SunnySusie
Another vote for Paris here. Also gets the family vote as our worst ever trip. Noisy, dirty, unfriendly, expensive. Lots of pickpockets, felt intimidated on the train by beggars and in the Metro. Hotel was hideous, cramped, old fashioned and with a horrid lurching lift the size of a coffin. We were treated with huge disdain and indifference by the staff. Couldnt wait to head home.
Good gracious! You were very unlucky as our several hotel stays in Paris (basic, such as Timotel, and not expensive) have been amazing and the staff were lovely. Admittedly, staff in hotels, restaurants and shops can be a bit iffy if you make no attempt whatsoever to speak French and, worse still, shout loudly in English at them. Can’t blame them for that really! They don’t care how bad you are at speaking their language (our French left a lot to be desired) but we found everyone more than happy to help as long as we at least tried, greeted them with a smile and were polite. Some of our attempts at French caused hilarity but not in a nasty way, and they always helped us out, as long as we tried!
We went many times over the years and always received excellent treatment. The magic word is ‘Bonjour’ (if you go into a shop, for example) before you try to ask for anything. It is considered rude not to acknowledge staff and customers when you enter, so a ‘Bonjour Messieurs, Mesdames’ will help you get better service. ‘Bonjour’ on it’s own isn’t enough.
We used to love the Brocantes and I once tried to knock the price of a beautifully made, jewel-encrusted little box down from €20 to €15 in pretty poor French. However, I got my numbers muddled and offered him €50! Great hilarity in spite of the language problem and he gave me a good discount because he had enjoyed serving us.
We had no real trouble with pickpockets, although they were around. You do have to keep your wits about you, and your purse/wallet in a handbag, or manbag, preferably across your body with your hand across the flap that opens it. Beggars are a pain. When they approach you, a very firm, no nonsense ‘Non merci’ with your hand held up, usually works. Keep walking! They will swear at you, but ignore them.
Brits seem to think the French hate us. They don’t, unless we treat them like dirt (which, sadly, I have seen many Brits do).
I am sure you were just unlucky. Paris is one of my favourite cities and I love it and it’s people!