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Panache Sat 13-Apr-19 17:37:34

A place of great warmth,caring,and understanding,where love flows daily.

dragonfly46 Tue 16-Apr-19 18:06:49

soop that is brilliant news. I am on anti oestrogen therapy and apart from right at the beginning have no side effects. How kind that they rang to let you know.
Both my oncologist and surgeon, two women, are very kind.

TOYA

Anneliese63 Tue 16-Apr-19 19:06:11

Soop That is such good news! I think you are being treated so very well in your part of the country.

DH is very doddery this week and his speech is really bad. Can’t wait until next week when we see the specialist and find out exactly what the problem is.

It’s lovely to hear about DGC and the fun things that you are doing. But many of us have problems and worries, so TOYA. ?

Doodle Tue 16-Apr-19 19:12:28

Good news soop. That must be a positive result ?
Well done Cooper. That’s a big achievement for a boy! ?
Annaliese. You must be worried about your DH. Hope you get some good help from the GP .

cornergran Tue 16-Apr-19 19:48:43

The lodgers have been deposited home. The house elf produced lunch and sanitised the kitchen post baking before a beach walk. Phew. We’re relishing the quiet, much as we love them they can be oh so noisy. Don’t think either would qualify for a badge for keeping quiet n&g, we’ll done to Cooper.

Sounds a worrying time for you anneliese, not long until the consultant appointment now.

Molly was certainly the right decision ann, she sounds both characterful and loving. Hope your husband has settled and you are easier in your mind.

That’s good news soop, pleased for you.

Oh, seagulls callgirl, there was an earnest discussion between the young ones over breakfast this morning comparing nuisance factor of seagulls and magpies. Seagulls won. smile. Hope alls well with Archie’s family now and he won’t need b&b again.

Hope the appointment was at least a little helpful panache and the process not too exhausting.

Some sorting and tedious cleaning also needed here greyd, we also leave the chores when young ones are here n&g, there are more fun things to be doing smile.

Feet up time now. Take care everyone and TOYA

1inamillion Tue 16-Apr-19 21:31:17

That is such good news Soop I'm so pleased for you and for MrSoop - wishing you a safe trip to Glasgow. A happy day indeed.

Hope your appointment was ok Panache

Well done to little Cooper.

You are so right Ann common courtesy goes a long way.

Charleygirl5 Tue 16-Apr-19 22:02:56

soop that is really good news- you and MacSporran can relax for a little while again.

Ann silly me thought that your troubles were over with H now he has been moved but as others have said, common courtesy goes a long way.

N&G I keep forgetting that young Cooper is still only 4 years old- he really is doing so well and he does look proud with his latest achievement, Very difficult thing to do for a little boy of his age.

Panache if you are not happy with today's discussion, maybe have a question for the consultant ophthalmologist who will be answering questions on GN.

Corner with luck you will sleep well tonight as it sounds your kitchen duties were high on the list when the GC were visiting.

anneliese you must be very worried- not long until you will see somebody next week.

The photos of all of the children are gorgeous- all so natural.

callgirl1 Tue 16-Apr-19 22:03:20

I missed your post earlier Soop, how very dare I? That`s wonderful news! Onwards and upwards now!
My son has also had an encouraging phone call from the hospital, where he is into his second week of radiotherapy. He`s been told that they are definitely targeting the right area, and that the mass appears to be shrinking. It has made him feel a little more positive. My other 2 daughters are taking turns, along with his wife, in driving him the just over 30 miles to the hospital every day, and on Thursday I`m going along for the ride, and a change of scenery.
TOYA

Nannytopsy Tue 16-Apr-19 22:09:11

That is good news Callgirl and I am glad the family have rallied round.
Does anyone know how things progress with *Morethan2” and her family?

cornergran Tue 16-Apr-19 22:12:41

Good news callgirl wishing your son well.

annodomini Tue 16-Apr-19 22:56:42

That's very positive, soop and good news too for your DS, callgirl. N&G, good picture - can't wait to see Cooper with a black belt!

annsixty Wed 17-Apr-19 07:44:12

Another one thinking about morethan as I think she was expecting a GGC around this time.
It would be a GC for the very ill DiL.
So much sadness for so many families both on GN and the wider community.

dragonfly46 Wed 17-Apr-19 08:01:24

callgirl that is wonderful news about your son. It is good they took the time to call him.

ann I hope your day goes well.

TOYA

Anniebach Wed 17-Apr-19 09:14:20

At last Fred’s new home is being built. He has spent the winter in my hall, very small hall, his front end in the bathroom, couldn’t close bathroom door , loo faces front door !

annodomini Wed 17-Apr-19 09:40:01

I had to think about that, Annie, but eventually realised that Fred is not a 'who' but a 'what'. Your mobility scooter?

Swanny Wed 17-Apr-19 10:03:03

Another one here hoping for news from morethan and delighted with the news from callgirl and the ever-positive soop

Looks like being a good weekend weather-wise. I always feel sorry for seaside traders if it's wet/cold/windy at this time, as Easter traditionally kicks off their season.

Annie lovely to see you again, you are often in my thoughts.

Ann pleased you have recovered from your nasty bug and hoping your H is being well-cared for by the professionals.

TOYA sunshine
PS Coffee and walnut cake on the side for elevenses today.

1inamillion Wed 17-Apr-19 10:13:09

That's such good news for your son and all the family Callgirl and all the family. My very best to you all.
I'm so glad things are moving for Fred Annie - no pun intended?
Coffee and walnut cake, yes please. Nobody else likes it here so thanks very much Swanny
TOYA ?

1inamillion Wed 17-Apr-19 10:15:40

Oops sorry about some repetition in previous post. I'm already on the naughty step. I'm not foregoing the cake though......

MawBroonsback Wed 17-Apr-19 10:30:08

OK I signed up with Slimming World last night so could you lot please be terribly kind and put all cakes (especially coffee and walnut, lemon drizzle, jam sponge, scones, flapjacks, brownies ....) out of reach
Shouldn’t be hard as I am only 5’2” (in both directions!

Panache Wed 17-Apr-19 10:38:44

Nothing starts my day better than reading some positive news from my chums in the kitchen.

Thrilled indeed that you do not need debilitating (though again life saving) chemo Soop After a real trial things are certainly turning for the better and you still have several little hills ahead but knowing of you now you will climb them with great aplomb!!!
Onward and upward and may it all go nice and smoothly from now on,you have already had too many hiccups!
I too recieved 6 weeks aggressive non stop radiotherapy and no chemo ..........just like you Ann

Three cheers for that sweet new friend of yours providing that uplift in your life just at the right time Ann and she certainly has you wrapped around her little paw!!!Another one brought up with an outside “privy” so I can well understand why she chooses her litter tray!!

Another one that has been thinking of Morethan and wondering how her family`s life is panning out.

Again more promising news for your son Callgirl so very encouraging for him.......and for you.Let us hope this good fortune continues.

GQ I can well imagine the sense of relief you experienced on hearing both your daughters were free of breast cancer, great news for sure.
Whilst I personally have had excellent care from the NHS over many years just as you have said,sadly this is not so where my husband is concerned.He has been badly let down several times since his stroke prior to Christmas.So much so his own GP is getting very frustrated with them.

Feeling for you Anneliese as I know what its like seeing your man not be the same man he once,very distressing times.Hopefully there will be thoise answers to help him coming very soon

My appointment was also troublefree in itself,a very long wait but eventually on meeting the Opthalmologist, she was far more caring than the harsh one I met previously.She truly gave my eyes a thorough examination and stated that at this stage there was no cause for alarm, but I have eye drops plus she suggested vitamins, since I have such a poor diet.Back in 3 months (which by passed standards means more like 8 months!!)
However sadly it seems my dear man may have to give up driving,another blow as the short journey,3/4 miles to and from the Hospital rendered him in such discomfort.It is not nice seeing him like this.

I am sure you will be even more pleased than your Fred when he gets himself a new home Annie!!!.............even if he enjoyed your hallway and bathroom I am sure it caused you a few headaches!!

I am amazed at all of you and your tenacity dealing with so many of the younger generation,where oh! where do you all get your energy from I ask??Of course they are part and parcel of your own blood and although it may make for hectic living on those visits,I can see you enjoy having them around you so very much.
Another thing I have obviously lost out on!

At last the sunshine promised and I rather think it will have to be a quiet laid back day..........well in my dreams!.........yesterday seems to have sapped any of my faded “get up and go!!”

However wishing you all well,may the sun shine on you as well as peace and goodwill.

soop Wed 17-Apr-19 12:32:36

N&G We have all nominated Cooper as one of our lucky mascots. He's a joy.

Ann Your memories made me chuckle. The surgeon, breast cancer nurse with whom I have a special closeness, and the oncologist are all female. All have a hearty sense of humour. As you say, it counts.
For Molly x

soop Wed 17-Apr-19 12:52:58

Dragonfly Same here...all the people in charge of my treatment, including the surgeon, are female. And lovely with it.

Anneliese This is a very stressful time for both you and your husband. Once there is a positive diagnosis the treatment plan can be put into action. Stay strong. sunshine

callgirl1 The latest news regarding your son's treatment is on the right side of positive. Good! We said hello to David twice yesterday. Never drive by his resting place without thinking of you and your family.

Anniebach There was I thinking that Fred was a living something or other. Now that I know, I cannot stop chortling.

Swanny Why, oh why, does the coffee and walnut cake have to be virtual? I would gladly scoff an enormous wedge with my coffee.
1inamillion Why are you on the naughty step? That's not allowed. We don't do naughty step in our kitchen. Join me for cake instead. wink

MawBroonsback I am delighted to have you back in the kitchen. It's where you belong. We like your company.

Dear Panache Your latest news is mixed. Some upbeat...some not so. You are one amazing lady. Have we said so before? If yes...then please accept it as a compliment. flowers

mrshat Wed 17-Apr-19 13:49:58

soop ??? xx

callgirl1 Wed 17-Apr-19 17:43:42

No offence intended Maw, but you have picked a very unfortunate new name...……..every time I see it I read it as MawBroomstick! And you can`t possibly be 5`2" in both directions, that honour is mine, lol!
Bless you Soop, David will never be lonely with you there.
Panache, I`m pleased that your appointment was better than expected, but wish that your poor husband could be a little more fortunate.
Annie, nice for Fred to have a new home, but are you going to make use of him, or he`ll be feeling sad and neglected? Oh, and Soop, Fred is a living something or other, he`s an honorary member of your kitchen by now!

dragonfly46 Wed 17-Apr-19 18:05:33

That's right Callgirl we have to build a shelter for Fred attached to the kitchen so Annie can ride him when she comes to visit.
I hope it will inspire you to use Fred now if only to the garden gate.

No I cannot believe you are 5'2 wide Maw

Anneliese I hope you get some answers from the consultant. It is always easier when you know what you are dealing with.

MawBroonsback Wed 17-Apr-19 18:09:16

MawBroomstick is fine by me! ?‍♀️ ?‍♀️ ??

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