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Which country would you choose to live if you couldn’t live where you are?

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crystaltipps Fri 06-Dec-19 07:41:10

If you had to flee the country you are currently living in, which country would you choose to live in? I would happily live in Ireland, Italy, France or Canada - all places I’ve lived in or have family. I wouldn’t want to live in Australia - too hot or the USA - too many guns. But haven’t visited either, so I suppose it boils down to the familiar.

jura2 Fri 06-Dec-19 20:26:32

annep ''Italy is lovely but too hot in summer. Perhaps I could winter there.''

it really depends where, Italy is very very varied in 100s of ways, climate too.

Newquay Fri 06-Dec-19 21:08:11

I’m like Bluesky-would love to live in France but couldn’t leave my family here.
So Alan what did you not like about France then?

Mypennyfarthing41 Fri 06-Dec-19 21:16:18

For myself it would have to be Italy, then the French countryside - to develop a château of course, and shop in the local food markets. Bliss...

Chapeau Fri 06-Dec-19 23:13:10

Afghanistan, Syria or Georgia. Love them all.

Saetana Sat 07-Dec-19 01:12:02

The Netherlands - we spent about 18 months in total over 3 trips on working holidays there in our 20s. Let's just say the ethos of that country on certain issues was a perfect fit for us. Having said that, there is no place like home - which is the UK and, more specifically, England (south and north, we have lived in both).

BradfordLass72 Sat 07-Dec-19 01:34:26

It was not my choice to come to New Zealand but having landed here I fell in love with the place.

However, I have had to address this question as both my sons went back to the UK to work and talked about settling there again.

So it would be back to Cornwall for me and before anyone tells me Cornwall is not a country, there are some hard-core Kernow people who insist it is - and not a part of England. smile I respect their views.

Thingmajig loved this bit: the current husband - you are clearly a forward planner smile

grannyactivist I'm sorry you met some dreadful people in NZ.
I don't deny they exist but in my 45 years here I haven't met many like that and I've worked mostly with refugees, immigrants and Maori, so would certainly have encountered it in those areas if it were rife.

Certainly the overall feeling in the country is not one of racism, the recent nation-wide outrage at the mosque bombings was a case in point, with people speaking out against it in huge numbers; taking to the streets in their thousand and raising millions in suppport.

Nor has misogyny and/or sexism been an issue and as it is something I feel strongly about, I'd be trumpeting against it, were it commoin here.

Greengage Sat 07-Dec-19 01:36:10

A deserted Scottish island for me! Often dream of escaping.

Barmeyoldbat Sat 07-Dec-19 07:18:57

If I was fleeing the country I would choose one that welcomed immigrants because that is what we would be. So it would be Holland for me, lovely welcoming people,

dragonfly46 Sat 07-Dec-19 07:28:48

The Netherlands - lived there for 18 years and loved every minute.

Framilode Sat 07-Dec-19 07:31:08

Glamanana I used to live near Denia, in the Jalon Valley and agree with you about Altea. Spain has fabulous lakes and mountains in the Cantabria area. It is such a diverse country with every type of scenery.

If not Spain, I would choose either Holland or New Zealand. My parents lived in Holland for 10 years and I think it is a country that has its priorities right.

sodapop Sat 07-Dec-19 07:45:35

Be careful what you wish for Mypennyfarthing41 it's not all its cracked up to be.

mancgirl Sat 07-Dec-19 08:34:26

Framilode then you will know what I'm talking about when I say we're off to the Rastro this morningsmile

Framilode Sat 07-Dec-19 08:54:52

Certainly do mancgirl. Have fun. We have just bought a holiday home in Alcalali. Need my fix from the Jalon Valley.

MaggieTulliver Sat 07-Dec-19 09:11:19

Germany. It’s a beautiful country where everything runs smoothly and it’s run by intelligent, tolerant politicians.

henetha Sat 07-Dec-19 10:05:12

Canada for me, partly because my brother lives there.
But I fell in love with Australia when I went there because of the friendly openess of the people.
Having been to Germany several times because I have old friends there, I think I could quite happily live there. It's such a well run country.
I quite fancy parts of America too, but the gun laws are off-putting. And the present leader...

Hm999 Sat 07-Dec-19 10:15:16

NZ

GreenGran78 Sat 07-Dec-19 10:26:03

It would have to be Australia, because three of my ‘children’ live there. I’m visiting now, and will be back in May, when my latest GC will be born.
The climate doesn’t much suit me, though. On hot days I have to either stay in with the air-con on, or migrate to the nearest shopping mall to keep cool, and I hate shopping! Any exercise has to be taken very early in the morning. Not ideal for someone who prefers cold weather.

Callistemon Sat 07-Dec-19 10:48:42

So it would be back to Cornwall for me and before anyone tells me Cornwall is not a country, there are some hard-core Kernow people who insist it is - and not a part of England. smile I respect their views.

It's nearly separate from the RUK BradfordLass (but not quite!)

gillyjp Sat 07-Dec-19 11:08:23

A Greek island - Kefalonia or Paxos but not sure I could get used to the isolation in Winter. Failing those I would opt for Granada, Spain - would love to be able to wander around the Alhambra at will whenever I fancied it.

tanith Sat 07-Dec-19 11:55:45

Gibraltar or Wales for me my son lives in Gib and I love to visit it’s such a friendly safe place, it’s a quick flight for the rest of the family to visit and a walk across the border to Spain, you can see the snow topped mountains from the Rock and many beautiful beaches.

Purplepoppies Sat 07-Dec-19 15:50:33

Certain places in Bulgaria appeal to me, definitely with a sea view ?. I think I'd follow the sun. I think I'm suffering from SAD at the moment.....

Shizam Sat 07-Dec-19 19:25:19

Brighton!

Speldnan Sun 08-Dec-19 14:24:15

New Zealand as my son lives there. However they wouldn’t take me because of my age and to be allowed to live there you have to have a large amount of savings or an income.

whywhywhy Sun 08-Dec-19 14:26:47

New Zealand then probably Norway. x

Mebster Sun 08-Dec-19 16:35:55

Guns are a problem in the US, but mostly in crime infested areas. I've lived here for 66 years, including 30 in journalism, and have never been near a shooting to my knowledge, except legal hunting and target practice. This said, we have far too many but many of us don't feel the impact.
Wish we had the NHS, good trains and theater like the UK. I'd move there in a minute if not for grandkids.