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Synonyms for ‘Fat’ that aren’t Cringeworthy…?

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FannyCornforth Thu 12-May-22 09:55:39

Hello! smile
I am fat.

But I do not like saying ‘I am fat’.

But neither do I like ‘curvaceous’ (probably the best of a bad bunch); ‘cuddly’ (bleugh); ‘curvalicious’ (give me strength); or the word de joure ‘thick’ (confused)

Can you think of any acceptable, non-cringe words for not being slender? Because I can’t

Thank you!

Durga Fri 13-May-22 13:16:32

Polly73. I love “The art teacher look”

Didolizzy Fri 13-May-22 13:15:49

My husband says I’m ‘substantial’ ! ?

Callistemon21 Fri 13-May-22 13:15:06

Perhaps I'll stick with traditionally built like Precious Ramotswe

Nanny2020 Fri 13-May-22 13:11:58

How about a woman of size , or a woman with generous proportions !

tattygran14 Fri 13-May-22 13:10:38

A bit off point, as usual, but in America clothes for overweight youths are described as 'husky'. Somehow, I find that very funny.?

PamQS Fri 13-May-22 13:07:10

I decided to own my fatness, and started saying I’m fat if I need to describe myself. I found it interesting that some people react with distress, or even shock, if you describe yourself as fat!

Other than ‘fat’, I think the word ‘stout’ was used a few generations ago to describe someone of generous proportions. There’s also ‘well-covered’.

Of course, some cultures would describe us as beautiful!

Gwenisgreat1 Fri 13-May-22 13:02:22

I am well rounded!! How does that do?

sharonarnott Fri 13-May-22 12:56:57

As far as I am concerned I am fat and it's that simple. I don't look for alternatives to sugar coat it. I just say it how it is when talking about myself, fat or seriously overweight are the only words I use. I hate the word plump it makes me want to scream, sounds like the way you'd describe a chicken with plenty of breast grin

Happysexagenarian Fri 13-May-22 12:55:22

My grandfather once described a 'large' lady relative as 'a woman of substance'.

And while shopping with my grandmother one day she drew my attention to a lady with a very large posterior striding along on the other side of the road and remarked with a chuckle "Hey up head, my arse is coming!"

I too am very overweight (steroids problem) but I don't mind being described as fat, it's what I am. I'm too old now to be easily offended. But if my Mum was still around I'm sure she'd find a way!

Candelle Fri 13-May-22 12:51:26

I don't think dress size is an indicator of shape/size.

A size 14 is a squeeze for someone who is short but 'heavy' but perfect for someone of the same weight but eight inches taller.

One would have to give height and weight detail to give a more accurate self-description - and who wants to do that?!

Tilly8 Fri 13-May-22 12:47:28

In Disney world language larger people are described as “Pooh sized” - won’t suit everyone but probably a kinder word than lots of others ??

Candelle Fri 13-May-22 12:45:19

In the States, the euphemism 'heavy' is used, as in "I am a little heavy at the moment".

coast35 Fri 13-May-22 12:44:37

An aunt of my husbands greeted him with : Oh you are very portly! He was.

Tilly8 Fri 13-May-22 12:43:29

In Disney World language they call it “Pooh sized” - won’t suit everyone but a nicer way of describing us with a few extra pounds ?

Interested Fri 13-May-22 12:35:27

Buxom, Comely, apple shaped, a petite curvy

Moggycuddler Fri 13-May-22 12:30:19

I am a plus size lady, or "I take a larger size?"

DeeJaysMum Fri 13-May-22 12:28:05

@sodapop

I was told I had childbearing hips and then I proved it by giving birth at 37 weeks to a 10lb 14oz son, naturally, no stitches etc.

Big boned does actually apply to me, I had a density scan done years ago. ?

I'm kind of lucky in that I'm 6ft tall, so my weight is slightly disguised.

I have been called a Real Woman and a BBW - Big Beautiful Woman in the past but here's a fun one for you Fanny ...

Your height has slipped to your hips

How's that one for size? (Please excuse the pun)

Forestflame Fri 13-May-22 12:27:18

Voluptuous!

farmgran Fri 13-May-22 12:27:16

Just say 'I'm a big girl'

AiryFlyingFairy Fri 13-May-22 12:19:03

My Sister in Law calls herself a 'Big Girl'. She's a Gran herself.
It makes me ? makes her sound like a teenager. But a nice way to put it I suppose

Omaoma57 Fri 13-May-22 12:18:06

In germany they have shops dedicated to the uberfrau…love it

jenpax Fri 13-May-22 12:18:06

Curvy is lovely except I am pear shaped so not sure I can get away with that? I tend to say I am “not exactly thin”

Madwoman11 Fri 13-May-22 12:16:33

Beautifully upholstered ?

Magenta Fri 13-May-22 12:13:47

I’ma size 30/32. I’m fat.
I prefer to describe myself as voluptuous. I said to someone recently, ‘think Vicar of Dibley with white hair’.

Pandrews Fri 13-May-22 12:10:26

In the winter I describe myself as 'well lagged', I also love the description of a larger lady being 'warm in the winter and providing shade in the summer!!'