I joined ancestry.com as although I easily traced the biological mother who arranged my private adoption before I was born, I had no idea of my biological father except that he’d been in the Canadian or American Army during WW11.
Ancestry showed me he was a married American GI and that I had three half siblings. He had died in the 1980’s and so had my eldest half brother. Both of them had the same given name as my eldest son!
I truthfully can’t understand why some people are uptight regarding their dna. It’s not as if it contains your address, photo and direct phone number.
Things that (sometimes unreasonably) get on your nerves...hopefully lighthearted
Is funeral planning a conversation you've had with your family?


