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It wasn't until I was 70 that ....

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Marmight Wed 14-Aug-19 19:01:02

I was told that broad beans not only had to be taken out of their cosy furry pods, but had to have their skin removed after cooking. I don't think my Mum knew that either which is why I always loathed them ? Having just spent an age doing just that (practically the length of Bach's Double Violin Concerto which I was listening to at the time) to a small handful of beans, I have come to the conclusion that Life is too Short.
What have you discovered in later life that you never knew before...?

Calendargirl Thu 15-Aug-19 11:30:23

A friend of mine, not yet 70, was surprised when I told her how to extend the life of rubber gloves when one perished. Just turn say a left one inside out and it can be used on the right hand, but the rubbery outer layer is not so good without the flock lining.
She used to try and manage with say two left gloves, not easy!

Witchypoo Thu 15-Aug-19 11:30:35

Lefty loosey-righty tighty. Works for screws or almost anything that needs turning as in taps

Nanny41 Thu 15-Aug-19 11:31:14

OMG just learnt what a Dental Dam is,what a discovery!

essjay Thu 15-Aug-19 11:31:18

when driving my friend always says to me (if i am giving directions) is that left/right with the mouth or with the hand as i nearly always have to point with the appropriate hand. Funny i dont have the same issue when i am driving - just as well.

GabriellaG54 Thu 15-Aug-19 11:37:02

Highly intelligent. Dyslexic. Some ubiquitous reasons for mis-spelling, not knowing left from right etc.
I won't type more.
It's always satisfying to have reasons.
No offence...naturally, just repeating parts of some comments.

GabriellaG54 Thu 15-Aug-19 11:38:55

Some people should never be be behind the wheel of a vehicle if they don't know right from left or brake from accelerator.

GinJeannie Thu 15-Aug-19 11:39:04

I was approaching 70 when discovered the condition Dyscalculia. It's the numerical equivalent of Dyslexia and symptoms fit me to a T! I struggled constantly with Arithmetic /Maths at school tho excellent at all aspects of English/spelling. If only this had been known 60 years ago I could have had extra help in Maths! Even now I avoid banking where poss and don't mention following directions on a journey!

RosieLeah Thu 15-Aug-19 11:41:28

I sit with a dictionary beside me but still mis-spell some things.

Actually, if you want to learn something new, try reading a dictionary, one of the old ones. Lots of information as well as words which are seldom used these days.

hellsbells148 Thu 15-Aug-19 12:05:44

I'm 54, quite undaft, and it took me until quite recently to be confident of my left and right. I think there's a lot of undiagnosed dyslexics out there in this generation and before...still productive, highly intelligent human beings though.

4allweknow Thu 15-Aug-19 12:07:34

Such a long time since I heard of a dental dam. Its a small sheet of very thin rubber (used to be black). A very small incision is made in it then slipped over a tooth (incisor ) preventing moisture getting onto the tooth from gums etc. It is stretch and held in place with clips. Used for delicate treatments.

hellsbells148 Thu 15-Aug-19 12:08:40

GabriellaG54 that's an entirely different thing - somehow with your feet and driving it works in an entirely different way. Anyone agree?

annifrance Thu 15-Aug-19 12:25:46

There you go again Gabriella, dissing lovely people who do not conform to your stringent qualifications of the norm. You must lead a very sad life devoid of the milk of human kindness.

I can't tell my left from my right, I'm not dyslexic, my son is and can differentiate between the two. I am a safe driver, have always had a no claims bonus. However I can do it in French and Italian. Can you?

mcem Thu 15-Aug-19 12:29:13

Would like to add that GN has taught me that there are more rude and dismissive characters around than I've ever met in RL. Seems to me that these putdowns and criticisms are posted only to boost the ego of the poster!

giulia Thu 15-Aug-19 12:46:05

Well said ANNIFRANCE! I never did like the "holier-than-thou" attitude and have noticed it a lot on Gransnet. It's offputting.

Jillybird Thu 15-Aug-19 12:56:11

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

TrazzerMc Thu 15-Aug-19 13:05:18

Quite a bit off 70 but only found out in the last couple of years what the envelope type thing is for at the top of baby’s vests! It’s so yo can slide the vest off the shoulders and down the body instead of lifting it over the head.... especially useful if you’re dealing with a yucky leaking nappy !

FC61 Thu 15-Aug-19 13:05:23

BradfordLass72 - I’ve had two big shocks this week but yours is the biggest ! I’ve always been regarded as pretty smart, IQ 148 plus etc. But the first shock was I’ve got to 60 being half Scottish half English and never realising the border isn’t straight as in West to East! So I was feeling a bit thick when I looked up dental dam! I was thinking ? type of root canal ? OMG ?! (Vagina isn’t that surprising but anus?) I’m simply not going to ask. I’ll just sign up for old and past it.

annifrance Thu 15-Aug-19 13:17:01

Congrats FC1, that's Mensa level and above.

grandtanteJE65 Thu 15-Aug-19 13:35:55

You don't need to be rude, Gabriella, lots of people find it difficult to distinguish left from right, however odd you and I might find it.

I taught dancing for years, so I can assure you that at least half the population have trouble with it, and any driving instructor will back me up on this.

annodomini Thu 15-Aug-19 13:39:16

As my mind was boggling, I looked up 'dental dam'. Well, I never!

essjay Thu 15-Aug-19 13:52:25

totally agree with you hellsbells148, have never had a problem with my feet when driving. if we all had no little quirks or small faults then we might as well be robots but then even they are not perfect. its all these little bits that make each and everyone of us what we are

Greciangirl Thu 15-Aug-19 14:07:53

Got to 70 and started to feel old.

jocork Thu 15-Aug-19 14:14:56

One of my friends at university couldn't easily tell left from right but got a better grade degree than me. She is certainly not stupid and I think it is quite a common problem.

I had to google 'dental dam'. blush

You learn something new every day - or so they say!

Llamedos13 Thu 15-Aug-19 14:42:39

And here she is again GABRIELLA 54 with the fists up!

Kim19 Thu 15-Aug-19 15:09:47

I'm almost embarrassed to admit that I used to sing (and love!) a nonsense ditty which I thought went 'Maisie dotes and dozey dotes and little amzey tivey. A tideley ivy too. Wouldn't you?' Actual..... Mares eat oats and does eat oats and little lambs eat ivy. A kid'll eat ivy too. Wouldn't you? 70 indeed!!!