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School Prefect Questions- Could You Help Please?

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TheMostSuprisingGran Sat 07-Sept-24 21:19:38

My 10 year old granddaughter is living with me. She gets on well enough at school, enjoys it, but is shy and lacks self confidence.

She came home on Friday saying she would like to try to become a school prefect. She has been given a form to complete with a few questions, which needs to be in on Monday.

The thing is, I don't know what to put. I want to help her but struggle myself.

Can anybody suggest what we should put for the following questions?

A Why have you chosen to be a prefect?
B What qualities do you have that will support your role as a prefect?
C What responsibilities do you think you will have as a prefect?
D How would you contribute to the school community?

She is 10 years old, it's a small primary school. I am glad she seems enthusiastic about this. I know it might not happen. I just want to support her as best I can. I'm at a loss to know what to write.

I would appreciate any pointers. Thank you. sunshine

TheMostSuprisingGran Thu 03-Oct-24 21:57:03

GD was successful! I'm so very proud of her ☺

Allira Thu 03-Oct-24 22:44:25

Well done to your DGD!

V3ra Fri 04-Oct-24 06:33:30

Congratulations to your granddaughter TheMostSuprisingGran!
I hope she enjoys her role and the responsibility 😊

escaped Fri 04-Oct-24 06:38:48

Excellent news!
She should be proud of her achievement. It will stand her in good stead.

karmalady Fri 04-Oct-24 06:54:06

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biglouis Fri 04-Oct-24 12:37:05

I agree with the posters who said that being a prefect has nothing to do with academic ability. If it had I would have been chosen as I was always top of the class. However I was also rather rebellious and got away with a lot on the strength of being a "teachers pet".

I never once stayed for detention or attended sports day. I never looked really smart because my mother bought me second hand uniforms. I also broke a boys nose in my first year at secondary school (although it was in self defence). I think the teachers would have been better pleased if I had reasoned with the bully rather than giving him a whalioping.

Doodledog Fri 04-Oct-24 12:54:17

I don't think the OP suggested that the role has anything to do with academic ability. As often as not the prefect role is a way of teachers recognising different skills in children. The academically able get rewards for that, the sporty ones win on sports days and in competitions or represent the school on teams. The ones who can act or who are confident get role in plays, the arty ones have work on display etc.

IMO a caring school should look for ways to reward every child for something, so they all have a stake in the school community one way or another. A prefect can fulfil that role with or without abilities in other, more obviously recognisable, talents.

Congratulations, OP. You must be very proud of your granddaughter, and she should be proud of herself, too.

MissAdventure Fri 04-Oct-24 18:28:23

Oh, well done!
That's lovely news. smile

Grantanow Fri 04-Oct-24 18:34:49

I was never a Prefect - mainly I believe because the Head disliked me and I disliked the Head but I did get the best A level results in school which was more important to me at least.

MissAdventure Fri 04-Oct-24 18:39:59

The wider world is made up with brainboxes, prefects, teachers pets, good all-rounders, all kinds of people.

I wasn't a brainbox or a prefect, or even a good all-rounder.

We're all cogs in the big old wheel called life, each playing our part.