Thread two for the 3am crew

After a few days of sleeping through the night here I am wideawake..
I had a covid jab yesterday afternoon and am pretty achey. So will take some paracetamol and maybe make a cup of tea.
I watched a documentary about the resue of the Thai children trapped underground in 2018 in flooded caves. What braveey shown by the divers and the young boys as well. I will make tea and read. Hopefully go back to sleep soon.

Another broken night .
I watched a repeat of a programme that I'd seen during the day and had a hot chocolate with chocolate biscuits .
I did manage to drift off for another couple of hours .
I've looked back and recall that these poor nights seemed to started overnight with a bout of illness .

Has anyone else had a similar experience ?

Dawn? 🌅

I hope you have a good night's sleep tonight 😴.

Being awake through the night is affecting my days, I have no energy and keep dozing off in my chair. I wish I could stay asleep in bed and wake up at about 8am to be awake until the evening when I go to bed.

Wideawake here, but slept quite well since 10.00 so not a bad night. Theres no rhyme or reason to good nights and bad nights. Oh well. A cup of tea I think now.
Happy Birthday Nannytopsy. A mere chicken at 70. Have a great day.

I hope I am the only one awake and all are dozing. It's twilight out there. I think of the evening as twilight but I dont think there is a specifically morning word? So twilight it is.

Good morning, Nannytopsy, happy 70th birthday 🎂 🥂 🎁 💐 .

I laid on the bed after a day out yesterday afternoon and slept for a couple of hours, now I've been up ever since 🙄. I'm now getting tired so I'll go to bed. My body clock is all over the place due to sleepless nights.

Enjoy your birthday celebrations 🥳 🎉 🎈 x

Morning! I was so tired that I came to bed at about 10.30 last night and now I’m wide awake. I’ve done Wordle and been to the bathroom so I should try to get back to sleep. It’s my 70th birthday today - I really don’t like that figure at all! We have a visit from my DB & SIL, plus about 20 friends for drinks and a buffet lunch, so I need some more sleep. Here goes …

I was awake for most of Wednesday night and felt terrible yesterday .It was hard to get anything done.
Last night was better ,but I've woken up with a splitting headache .

It made me cry too 😥. Lots of love 💐 x.

TheSunRisesInTheEast

Darling **,

As you celebrate your 60th birthday, I just want you to know how very proud me and dad have always been of you. You have brought us so much joy through the years, you are loved and very special.

Happy 60th birthday, son, love always, Mum xx

Thank you, it made me cry but it is just what I want to say, especially including his dad ❤️

Darling **,

As you celebrate your 60th birthday, I just want you to know how very proud me and dad have always been of you. You have brought us so much joy through the years, you are loved and very special.

Happy 60th birthday, son, love always, Mum xx

I’m sitting here with my son’s 60th birthday card and gift (it’s a book about the 60s ) and I’m so tired my brain has stopped working and I don’t know what to write in either of them.

Happy birthday son, no that's on the front of the card together with his name and a picture of a glass of Guinness. No verse inside the card plenty of space to write a message, help !!!!

I love my son dearly but he’s a grown man and I don’t think he would appreciate a load of sentiment also he is retiring from his high powered job this week so I suppose his cards will be on display.

It gets worse, my husband, his dad, died recently so this will be the first card without mum and dad written and he’s bound to feel emotional so I don’t want to add to it.

All and any suggestions would be gratefully received as I’m certainly losing what little sleep I have over this.

BTW I won’t be seeing him on his birthday as he lives some distance away and my legs don’t work anyway 😰

Good morning from a very warm north of Scotland.
I seldom post but do read every day and send my best wishes to everyone whether unwell, troubled or dealing with life’s problems.
Today I am off to have some keys cut, put all the duvets out to air and launder my spring/summer clothes. The latter were put away freshly washed but I always feel they need redone after hibernating in the spare room.
We have a lovely new coffee shop in the village. So I will deserve a treat there after lunch.
My DH is out for the day so I will not have to repeat myself. He is apparently not deaf AT ALL in spite of having had hearing aids for several years, which he refuses to wear or have reset. Why, why, why will people wear glasses (esp DH) but not hearing aids. There I feel better now😤.
Off to sow some seeds but they will have to be kept inside as we are prone to late frosts.
Thank you Mick for this daily thread.

I hope you find a car you are happy with and you hear from the hospital soon.

Have a good day 💐.

‘Morning!
I do hope I’m the only one wide awake at this silly hour 😁
I did sleep for a few hours 🤷🏼‍♀️
I tried an automatic car yesterday, the model was rather too basic for me so will try a Micra next.
The salesman took me out in a top of the range electric Nissan, oh my goodness! It was lovely but so strange and far from what I would be comfortable with! You could literally speak to it at it would answer/respond eg change the temperature, tell you a joke 😵‍💫😬🫣
My DGSs would have had a field day with it.
So, still looking, still waiting and still no further action from the hospital.

Aren't there some greedy people! Charge again for another coffee and cake. Use a clean cup and plate. No top ups said with a smile. £2.00 is wonderful anyway. I would pay 2.00 just for homemade cake.

Yes, grandMattie, when I have a weird or upsetting dream, I am able to tell myself in the dream that it's just a dream, I wondered if other people could do that 🤔.

You're doing a great job with your AgeUK cafe, a brilliant community service, there will always be people who take advantage and are greedy, that's a shame. Maybe when they pay their £2 you could give them two tickets (raffle tickets?) to hand over, one for a coffee and one for a cake.

Have a good day ☀️.

R&L, If the government policy is to see and start treating cancer (whether palliative or not) within six weeks, I’d write to my MP and/or W Streeting, regarding the way you are being ignored. My heart goes out to you.

Had one of my nights full of peculiar dreams. What intrigues me is the way I know they are odd during the dream. Do you have them?

A longish day coming up - my Wednesdays are spent hosting AgeUK’s FAB cafes with some “guests” really taking the p..s. We charge a “voluntary” £2 for really nice coffee and home baking; they want top-ups, three cups, take cake home (in one case, for her dog!) etc., but rarely pay extra. Grrr.😡

Hope you have a good day, but more importantly, a better night!

I hope you get good news soon, RosesandLilac. It's bad enough being awake half the night, but worse when you are lying there worrying.

No wonder you can't sleep, RosesandLilac, you have your health on your mind. It's frustrating that there's so much waiting to get anything done.

It's a shame you felt you had to cancel your painting holiday, that would have done you good and been a distraction from your health worries. Hopefully, you can book another break once your appointments have been sorted out.

I've been awake for a couple of hours, it's nice to have Gransnet to come on to, even though there isn't much going on. I've done a crossword and I'm listening to the radio, it's a chat station and they're talking about football so I'm ready to bed down and go back to sleep now. I hope you can get some more sleep in before having to get up. Try not to worry, I know that's easier said than done. Take care 🤗💐.

I don’t normally post on this forum, but I do enjoy reading the good morning thread and didn't want to leave your post unanswered. I’m really sorry you’re being left in this horrible position with no clear answers, and still more waiting.

Your frustration is completely understandable and cancelling your painting holiday must have been such a hard decision.

I hope the Meeting next week brings some clarity and things start to move for you.

So sorry you are going through this RosesandLilac

I know I’m catastrophising, I can’t help it.

I’m glad it’s quiet on here, I slept for 4 hours, now wide awake. I actually had a phone call from the hospital; 9 weeks in all I learned was that my PET CT scan will be discussed at NEXT week’s MDT, 3 weeks after I had it.
I am on the verge of giving up trying to get anywhere, it will then be a further 2-3 weeks if they decide they need biopsies then a further wait to see an oncologist 🤷🏼‍♀️ then another wait for any treatment. I’m getting convinced that they are going to say no treatment as already been told inoperable and incurable, hence the lack of any action.
Sorry for the moaning, I’ve very nearly had enough.
I’ve cancelled my painting holiday, the final payment was due yesterday but not knowing what the hell is happening means I can’t plan anything for the foreseeable future.

I got through until 5.00am today (from 12.15), which isn’t too bad by current standards. I’ll be tired though, as my body needs more sleep. I’m wide awake now, having tried to get back to sleep since then, with no joy.

Slept badly last night myself. I am not tied to time today. I have a couple if things I must do but they can wait until I feel less tired.