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Calendargirl Sat 27-Jun-26 11:21:44

DS sent us a couple of photos last night, our youngest GC, 18, setting out with her boyfriend to their 6th Form Prom night.

She looked very pretty and so grown up. 🄲

Her dress, which she bought herself, was a £10 Shein one, her hair and make up were done by a friend who is good with hair and make up.

I know Shein clothes are not great, but it served its purpose.

One girl spent £500 on her dress!

I’m glad GD didn’t.

I hope they all enjoyed themselves, but thankful proms weren’t the thing when I (and my DD) left school.

Everything nowadays needs so much fuss.

Why? šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø

J52 Sat 27-Jun-26 19:48:48

Sarnia

My DD had her youngest's dress professionally cleaned and donated it to a dress agency in a deprived area who hire clothes out at £10 a garment. It's a beautiful dress and deserves a few more Prom outings.

What a lovely thing to do, there are a few similar schemes in this area.

MissAdventure Sat 27-Jun-26 19:50:24

It was much cheaper when my girl was teen.
About £20 for a dress, and the rest just done at home.

Its a whole different ballgame now.

Aveline Sat 27-Jun-26 19:55:09

J52's summer party in a garden sounds much nicer.

MissAdventure Sat 27-Jun-26 19:56:17

Yes, that'd win hands down for me.

Sago Sat 27-Jun-26 20:08:34

Magenta8

How do single sex schools arrange proms? Do public schools have them?

One of my DCs went last year and they were not allowed to bring partners from a different school.

Our sons went to public school.
They didn’t have a prom as such but there was a leavers ball, parents attended too.
After our eldest leavers ball he woke up in a laundry trolley, he never found his dinner jacket…..thank the Lord it was from a charity shop.
We had to go to the leavers mass the next day in school, they were all in a state😬.

MissAdventure Sat 27-Jun-26 20:14:20

grin

Nightsky2 Sat 27-Jun-26 20:34:37

Sago

Magenta8

How do single sex schools arrange proms? Do public schools have them?

One of my DCs went last year and they were not allowed to bring partners from a different school.

Our sons went to public school.
They didn’t have a prom as such but there was a leavers ball, parents attended too.
After our eldest leavers ball he woke up in a laundry trolley, he never found his dinner jacket…..thank the Lord it was from a charity shop.
We had to go to the leavers mass the next day in school, they were all in a state😬.

Those leavers balls were good!. I remember standing talking to some other parents when our son walked passed with a bottle of wine tucked under his arm. We pretended not to notice.šŸ˜€

keepcalmandcavachon Sat 27-Jun-26 21:04:16

This thread has made me think of the Back to the Future film, was that the one with the 'Under the Sea' themed prom?

Deedaa Sat 27-Jun-26 21:12:31

I doubt if I could have got my daughter into a dress if they had had proms in her day. She did wear a dress for her wedding - a lovely plain off white dress that cost a whole £90.

MissAdventure Sat 27-Jun-26 21:20:03

I've seen girls dressed in suits.
A bit like Annie Lennox in "sweet dreams" smile

Georgesgran Sat 27-Jun-26 23:53:30

Leavers Ball reminds me of dragging DD1 out of my low-slung sports car, whilst trying to protect her dignity, whilst Dads were lifting their daughters out of 4x4s. It was extremely short skirts in those days!