Regretted Purchases.

Hellsbelles

I'm getting to the stage of why keep stuff I don't use or wear . It takes up a place physically and sometimes in our mind . Pass onto charity or someone you know will appreciate it .

I'm getting to the stage of why keep stuff I don't use or wear . It takes up a place physically and sometimes in our mind.

I will keep repeating that.

I've just offered that expensive duvet to someone, used for two nights only 🙂
It seemed too good for the dogs' home.

I did Middlemarch for A level, and really struggled. It is a book about marriage, about a dozen in all, and at 16, what does one know about marriage?

I read it again at about 40, then - at 70 I studied it at an evening class with a brilliant teacher and now I love it. It is a book of its time and unless you have the knowledge of the period and its social background, you cannot plumb the books full complexity - but it is still a good read at any level.

pascal30

You could sleep on it,, under a sheet. Then have a light duvet on top.. I find I keep really warm in an unheated bedroom in the winter by doing this..

I have just bought a heavyweight wool duvet for underneath the sheet.

Our top duvet is only 10.5 tog. The whole bed is warm and you don't feel like you are being pinned down by a heavy duvet. We have a king sized bed and king sized duvet. I can't image a double duvet. I would be uncovered for most of the night!

I bought the wool duvet instead of a mattress topper. Plus I prefer natural fibres to man made.

Also the cost:

Wool duvet - £60
Mattress topper (memory foam) - £150.

Babs03

Middlemarch by George Eliot, was a book I never read but was on a list of books in the Guardian as 'must reads' several years ago.
Is still on the shelf mocking me, along with War and Peace.
They would probs make good door stops though.

Babs03 middlemarch is in my top three favourite novels, do give it a try!

Does your dh not hog the duvet calendar girl? We have a kingsize bed with ks duvet & my dh has perfected the tuck & roll. I'm often having to get out of bed & yank the duvet back especially the bottom end. I bought a super king duvet & cover but it was way to big, I kept tripping over it.

Naughtyneine

I have a feeling I'm going to regret last Thursdays purchase. For some reason unknown to man I decided I had to have a pair of pink sparkly boots from M and S that were in the children's department but went up to size 6. The size 5 fitted me perfectly...I am going to be 70 in December 😂😂😂..they are still lurking in a bag on the back seat of the car. I haven't plucked up the courage to show DH yet...he already thinks I'm completely ditsy. ( I think he might be right)

Wear them!

Paddyann. Good point.

I keep hanging on to it because if we get a really cold winter, I shall probably use it again.

But the last few winters have been fairly mild, on the whole.

I know you are in Scotland, so probably colder there.

And MissA, I would feel obliged to have it laundered and dried before passing it on, don’t know if it would fit in a commercial washer even, and to have it professionally cleaned….no wonder people just buy a new duvet when one is grubby, there must be hundreds going to landfill.

Too many clothes to mention, but the rice cooker annoys me the most. It goes in the microwave and is no quicker than cooking it on the hob. Keep forgetting to biff it but I’m working my way around the kitchen cupboards so I’ll get to it.

Where to start? Looking back at photos, I see clothes, furniture, curtains thatI wish I had never bought, and eventualy gave away or took to a charity shop. The worst disaster was a Parker Knoll suite which, when it arrived, was completely the wrong colour for the room, and as hard as a brick to sit on. That lasted two years - we could stand it no longer and wrote it off as a bad job.

I am sorting through things that are not really anything that I regret that we bought, because they gave us pleasure or were useful for a while.

However, they are now surplus to requirement, and as I am re-decorating the kitchen this seems the right time to get rid of jugs, vases, dinner plates etc. etc. etc. that are never used any longer.

Witzend Probably different in your area but I know animal rescue centres in my county stopped taking duvets a few years ago. Blankets, towels, yes, but no duvets. Think tgey were regarded as too difficult and expensive to wash/dry.

My DH is the one for regretted purchase. He started reading a John Grisham novel and now we have a bookcase with two shelves full of every one he wrote. I don't think he has read any of them. Also got 2 shelves of cd's that we can no longer play as we haven't got a cd player and the car uses a pen drive. My daughter and I are going to do a car boot so I have much to sell.

MayBee70

I’ve only recently realised that I’m an impulse buyer, and internet shopping makes it even worse. And I’m always buying things that will make my life better and more organised only to find that nothing is ever going to make me organised. Also I’m surrounded by things I’ve bought at car boot sales and charity shops, especially furniture from when I was obsessed with Annie Sloane paint. But my biggest mistake was buying a two seater sofa with a footstool instead of the three seater which I actually needed. It’s Parker Knowle leather, incredibly well made and very good value as it was ex display. But it isn’t long enough to stretch out on and the foot stool is too big for my small living room. It’s too good to give away and no one seems to want sofas these days anyway. If I have. TKR I’ll need a comfortable sofa. I just don’t know what to do.

I've had 2 TKR. I'd have loved a 2 seater. Perfect for a back against a cushion at one end, feet propped up over the other end. I typically only sit in chairs, but needs must - propped feet after TKR.

paddyann54

Sorry Calendargirl why wouldn’t you give it away if it’s not being used? It’s just taking up space and could be useful to someone who would use it or needs it.I,ve never sold anything from my house I always pass it on…including full kitchens ,sofas bedding and new curtains I,d rather do that than keep things I don’t want or need

I wish I lived near you.
I'd be front of the queue.

wibbleswock

One of my daughter’s friends gave her a bit of advice ‘but clothes for the life you have, not the life you think you want’! The same goes for anything in the house 😂 It’s made us both stop & think…. I have bought less, ming you I have some very weird stuff I bought in the past! I am the proud owner of a cast iron pan with semi circular hollows for making round batter things filled with apple 🤷🏻‍♀️, some really expensive ribbon shoelaces, unused, a set of suction cups to remove cellulite 😂😂

Sounds like you are describing a Scandinavian pancake pan. you can use ordinary pancake batter and a knitting needle to turn the batter balls, you can dust them with icing sugar and have any jam on the side, no need to fill with apple, we mostly do not do that any more. Enjoy, they are one of my favourite treats and of course I have a pan too.

They sound fabulous! Do you follow awomancalledgeorge on insta? She started ‘sparkle Friday’ where you wear something glittery and glam every week. Why not try it? Puts a smile on my face each time I join in.

I'm getting to the stage of why keep stuff I don't use or wear . It takes up a place physically and sometimes in our mind . Pass onto charity or someone you know will appreciate it .

An air fryer. I bought it because DH likes to fry noxious smelling meals for himself, often including reduced price fish. The smell lingers for ever and is enough to give me a migraine. I hoped that an air fryer would help take care of that, but, alas, he often forgets it is there. On the other hand, the electric diffuser is one of my best ever buys.

Yeah if they work 50% don't

One of my daughter’s friends gave her a bit of advice ‘but clothes for the life you have, not the life you think you want’! The same goes for anything in the house 😂 It’s made us both stop & think…. I have bought less, ming you I have some very weird stuff I bought in the past! I am the proud owner of a cast iron pan with semi circular hollows for making round batter things filled with apple 🤷🏻‍♀️, some really expensive ribbon shoelaces, unused, a set of suction cups to remove cellulite 😂😂

Sorry Calendargirl why wouldn’t you give it away if it’s not being used? It’s just taking up space and could be useful to someone who would use it or needs it.I,ve never sold anything from my house I always pass it on…including full kitchens ,sofas bedding and new curtains I,d rather do that than keep things I don’t want or need

Best way to sleep comfortably with a duvet, is each person has their own. Some lighter, some warmer, some down, some man made fibres. You'll sleep better and deeper. Get your own duvet. If you're a big fella and think the single is too small for you, then use a 3/4 size duvet, it's wider and longer.

Everybody's talking 'bout those kinky boots, kinky boots!

They're um... to use a well worn, and unimaginative word, they're lovely.

Here are the boots...😂

I had some very tiny beads .
I glued them to some rather tired Christmas baubles.
They looked very good and one friend had some as an early Xmas present to put on her tree.