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The D. And D. Of Sussex In The News Again.

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Calendargirl Wed 02-Oct-19 07:42:53

Looks like the Daily Mail is being sued by them regarding a private letter from the Duchess to her estranged father.

Who is behind the letter being shown to the paper? An unhappy member of their staff? Or Mr. Markle maybe?

merlotgran Thu 03-Oct-19 08:29:20

I can imagine the royal red pen is busy striking out future overseas tours for H&M.

Davidhs Thu 03-Oct-19 08:40:45

Dysfunctional family. Her mother is OK no problems there, as a couple they could not have foreseen her fathers behavior. The fact that they were divorced is hardly unusual these days, once the media got at her family and exaggerated all the issues it went downhill fast.

Anniebach Thu 03-Oct-19 08:52:28

I agree with starbird Harry needs professional help.

He is too eager to share his emotions publicly as did his mother. Megan is his wife not his mother , and remembering
how his mother exposed her two sons to the cameras , it
must have been so troubling and causing him to go to far the
other way with his son.

He needs to follow his brother’s example of separating duty
and private life.

annsixty Thu 03-Oct-19 08:52:33

If I found it hard to get out of bed because I was worrying about the world, I would not even bring one child into it never mind contemplating more.
That is the height of selfishness if that is what you truly believe.

Oopsminty Thu 03-Oct-19 08:57:10

"Pinkquartz, we do not KNOW that it is a fact."

WE do know that it's a fact!

It was on Radio 4. Harry said these words .... in fact I've just googled and here is a filmed clip of the broadcast.

This is why Meg's family went rogue and to be honest I don't think I blame them!

twitter.com/bbcr4today/status/946026492085063680?lang=en

gallusquine Thu 03-Oct-19 09:04:11

Same sort of bullying tactics we see reflected on here, it’s a nasty way to behave. ?

bingo12 Thu 03-Oct-19 09:05:04

Davidhs - you did not see her step-sister's several appearances on ITV? And then there is her step-brother....? Apart from her mother and father, these are her closest relatives - although as the saying goes - ''One can chose one's friends but not one's relatives''.

annsixty Thu 03-Oct-19 09:05:48

Of all we read that he has said is true I truly think he has MH problems and as other posters have said he needs help.
It is sad, he latched onto Meghan as a person to give him all he needs.
I hope she realises this and is prepared to help him through it and take a back seat herself.

Anniebach Thu 03-Oct-19 09:09:31

Her family must have been expecting an invite to the wedding, didn’t receive one and so went public and they were
defending their father.

Can both sides of her family be disfuctional ?

grapefruitpip Thu 03-Oct-19 09:20:08

He is probably getting help for MH problems. It's incredibly common. Let's face it, none of us know them.

Davidhs Thu 03-Oct-19 09:30:03

The problem is that relatives were paid by the media and coached to say something controversial and damaging about Meghan. A few thousand dollars make most ordinary people. very loose tongued, revealing more than they intend.
It would have been ideal for Harry to find a family like Kate’s that are squeaky clean and know the score, the fact is that not many eligible young women want to live the life of a Royal, with intense media attention 24/7.

merlotgran Thu 03-Oct-19 09:32:23

Harry knows the ropes. He knows what the public expects in return for funding them. Instead of encouraging and helping Meghan to ease into royal life he's jumping on her bandwagon in a wave of self pity. Meghan is a good public speaker but makes it all about her while Harry gazes adoringly from the sidelines. If they want a celeb lifestyle they should relocate to America and fund themselves.

Pigs might fly.

JenniferEccles Thu 03-Oct-19 09:49:54

This is the point as merlotgran has said. Harry knows the score about what is expected from the royals in return for their life of wealth and privilege.

The problem is his wife appears to have ignored advice she must surely have been given about how to conduct herself as a royal.

As long as Harry remains besotted with her I fear nothing will change.

For all his faults I feel most sorry for Thomas Markle.

He must wonder what on earth happened to the much loved daughter he was once so close to.

gillybob Thu 03-Oct-19 09:53:03

hard to get out of bed because I was worrying about the world

But not too hard that he can't still lead the luxury lifestyle of exotic holidays and private flights etc. If he can't get out of bed in that multi million £ cottage of his, with no job to worry about, no mortgage or bills to pay and everything his heart desires at the click of a finger (including all the mental health professionals that money can buy) then what hope for anyone else?

Really the pair of them need to give their heads a good wobble !

Lovetopaint037 Thu 03-Oct-19 10:00:04

I think I read that the paper said it was in the public interest. What tosh! Personally I don’t read the Mail or Sunday Mail as I hate their sensational headlining which cares nothing but to sell their rag of a paper.

gillybob Thu 03-Oct-19 10:01:24

For all his faults I feel most sorry for Thomas Markle.

Yes me too JenniferEccles there are faults in all families. People say and do things out of sheer desperation . I cannot for the life of me understand why she has denied her own father the chance to meet his son in law and grandson.

Anniebach Thu 03-Oct-19 10:11:47

The Americans love the royals, her family must have been so
excited, quite probably seen royal weddings on tv.

Bang, no meeting the groom, no invite, explain that to friends and the American press.

bingo12 Thu 03-Oct-19 10:20:06

I was shocked to read that 8 Range Rovers and their own personal Range Rover were shipped out to South Africa for the trip -because they could not find vehicles in South Africa secure enough. Luckily it was paid for by the manufacturer of Range Rover - but surely that company is doing RF a great ''favour'' here? Must have cost a fortune. (With so much crime in S.A. I think secure cars are, in fact, obtainable). What about that carbon print ? - will they be shipped back again?

grapefruitpip Thu 03-Oct-19 10:20:29

It can be hard to get out of bed if you are not well. I'm not sure enormous wealth helps really.

Gonegirl Thu 03-Oct-19 10:25:01

"need to give their heads a good wobble"

Can we not use that phrase for a few days, just while I've got the lurgy. It makes me feel sick.

annsixty Thu 03-Oct-19 10:26:03

So anyone now buying a Range Rover will find the price increased to pay for that cost.
The shareholders are are not going to pay out of the goodness of their hearts of their love and admiration of H&M.

gillybob Thu 03-Oct-19 11:05:35

It can be hard to get out of bed if you are not well. I'm not sure enormous wealth helps really

Tell me about it Grapefruitpip . But funnily enough he does manage to get out of bed though doesn't he? Especially to travel on luxury holidays and take trips around the world. Strange that innit?

gillybob Thu 03-Oct-19 11:06:21

So anyone now buying a Range Rover will find the price increased to pay for that cost

Exactly annsixty .

Jaycee5 Thu 03-Oct-19 11:15:20

suziewoozie Totally agree. There are people on this site who can't wait to have a go at MM.
Just because people do a job that involves being in the public eye, it doesn't mean that they are made of steel and what she has had thrown at her is horrendous.
I don't think she has any option but to sue, and we all know what the Daily Mail is about and who owns it.

gillybob Thu 03-Oct-19 11:18:40

I couldn't give a monkeys toot about mm to be honest, I just hate the sheer hypocrisy of these 2 .