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ineedamum Sat 24-Aug-19 18:38:41

Thanks DanniRae, I feel embarrassed admitting in real life!

Phoenix- I have a very small budget- are they more expensive? How do they work in practice?

mosaicwarts Sat 24-Aug-19 18:38:15

Will you be driving a regular route? I had anxiety about driving to Newcastle, but then got a job at Newcastle Airport and HAD to do the drive. Eventually it became automatic, and my nerves went, I even enjoyed listening to the radio.

I've got a manual car, but would like an automatic, saves your knees!

Sara65 Sat 24-Aug-19 18:37:44

Totally agree about automatic though

Sara65 Sat 24-Aug-19 18:36:15

I very carelessly caused a lot of damage to my car a few weeks ago, several thousand pounds worth, no one else involved, on my own property, just a matter of trying to avoid one thing, and hitting something else. But since then, I do wonder if my judgements a bit off, it was such a stupid mistake.

phoenix Sat 24-Aug-19 18:33:21

I would fully endorse a small automatic!

No worry about clutch, changing gear etc, leaves you more able to concentrate on where you are going, looking out for other vehicles and what they are doing!

I was "lent" an automatic about 10 years ago, possibly more, and even though I'm "only" 61, I would never consider going back to a manual!

DanniRae Sat 24-Aug-19 18:25:47

I have it too so am interested in any answers!

ineedamum Sat 24-Aug-19 18:10:16

I've had refresher lessons and the feedback was your driving is fine- but your confidence had gone today, (I am stressed)
He didn't suggest further lessons but said have you thought about a small automatic just to deal with your confidence first? He said if I'm honest you may not pass your test (I passed ten years ago) but it's just your confidence.

I did drive two hours through a city centre though after a stressful week (I had a bout of IBS, which is rare that's how bad my week was!)

I'm not in a good place to buy a car today- but how have other people coped with driving anxiety?