Gender neutral nursery???
All my C & 4 of our GC had gender neutral nurseries as we did not know whether they were boys or girls. ( neither blue or pink, and with a selection of "neutral toys & books)
We have always taken photos of babies feet and hands.
As for the "staged photos", myself, D and DiLs could barely stand for days post partum, they presented the baby to the world, so it wasn't on the steps of a hospital- so what.
The majority on here are Grandparents and therefore have been new parents, take a moment to remember how you felt and how you would feel reading this thread if it was about your family!!