Like when I was married ,I wear it sometimes.
I realise that I have been wearing it for a few months now as it fits comfortably.
My fingers have always been subject to swelling and I did have it altered in the early years of marriage but when it gets uncomfortable I take it off and it can be off for many months as I forget about it.
I have been widowed 6 years now and have no hard or fast rules about it.
My H never wore or wanted a ring as was common in the 50’s when we married.
My friend let me down because of rain


