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Witzend Tue 30-Jul-19 19:07:24

Dd and SiL are expecting no. 3 - bit of a surprise baby! - in early January. They already have one of each, so for once they opted to know the sex - a girl.

Today I've been trawling through names to try to help, since whichever name one of them really likes, the other doesn't because there was a nasty little baggage at school, etc. etc. And dd is getting in a tizz that they'll still be dithering at Christmas.

And it's got to be something that won't date, not twee or trendy, or celeb-ish, or that nobody's ever heard of, etc.

I've been looking at the baby names threads on MN - not much help there - either rejected already or too 'younique' for dd and SiL.
So difficult!

Ellie Anne Wed 31-Jul-19 20:12:31

Mirren is becoming popular here.
I like Esther and Rosemary

watermeadow Wed 31-Jul-19 20:14:55

It’s hard nowadays because there’s infinite choice. On my family tree, for hundreds of years, the same few names predominate.
Girl? Anne, Elizabeth, Catherine.
Boy? John, William, Richard.
Now, by wanting a yoonique name, parents choose daft or ugly names. I know a girl called Rees and a boy called Ty.

Grandma70s Wed 31-Jul-19 20:17:40

I agree Rosemary is lovely, and I have often wondered why it doesn’t seem to be used any more. Perhaps it’s coming back.

If I’d had a daughter she would have been called Caroline.

SparklyGrandma Wed 31-Jul-19 20:29:56

I have a DGD called Florence, my grandfathers sister, born 1893 was also Florence, with the same surname.

What goes around, comes back. If I had had a DD our plan was to call her Rebecca or Emma.

That was the late 1970’s.

GrannyGravy13 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:30:29

Our C and GC all have traditional/old fashioned names, we have 2 babies due in the next 5 months and one of the names for one AC is Mavis.

Callistemon Wed 31-Jul-19 20:31:56

I knew a Mavis Davis (just saying in case Mavis GrannyGravy should happen to meet and marry a Mr Davis one day).

GrannyGravy13 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:33:22

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Littleannie Wed 31-Jul-19 20:37:14

I knew Isabella Bell.

SparklyGrandma Wed 31-Jul-19 20:37:31

Oo watermeadow those names are all used in one side of my family, you are not Welsh are you?

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:51:34

I like what I always think of as ‘maids names ‘
Daisy
Polly
Florence
Annie
Hetty
Kitty
And many more

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 20:56:07

A few years ago now, my friend had a new grandson, I asked what they had called him, there was a slightly embarrassed pause, and she said, he was Stanley, we both looked at each other aghast before going into fits of giggles!

Of course, Stanley’s now are ten a penny

Grammaretto Wed 31-Jul-19 21:49:53

We know a Stanley who is starting university this year, so it had not gone away altogether.

Rhymes can be a problem and any girl name ending ie or y can be a bit too cute for some buxom young ladies.
Polly, Daisy, Rosie, Bonnie... for little girls it's one thing but then they grow up.

Grammaretto Wed 31-Jul-19 21:55:15

Then there are the unisex names such as Robin, Jo, Chris and Pat so that you can't be sure from a letter whether you are speaking to a man or a woman. I quite like that ambiguity. It stops people judging you right away perhaps?

Patsy70 Wed 31-Jul-19 22:11:23

My DGDs are Madeline (Maddy), Megan, Gabrielle (Gaby) & Matilda (Tilly), which I love. I also like: Florence, Flora, Elizabeth, Charlotte (Lottie), Harriet, Annie, Sophie and lots more that I can't think of at the moment.

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 22:12:54

Grammaretto

I agree to some extent with what you’ve said, but don’t you find people seem to grow into their names, I really can’t imagine any of my children/grandchildren being called anything else

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 22:14:29

Patsy70

Agree with your choices you, we have several of them

Patsy70 Wed 31-Jul-19 22:15:35

Oh, yes, Hannah and Alice. I also had a whiskery old aunt Mabel (who wasn't really an 'aunt', but a friend of my great aunt). We thought they may have been 'more than friends'! shock.

BradfordLass72 Wed 31-Jul-19 22:18:04

I have to laugh when I read about teachers and children having trouble writing 'made up names' .

How would they cope here with Te Rongopai o Kahurangi (that's just the first of several names, not including surnames)

Maruata-ranginui-te-Opotoki; Tanenui-o-Tepakanga and so on.
All these children with traditional Maori names have no difficulty at all to writing their full name, which may include up to 6 family names as well as the one they are typically called by.

It makes 'Kyelely' also in the class, look very mundane.

Hopikins Wed 31-Jul-19 22:29:04

One of my GDs is named Annabelle, but likes to be called Annie. My Mother born in 1908 was named Annie and hated it and liked to be called Eva. Few people seem like their own name.

Grammaretto Wed 31-Jul-19 23:37:44

It is true Sara65 that we grow into our names and when I first heard our DGD telling someone her name, it was a precious moment.

My name is short. One syllable and so was my surname which is truly one of the reasons I changed to my husband's name - to get an extra syllable.

Hetty58 Thu 01-Aug-19 05:58:59

I automatically dismissed any name suggestions that my mother made (for my four) as I thought they'd be far too old fashioned. Of course, now they're back in favour for my grandchildren.

Sara65 Thu 01-Aug-19 07:29:58

When I was at the park at the weekend, there was a little girl called Barbara, that’s unusual now

dinks13 Thu 01-Aug-19 07:31:23

Love the name Ivy (Conker, a few posts up). My DD has said if she has a daughter she will call her that, it’s probably still a few years away though so she might change her mind by then, hope not.

Sara65 Thu 01-Aug-19 07:51:28

It’s funny how things come around, all my old aunties names are back in fashion
Laura
Harriet
Eva
Elsie
Lily
Evelyn
Nell
Ginny
Daisy

Aunties Eileen and Marjorie don’t seem to have had much of a comeback though

Marmight Thu 01-Aug-19 09:40:24

I have a Harriet, a Maisie & a Nell in my close family.
My MiL was Gladys. Heaven forbid that becomes popular again. How any parent could look at their babe and decide to saddle her with that ....
FiL called her 'Glad'. ?