My son would be 40 in May. I lost him to cancer age 26. His younger siblings are now age 37 and 35, which messes with my mind. I'm so blessed to have my other son plus my daughter though, and 3 grandchildren. He was just about to get married to the girl he'd met at school 10 years earlier . She's now 40 and hasn't met anyone else, it destroyed her. I'm blessed I saw him reached adulthood though, and I knew the man my child became. What shocks me too is how my tiny first grandchild is now at secondary school and she's nearly as tall as me .....how did that happen! 😂