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Witzend Tue 30-Jul-19 19:07:24

Dd and SiL are expecting no. 3 - bit of a surprise baby! - in early January. They already have one of each, so for once they opted to know the sex - a girl.

Today I've been trawling through names to try to help, since whichever name one of them really likes, the other doesn't because there was a nasty little baggage at school, etc. etc. And dd is getting in a tizz that they'll still be dithering at Christmas.

And it's got to be something that won't date, not twee or trendy, or celeb-ish, or that nobody's ever heard of, etc.

I've been looking at the baby names threads on MN - not much help there - either rejected already or too 'younique' for dd and SiL.
So difficult!

Callistemon Wed 31-Jul-19 12:09:41

As the DD of a Mabel I can assure you that they were not all fuddy-duddy whiskery great aunts.
Some were adventurous, energetic, fun-loving young women although they may have become great-aunts in later life!

Mauriherb Wed 31-Jul-19 11:58:05

Wait until she is born. Often a name is chosen in advance then changed after birth. Sometimes you can just look at the baby and a name just comes to mind

gillybob Wed 31-Jul-19 11:50:12

Isn't it funny how you associate names with people you knew in the past ? (well I do anyway) .

Fat names, thin names, nasty names, common as muck names...... (all to do with people I used to know as a child).

My late grandma was Irish and her name was Bridget. She said she used to quite like her name but when she came over to England some people called her Brid-shit so she began to hate it.

Sara65 Wed 31-Jul-19 11:43:06

Abuelana

Lovely name, Sarah

Diggingdoris Wed 31-Jul-19 11:36:20

Floral names are on the rise again and just looking round my garden here's a few suggestions.
Lily, rose, marigold, daisy, Poppy, myrtle, and many more. Good luck, let us know what they decide eventually.?

Nannytopsy Wed 31-Jul-19 11:26:30

As a Jane, can I add that people still ask how to spell it! "Is that with a y?" "NO!"
Flora, Martha?
There is a song "I wish my name was Clementine"

rosieod1 Wed 31-Jul-19 11:25:45

My granddaughter is called Meztli. It's a native American name and means moon

cheekychops61 Wed 31-Jul-19 11:21:35

My daughter is expecting a little girl within the next couple of weeks and they have chosen Anna probably Anna Rose or Anna Louise. In the primary school where I work there is only one Anna, so it's a little bit different.

Marmight Wed 31-Jul-19 11:12:19

I like the name Mirren which is similar to the Cornish Merryn mentioned before. Bit different Scottish/Irish. I had 3 girls and still love their names .One would have been Sophie but we took one look at her and decided against ?. Another would have been Francesca but too many C & K sounds with the surname.. So many things to take into consideration when choosing names..
(I have an acquaintance with a Sam and Ella. Say it quickly?)

paddyann Wed 31-Jul-19 11:10:10

bradfordlass they knew that as it was plant/flower names they looked at .Rowan and Willow were the other favourites

Alexa Wed 31-Jul-19 11:00:54

Names that don't date are names of English queens.

Abuelana Wed 31-Jul-19 10:58:40

My DD called her 8 week old Sarah which I really didn’t like. However got used to it and baby suits being a Sarah ?

Jacqui1956 Wed 31-Jul-19 10:56:28

My granddaughter is called Aila it’s Scottish Gaelic and means from the strong place

evianers Wed 31-Jul-19 10:50:36

Methinks one has to be very, very careful. Our staunchly German friends have a daughter married to a Jewish gent. {That was a horrible shock to both families, but we wont go there}. Obviously without thinking of the implications, this couple then called their daughter names with the initials SS! Good grief! Couldn't they have given it a little more thought?

Lupin Wed 31-Jul-19 10:48:53

Funnily enough I was thinking about names earlier and recalling the names of girls in my class- All of them label us from our era - 40s/50s.
I like classic, timeless names that don't do that. My daughters have one apiece.
However - your daughter and son in law will probably hear a name with their hearts not just their ears, and choose that.
I hope you all have fun choosing. I was asked for suggestions for my grandsons and I enjoyed looking through the baby name book and being a part of it.
Wishing you joy in your surprise granddaughter.

PS I can't resist. I like the names Lorna, Isabel, Emily

Some

NaughtyNanna Wed 31-Jul-19 10:40:08

We had "definite" first and middle names for DS1 but they just didn't suit him when he was born. He ended up as Huw (Welsh spelling) and strangely, it couldn't have been Hugh either!!

Jan51 Wed 31-Jul-19 10:39:05

My young granddaughters are Chloe and Ruby.

Gizzy48 Wed 31-Jul-19 10:37:41

A teacher friend was told the name of one little girl, which sounded like Chenille. Nice. Then saw it written down: Shneal.

I dislike names that are spelt obviously wrong. I taught a Mercades. She'll have to go through her whole life explaining it. And I taught another whose name sounded like Michael a but was spelt Makiala. In both cases I think the parents really couldn't spell.

I have a particular thing about Jonathan. I keep seeing variants which just scream "wrong" to me:
Jonothan (no, dear, you're getting confused with John o'Groats)
Johnathan (no, it's NOT just a longer version of John)
Jonathon (no, it's not a long-distance race).
Incidentally in every case when I first typed those names, my spell-checker firmly corrected them.

Teetime Wed 31-Jul-19 10:33:00

I wanted my daughter to grow up with a strong name to see her through her whole life. The books I was reading at the time were about Helen of Troy and Empress Josephine so she is Helen Josephine and she loves her name. She married a man called Power so 'Helen Power' is the force that gets things done in our family. smile

Witzend Wed 31-Jul-19 10:32:55

As I've already said, granny4hugs (and anyone else who thinks I'm trying to choose for them) it's because dd asked me to look for suggestions!

BTW at first I thought your username was grannythugs - I must need new glasses.

jaylucy Wed 31-Jul-19 10:32:19

I just think they should wait until the bub arrives and a name will arrive with her that will suit her perfectly!

granny4hugs Wed 31-Jul-19 10:22:24

Errr... WHY are you spending so much time searching for baby names? It's not your baby???

Missiseff Wed 31-Jul-19 10:18:27

I think it should be left up to them to decide

0wlfred Wed 31-Jul-19 10:12:22

I would not worry too much but keep it simple. So often we end up with a nickname anyway. In my youth I was called Fatty, Tubby and finally Fred; I survived!

gillybob Wed 31-Jul-19 10:12:17

I love the name Mabel it’s so pretty . My DD loved it too but it clashed with Her surname which is why she ended up with an Evie smile