jul-26 16:49:38

I used to have a very small purse which carried cards, change and notes, plus a key on a chain. I changed it for an old multi-coloured wallet,purse. card holder because I carried more,
I use cash, cards and notes,
I am old and I don't care, it suits me.
This is like these silly lists that appear at Christmas time about naff presents and what they reveal about you.
Mug holders was one, just after my son, on his own initiative, and bought one because I had so many mugs. I threw the magazine away.

Georgesgran Wed 22-Jul-26 16:48:55

I have a lovely, bright pink leather purse the DDs bought me a couple of Christmas’s ago - I carry it everywhere, unless I’m walking Little Dog, then I have my phone with a tenner in the cover, just in case.
Don’t care if it’s seen as dated/old fashioned - it’s a distinctive make and I love it.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 22-Jul-26 16:35:31

Oh, and I have lots of purses - all colours, shapes and sizes. . Mostly given to me as presents. I use them all the time.

Whitewavemark2 Wed 22-Jul-26 16:34:24

One of the recommendations in view of a national crises, is that we all have 3 months (I think) worth of cash stored away in the house.

I haven’t yet, but I guess if things are looking dodgy I might consider it.

pably15 Wed 22-Jul-26 16:32:50

yes I have a purse, and I'm looking for another one as this one is very worn at the edges, I always have some cash in it too, along with cards,and I only have a paygo phone, so I'm old..

Astitchintime Wed 22-Jul-26 16:31:21

MT62

Astitchintime

Based on that theory I must be ancient…..I have several purses! And actually, we have been saving our medication blister packs because Boots recycle those now and you can accrue points on the Advantage Card but it is such a blessed faff, can only be done a certain number of times per calendar month, you have to log in to Boots free WiFi in store, get a code from one place and then redeem the voucher within 5 MINUTES! Right pita! Not bothering again as it made me feel ten years older!!

Do they have to be yours? & do they have to come from boots?

Prescription meds and non-prescription meds and didn’t seem to matter where they were sourced either. Just a complete faff and not worth the brain strain!

tanith Wed 22-Jul-26 16:25:27

I have a small card holder with a tenner and cards in it but I rarely take it with me, I pay by phone always not had a problem so far.

ViceVersa Wed 22-Jul-26 16:16:49

Dylis

Just bought myself a beautiful Radley purse I have been admiring for a long time. I hate that owning one is now classed as old!

I use a Radley purse that my daughter gave me. It's just a very small one, but I do like to keep some cash on me, mainly as we buy our free range eggs from a local smallholder and it's easier to use cash for those, but also for other bits and bobs too.