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Fun question - when did you realise you were getting older?

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Vintagegal13 Fri 16-Aug-19 08:48:02

Mine is I am more excited to be going home, than to be going out!

M0nica Fri 16-Aug-19 11:36:29

When people offer me a seat on the train.

Chewbacca Fri 16-Aug-19 11:43:17

It was when I put on a sleeveless top and noticed the crepey skin that dangles from my upper arms; the knots of blue veins that snake up the backs of my hands and the jowls that hang from my face when I lean forward.

netflixfan Fri 16-Aug-19 11:47:33

Sorry to say this but uncontrollable trumps

sunseeker Fri 16-Aug-19 11:50:40

When my much younger sister in law wouldn't let me carry a box downstairs because "I'm aware you are 70 now" Lovely girl but I could have slapped her!!

Madsad Fri 16-Aug-19 11:55:15

It's when I look at my friends of a similar age, (late fifties) & they are starting to move like an older person, & have wrinkles.
I feel facially, I'm aging quite well but I walk like an old woman!

Shoequeen53 Fri 16-Aug-19 11:55:30

When a charming young man handed me a basket in a supermarket to “save you bending over”.

nipsmum Fri 16-Aug-19 12:00:02

I was beginning to feel old before my daughter reached her 50th birthday. When your granddaughter asks if you saw real dinosaurs, hi

Aepgirl Fri 16-Aug-19 12:00:07

When I crouched down to get something out of a low kitchen cupboard, and had to grab hold of the work surface to get up. When did I lose the strength on my upper thighs?

LuckyFour Fri 16-Aug-19 12:09:46

When I told someone my age and they didn't say 'oh you don't look it' like they used to.

EllanVannin Fri 16-Aug-19 12:12:02

Taking a jumper off in one go. Why does it roll up your back then stop at the shoulder area ?

Lins1066 Fri 16-Aug-19 12:16:30

I was browsing in M&S on Monday when a quite large teenage girl, about 16-17 pushed past me. A man following her called to her to say ' be careful you nearly knocked that old lady over'. I was lost for words, my DH thought it was very funny. I did not.
To add insult to injury, the man had more grey hair than me. ?
And yes I too see my mother when I look in the mirror.

Craftycat Fri 16-Aug-19 12:17:35

The first grey hair! Since then it has been highlighted regularly so they don't show.

Lins1066 Fri 16-Aug-19 12:17:58

Should have said, I'm 64............

sodapop Fri 16-Aug-19 12:19:25

Which was worse Lins1066 the girl pushing you or the man's comment smile

tanith Fri 16-Aug-19 12:23:34

When after being called Nanny by all my Grandchildren for over 25 yrs my eldest GS started calling me Granny and when I asked why, he said well Mum (my daughter) is Nanny now I’ve got a baby so you’re elevated to Granny position. ?

Now all of them call me Granny.

EllanVannin Fri 16-Aug-19 12:24:49

In myself I honestly feel 55 ( nearing 79 ) it's through lack of exercise that the limbs let me down. I don't do half as much walking as I should----weather not conducive. My excuse !

Yes, there's the odd day that I feel about 100 but fortunately it's short-lived and I find that I can soon " bounce back ".

Then again I'm not running a house, just a 1 bedroomed s/c flat and neither am I looking after anyone-----both of which make a huge difference to health and well-being.

Elenkalubleton Fri 16-Aug-19 12:49:57

When I struggle to get out of the bath! Have to turn on to my knees and put a flannel on edge to get a grip and haul myself up,I do aqua twice a week so reasonably fit.Also can’t stay out late drinking to much! Takes to long to recover!

Theoddbird Fri 16-Aug-19 13:01:47

I decided at 60 to age in reverse....made sense. So I am not 68 I am 52...hahaha

Helennonotion Fri 16-Aug-19 13:02:04

netflixfan - Indeed! It seems to happen to me a lot when I bend over! Hugely embarrassing in company! It always reminds me of Petula Gordeno (Brens Mum, Julie Walters) on Dinnerladies. She had a problem in that dept, which I found highly amusing when I was younger. Not so much now! shock

SparklyGrandma Fri 16-Aug-19 13:06:20

When I realise I prefer comfort ahead of very fashionable, in everything from comfy shoes and clothes, to not going out to moist evening events..

Christable Fri 16-Aug-19 13:07:24

Looking at face cream in Boots. When the No7 sales assistant told me the mature cream was on a different shelf. I’m 56. The mature cream is for mature ladies not youngsters like me!!!

Oldandverygrey Fri 16-Aug-19 13:12:59

When my son in law started to assist me in getting out of his car - quite shocked me at the time, but can laugh about it now. (I think).

Hazeld Fri 16-Aug-19 13:24:15

Same as Teetime sad

Riverwalk Fri 16-Aug-19 13:28:09

to not going out to moist evening events.. hmm

Riverwalk Fri 16-Aug-19 13:29:45

That was to Sparkly.