Toilet Talk

I hate mixed toilets, the majority are all right, but some are disgusting particularly when men have used them, wet all over the floor, trying to manage long trousers before sitting down is a problem, not wanting them to fall into the wet on the floor,toilet seats up isnt nice, I dont like touching them to put them down in place.Ladies toilets are for ladies and gents for men IMHO I may be old fashioned but sticking to my guns on this.End of rant.

Nanamac

Haha, just noticed, my bladder control isn’t too good either

Warmthlover

This was a very big new one, maybe they don’t all have them, but this one was very clean

The example of the monthly accident is so important, also the puchasing of sanitary products when caught short. Would you really want to stand in front of a man and purchase one and then go into the cubicle to use it with him outside? Companies are not going to want the expense of putting one machine in each cubicle.

Even more important in schools, where the girls can get mocked.

I wouldn't worry about people washing hands. I'm sure we touch things all the time that other folk have touched. I dont use perfumed soap. So just water for me.

Too many shocking posts to comment individually but goodness communal changing rooms!!.

I think individual cubicles for loos is the future.
I think its perfectly ok to not want men to hear me peeing even if it is normal.
The jokes some comedians feel they can make about normal bodily functions are disgusting and I can see that the audience do not all appreciate them.
I despair of the modern world. (And I'm not an old fuddy duddy)

Us girls use layers of toilet paper to wipe, men hold theirs and then open the door of the cubicle.....aargh! And that is assuming they then wash their hands before leaving! Doesn’t bear thinking about does it?

I’ve carried anti-bacterial gel for years now and rub it on before leaving the house and on arriving home. Also use my sleeve or scarf to open doors in public places.

If you use a toilet in somewhere like a doctors waiting room, there is usually just one toilet and a wash-basin, used by anyone who needs to. That doesn't cause problems. The problem lies, I think, in the fact that in a public toilet, there are others using it as the same time as you. When it is other women, you don't feel uncomfortable...when there are men present, you do.

I don't like the idea of unisex toilets at all. Last year in London we came out of a tube station and across the road was an open area for men to use. I'd never seen anything like it before or knew of such a thing.

I've visited toilets where one is labelled women and the other men - yet on looking in both they are exactly the same! One was in a restaurant. My friend went in one and I in the other! They were both very clean. However some women insisted on using the women's in spite of there being no differences and therefore had to queue unnecessarily.

In my working days in a very male environment there were often no women's toilets available and so I used the mens - fortunately with no problems at all except surprise by those at the urinals when I emerged!!!

Does that mean the men will join us in the queue?

I am one of those people who don't wash my hands because I use hand gel and try not to use hands to open doors I also see people not wash their hands in supermarket then go grabbing trolley and do their shopping if we worried about everything to do with hygiene habits of others we would never go out .

I dont like enclosed spaces and try always to use loos where there is a gap at the bottom or top of the door.
It isnt alway possible to find them especially on holiday where often the toilets are unisex.
I Last year my husband stood outside of the toilet door (it opened straight out onto a corridor) to prevent anyone opening the door on me while I was using it. He said never again !!

I will use any toilet available when I need to go, public, supermarkets, behind a bush etc. If I am in doubt about how clean it is, then I simply hover over the loo. I have IBS and always seem to need a loo. Anyway its not good for our health to hang on, so I have been told.

Our local hospital has unisex toilets and I have no problem with them, after all disabled toilets are unisex.

I definitely think it's time to ditch that idea of a row of toilets just separated by flimsy partitions. How can you really relax and do a smelly noisy poo with a group of women chatting and putting on lipstick just inches away? Also having self-contained with a basin in the toilet slightly increases the possibility of someone cleaning up after themselves if they "missed". After all who wants to come out to the row of washbasins in front of everyone then go back into the cubicle with wet tissues to clean up their smears. It's just too embarrassing

Have found good and awful public toilets. Supermarkets usually are reasonable. It is a shame that places install a facility and the great public abuse then. I am not for the gender neutral toilets. I have seen men coming out of toilet areas still zipping up, usually waiting on DH outside in say a department store. As for self declaration of gender, beyond belief, does that mean anyone can 'change' gender whenever it suits them.

I'm just back from Rhodes & I had a strange experience in a loo. The apartments we stay in have a bar that used to have 2 loos-one men-one ladies. This year they have installed a shower in one so the other is unisex but the cubicles are labelled men or women. One evening I went to use ladies & there was a very nice man there with his 2 small girls so I waited for the lady one. The other one was being used by a chap. When the girls had finished their dad insisted he wait outside until I had finished as the lock was broken & he wanted to ensure no-one walked in on me as he knew some of the younger lads used whichever one was free.
I didn't really want him to but he was so pleasant about it that it seemed churlish not to agree. It was all fine but I did feel a bit odd with him outside while I had a wee. I don't know why we are all so odd about what is a natural thing we all do but I do prefer a proper ladies room.
Having said that Greek toilets often leave a lot to be desired!!

I am more concerned about people, of any gender, washing their hands afterwards. At least if I see excreted matter I can avoid it - door handles etc hide goodness knows what

The article in the OP is suggesting single cubicles, to be used by one person at a time, not the type of shared facility we are used to.
Floor to ceiling walls & door and sink included in each cubicle (some of which would be accessible/disabled toilets). That is, in fact, already the legal requirement for a 'unisex' toilet.

Good point Tigertooth. You made me laugh out loud Roseyanne!

The worst thing I found in loos was in a nearby seaside town, a man asleep on the floor!

Never been near since.

I used a toilet in a new cafe recently and jumped out of my skin when a man appeared out of the next door cubicle. I thought I was in the men's loo by mistake but, no, it is a unisex loo. A women came in when he was explaining to me and she immediately backed out again. I remember years ago arranging to meet my sister and her friend at the brand new swimming pool in Aberdeen. I walked into the changing room and there were men as well as women and children in various stages of undress. It was unisex! I left immediately and went straight to my sister's to warn them. They just laughed and set off without me! She is 11 years younger than I am. Perhaps its and age thing? (The woman in the restaurant was about my age.)

There was a similar thread recently. I mentioned that I was in Brixham with a friend recently. She needed the loo and the public one was unisex. She was very uncomfortable as there was a man in there.

No mention made of disabled or accessible toilets. These are for use by all and usually very clean. Except for one at Malaga airport which surprised me as the airport itself it quite new, very clean and their assistance was the best.
Also a lot of accessible toilets are combined as nappy changing areas. Again no issues.

Our Tesco toilets are always spotless. But I definitely don't want to share with men! They are not always spotless, and anyway it's embarrassing.
I'm with annepl, -- I detest this gender neutrality thing.

Speaking as an IBS sufferer I often have urgent need of toilets while out and about. Whenever possible I'll go to a supermarket, large store or restaurant/pub as communal public loos are rarely clean. I definitely would not want to visit a unisex toilet in that situation. Neither do I like the automatic coin operated cubicles that are in some places, I always fear the door is going to burst open too soon! We ladies want privacy and cleanliness, that's not too much to ask surely.