Gransnet - So helpful

I agree, and was thinking of posting something similar. The support and information that Gransnetters provide are really useful - that's why I joined.

I agree, I’m relatively new, but have picked up quite a fe tips and ideas, and related to many of the discussions, surprised at how addictive it is, I’m meant to be working right now!

I am “ironing”? whilst watching This Morning and occasionally glancing at GN,

It’s a fabulous forum, all are made welcome ???

Well said... this is a great site, even if you just want to offload and not expect any replies....ofcourse, you do get replies but even if you don't, its nice just to be able to write everything down.

I agree, it’s a nice site! ?

Like everything it has it's ups and downs but in general Gransnet is interesting . I always enjoy browsing and like all the banter.

Yes, it is. There are a lot of wonderful people on GN who offer lots of advice, support and encouragement. I’ve found it very helpful.

I love the site it's definitely become my daily " fix ". You never feel alone with any problem be it small or not so small. It's a brilliant idea.

Yes, the power of knowing others are going through stuff is amazing. Its one of those things that seem so obvious once you have accepted the fact that pretty much everyone around you must have 'stuff' to deal with and yet we still feel isolated in our pain. It was not until a councillor spelt it out to me that I began to understand myself more.
So many of us were brought up to put a face on and keep a stiff upper lip. Yes, those nearest to us might have an inkling but the friendly neighbour who sees you every few days has no idea.
I was sat chatting to a lady I only knew slightly (a new neighbour) when she began to explain what she was coping with and how alone she felt and how she felt just a little resentful that I always looked so cheerful. I smiled and gently told her that so many people have stuff going on - and they only really unburden themselves when they feel a real connection. I hinted at a couple of things I was dealing with and assured her that she was far from alone.
She was older than I and was dealing with a complex family but it had never dawned on her that so many people have similar issues. Days later we met up again and she thanked me for helping her understand that she was not alone - as if I had given her a huge solution to all her problems. It seemed so obvious to me....(having had the counselling, I'm suddenly an expert!!)....and now she too was beginning to see that we all have troubles. Yes, Gransnet really does help us cope a little better and I do hope it continues in it friendly and supportive way. There will always be the odd balls who like to 'stir' but thankfully most of us are old enough and wise enough not to rise to the bait.

Nicely put Hilda

That's exactly how I feel hilda

What I like about GN is the wide number of people you come in contact with, people with entirely different backgrounds, experiences, joys and sorrows. People I would not otherwise meet in ordinary life.

Agreed Hilda

Agree - I've learnt a lot about relationships here, and also other useful stuff like the name of a plant I have! Lots of very knowledgeable people here. I've become an addict .

Gransnet has supplied me with enormous support over the years in some challenging situations, and I greatly appreciate that.

One day , 16 months ago I was in the darkest of places and alone. I reached out to GN , I cannot say 100% , no one can, but i truely believe the care and support I received here saved my life.

Not forgetting the support you give back Annie

I also agree. I have learned so much from this site. Not just practical things but also about the rich variety of human life experiences and personalities. I feel that if the need arises, I have somewhere to turn for help and advice. Gransnet at its best.

Anniebach.......and you give such sympathetic and compassionate replies to others.

I like GN, and I sometimes just have a look to see what others are saying.

Welcome Grandmacong
Yes, realising you are in ‘the same boat’ as others is often a comfort on it’s own.
I first came on here looking for info about conservatories, made notes of all the advice and it really helped get us the conservatory we wanted ( to use all year round) and even the make of some good cane furniture for it.

Who says we can't be all things to all people?

We women can be owt we choose