It is reported that Amal and George Clooney have a basket by their front door into which all guests must deposit their phones. This is to protect their privacy, they never show their children in photographs. I would hope that were I ever to be in their position I would trust my visitors to uphold my rules without confiscating their phones. It seems a very extreme step to me.
My daughter had the same experience when she was working in the fashion industry. She visited Paris Hilton’s home in LA with her team , they all had to leave their phones in a basket my the door - security really . Although she did take a photo of the front door 😂
In circles where ‘staff’ ensure cleanliness, and flooring can easily be replaced there is never a ‘shoes off’ rule. Or so I’m told.
Indeed. I didn't notice all the big wigs in their finery of sashes and medals traipsing along the red carpet unshod to the state banquet in Windsor castle last night.
This is the Clooneys' business but personally I wouldn't do that, any more than I would place a basket by the door with slippers in for people to remove their shoes. I partly understand the need to be the king of one's castle but well socialised people don't need that degree of policing. The next question is whether you actually let strangers into your home. Of course we all do - I think - tradespeople - can we really relieve them of their phones? However, I did once ask a cleaner to turn her phone off as she was always whispering. She refused, saying she had to be available if there were a phone call about her children from school.
I would understand their wishes if I were a stranger or infrequent visitor but a friend? I would be disappointed and annoyed that they clearly didn’t trust me.
They probably do trust 98% of the people who come to their home implicitly. But it would be impossible to insist some people follow the rule and others don't need to - plus at times friends probably bring friends and family that the Clooneys don't know that well. They are probably not a threat either - but it only takes one in need of money to pay his/her debts.
Friends are welcome to photograph our home and record conversation but won't be able to sell them anywhere. The Clooneys at home would sell for megabucks! Quite right they don't allow phones in.
I agree, friends should be trusted and trustworthy. If you suspect others to have ulterior motives meet them away from your home and your children. Good friends should be treated like family.
The Clooneys are rich, famous and political. My feeling is "they're not like me". So it doesn't surprise me that they have different rules and these sorts of rules in particular. For all their advantages and benefits famous people have the downside of people trying to use them and make money out of them. I know that's a big "Boohoo" but I can see that you would certainly want to protect your children. People recording and photographing is a massive "thing" these days particularly for younger generations so see the need to take precautions. I would never do it with my own friends obvs.If you can't trust them then they're not your friends.
'It’s important to get that balance where you have time alone with your family and with your friends where people feel like you can have a safe and frank exchange. And I would say becoming a parent means you’re more troubled by some of the intrusions.
I have copied and pasted this quote by Amal Clooney.
They must invite some very odd people to their home(s).
My friends don't take photos of my house, or of any children in it. Therefore I have no rules about photography. The Clooneys, presumably, have different considerations. Therefore they have different rules.
No comparison, and neither situation is 'extreme' - it's just a case of adapting to the circumstances.
I would understand their wishes if I were a stranger or infrequent visitor but a friend? I would be disappointed and annoyed that they clearly didn’t trust me.