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Being Scared Of Youths In Supermarkets?

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Chestnut Tue 19-May-26 10:04:03

I'm going to say this needs to be taken further than the manager. Contact Sainsburys and tell them the time and place. That way they can either support the manager in his endeavours or chase him up if he's failing to deal with the problem. But it's Sainsbury's itself who needs to know, not just the manager.

Luckygirl3 Tue 19-May-26 09:55:08

Speak to the manager - they will have security. He/she will not want to lose their core customer base because of this sort of thing.

petra Tue 19-May-26 09:54:00

Of course speak to the manager but also inform him/her that you will be calling head office.
Don’t email head office, you will only get an automated response. Speak to someone.

Fallingstar Tue 19-May-26 09:53:12

Doodledog

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Well said.
I have encountered youths hanging around being a nuisance and generally intimidating but they can be both genders and from all points on the compass. There is no one group that excels at this due to cultural influences, nor are all young people like this.

Cossy Tue 19-May-26 09:51:52

Doodledog

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I’m not “howling” either, however I would question that if you were intimidated and backed off very quickly, how you could identify the entire group of lads as anyone particular culture, especially as they were wearing black hoodies, some of who I’m guessing had those hoods up.

Just saying ….. I’m not doubting your word or what you thought.

Oreo Tue 19-May-26 09:49:18

nanna8

I wouldn’t go there again, at least not in the evening. I think I would be inclined to write to the manager and point out that they will lose custom because of these situations. Money talks, perhaps they will put some sevurity measures in place.

Speak to or email the manager, showing the date and time and which aisle you were in.That behaviour has to be stopped.

Cossy Tue 19-May-26 09:47:18

Totally unacceptable and very scary.

These ignorant idiots must make their parents very proud!

Personally, I would have a word with the store manager and report it to the police, I would not let a bunch of unruly offensive and abusive youths push me out of a shop I use through fear.

Can you go there with someone else?

I’m sorry this shook you up, totally unacceptable behaviour.

Doodledog Tue 19-May-26 09:32:04

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Gran22boys Tue 19-May-26 09:08:18

Sadly life today.

Purplepixie Tue 19-May-26 08:19:45

Inform the manager and the police. Nobody should feel intimidated.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 19-May-26 08:16:40

To be honest today that could be any culture.

mae13 Tue 19-May-26 08:11:56

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Carenza123 Tue 19-May-26 07:45:37

This sort of thing is escalating! Why don’t authorities/ businesses/police address this? If we all went into supermarkets and just stole everything off the shelves we would expect to be punished. We, in turn, the general innocent public are having to pay dearly in higher prices. I would gladly pay more on my grocery bill,if it meant there was security in store - enabling me to have a non-violent and stresssless retail experience. This could lead to anarchy.

twaddle Tue 19-May-26 07:45:26

I would speak to the manager. The store does have the right to refuse customers. If some customers are intimidating others, the manager needs to warn them and, if necessary, ban them from entering the store. If the manager chooses not to take action, you need to take your custom elsewhere. Depending on how threatening they were, it could be a police matter.

Greyduster Tue 19-May-26 07:30:16

Our Morrisons has a security guard. He wears a stab vest. I’ve never noticed a security guard in the Sainsburys I sometimes use.

BlueBelle Tue 19-May-26 07:10:51

Not nice I ve never encounter anything like that at all in my neck of the woods

nanna8 Tue 19-May-26 02:10:45

I wouldn’t go there again, at least not in the evening. I think I would be inclined to write to the manager and point out that they will lose custom because of these situations. Money talks, perhaps they will put some sevurity measures in place.

mae13 Tue 19-May-26 01:43:02

Yesterday evening, around 7pm, I dropped round to the local Sainsbury and when I reached one particular aisle I encountered a group of around 8-9 teenage boys in black hoodies apparently holding a noisy 'group conference'.

They all turned to stare at me and I felt so intimidated that I backed away. They cat-called, quite obscenely, after me and I couldn't get out of the place fast enough.

But, considering all the CCTV and surveillance, I have to ask - where was the security?

This type of thing has happened before at this particular branch of this particular supermarket. It seems that as long as the profits pile up then it's OK for certain groups to use their premises as an unofficial 'Clubhouse.'

There. I just needed to deflate the utter fear I experienced.