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morethan2 Mon 30-Sept-19 17:48:41

That’s it really. Suddenly everyone looks twelve.
We’re having some work done and new kitchen and a kitchen fitter has just been. I kept thinking “I hope you know what your doing sonny” when he mentioned getting home to his wife because it was his 7th wedding anniversary.
What with that and suddenly not being able to open food packaging I’m must be getting old...oh and a Very kind younger women gave up her seat on the underground for me the other day so I must be looking old too. I’m only 66and 3/4 grin

Rissybee Tue 01-Oct-19 10:40:23

I'm 74 and agree with all these comments. I used to be a bit miffed but now I think isn't it wonderful that people care, that good manners still exist and I'm offered a seat near the front of the bus.

sue01 Tue 01-Oct-19 10:40:21

Haha. I told the chap at our local Garage I used to be a Mod in the 1960s... and he said he'd done Mods as part of his History exam course !

Hetty58 Tue 01-Oct-19 10:39:37

I remember well that utterly mortifying moment when I was offered a seat on a bus - at 62!

I can't read any small print without my glasses (and good light) so I often don't bother.

Does anyone else have to suppress inner rage when offered help and advice by (what looks like) a child? My doctor, dentist, bank staff - are all kids!

dragonfly46 Tue 01-Oct-19 10:36:29

Morethan I have problems with packaging too. I cannot even seem to be able to pull open a bag of lettuce and the tops on milk bottles are impossible. Are they using stronger glue do you think or are we just getting old?

00mam00 Tue 01-Oct-19 10:36:22

In the last year I have been offered seats on the tube many times. I am 73 but used to kid myself I looked much younger with my snazzy buzz cut and big red glasses, but people are now seeing through that sad

LondonGranny Tue 01-Oct-19 10:34:13

One of the local kids who's doing a school history project asked me if I was an evacuee doing the war! I'm 64! I was able to tell him lots about my parents and grandparents in the war though so he went away happy.

jaylucy Tue 01-Oct-19 10:30:34

Still being under retirement age and still looking for work, it is a bit disconcerting to walk into an interview to be met by one (or usually 2) 12 year olds sitting across the other side of the desk !
You can usually tell by their facial expressions if you are likely to get the job !
I did once ask an interviewer if there would be a problem with the fact that I am obviously more mature and was told that there wouldn't. Was then taken around the building and into the office that I would be working in - not one person looked as if they were enjoying their job ! (Mind you, the pay was pretty rubbish and they topped it up with "benefits" that in my experience , I would probably have never used) I wasn't too bothered that I didn't get it after that!

Oopsminty Tue 01-Oct-19 10:26:49

Oh Rosina! That made me laugh. Not sure I should have done though!

Stansgran Tue 01-Oct-19 10:23:09

@Rosina I quite agree we look far too young to be getting married and many dead or sadly seriously ill when I look at the group photos of our wedding. I am always delighted when people offer me a seat or offer help as it shows that good manners and care for others is not a thing of the past.

fizzers Tue 01-Oct-19 10:21:24

A good many policemen/women look all of 12

Tricia5 Tue 01-Oct-19 10:19:08

It’s the stupid questions in hospital that I object to! “Can you count backwards from twenty?” Response ‘of course I can but why would I want to!’ Answer not acceptable. Tough!

Newatthis Tue 01-Oct-19 10:19:08

Sadly yes, it's called getting old. Sometimes I hear people of my age 'putting the world to right' or saying 'this didn't happen when I was their age' etc etc which reminds me when I use to get the bus home from school and could hear the then middle aged people saying the same thing. Sadly my nephew who is 6 was really shocked when I told him I remembered the Beatles, so shocked he ran out to tell all his friends!

mbody Tue 01-Oct-19 10:18:31

I think all local councillors are playing truant!!!

Rosina Tue 01-Oct-19 10:15:25

Our wedding photos have become quite scary; we look like teenagers (we certainly weren't) and practically everyone in the group photo is now dead!

grapefruitpip Tue 01-Oct-19 10:08:31

12 year olds ask me if I have an email address. They obviously think I am too old to manage this new fangled technology.

harrigran Tue 01-Oct-19 10:05:43

The first time I saw my consultant I thought he was doing work experience with a parent.

POBCOB Tue 01-Oct-19 10:04:10

My niece is a doctor and although 27 looks 15, wish I did?

Davida1968 Tue 01-Oct-19 10:02:45

I thought that the lovely nurse who did my flu' jab (most proficiently) looked about twelve. Then someone mentioned that she'd just returned from maternity leave!

Oopsminty Tue 01-Oct-19 07:06:22

Yes sunseeker! I was just about to comment about doctors. My local GP's has lots of new doctors. I've seen 2 or 3 and indeed, they all looked like they should still be in school!

sunseeker Tue 01-Oct-19 06:59:08

Mentioned to a friend yesterday that when I last saw a doctor - he must have been about 15

rosecarmel Tue 01-Oct-19 02:53:19

I think teens looked considerably older and mature in the 1950s and 60s than teens today- Not saying it's a bad thing either way-

rubysong Mon 30-Sept-19 23:56:34

When certain 'experts' appear on the breakfast TV programme we frequently comment "he/she is going to be late for school!"

Grannybags Mon 30-Sept-19 21:08:29

I had to laugh when my granddaughter went back to school after the summer holidays and my DIL complained that her new teacher was only 12 years old - my DIL is only 35!

GrandmaKT Mon 30-Sept-19 20:50:53

A few years ago DH and I were watching an article on the evening news about buying properties and mortgages. They cut to an interview with a 12 year old. Cue for DH to start ranting "Why are they asking her? She's not old enough to have a mortgage, she'll live at home with her mum and dad!". The interviewer continued - "So, as Housing Minister.....". That shut him up! shock

nanou Mon 30-Sept-19 20:22:15

Don't worry, I had the same situation on the tube. I thought I looked ok for my mid-sixty, perhaps a bit younger but on 2 occasions somebody gave me their seat. hmmm, makes you wonder hmm