Having a bad day.

Words are so inadequate at times like this. Just know that many are thinking of you and your family as you go through such sadness and wishing you the strength to cope with all that is to come

merlotgran As a parent you never expect to outlive your children. My heart goes out to you on this dreadful news and my prayers are with you and your family.

Merlot...we can all imagine being in your situation and how desolate we would feel.Life is unfair and can be cruel.
Being your DD’s loving Mother is all that you can continue to do,and being of practical help to your SIL and DGC.
Reading your posts puts things in perspective, what really matters is family and friends, little else.?

Oh merlot, I’m so sorry and also sorry I haven’t the words to help just a bit. Sending love to you all.

Merlot I have now words.......sending love, kind thoughts and prayers?

Of course you can't focus on anything - why should you? Just let it all go unless you think of something small which will help you in any way, and then do that. There is nothing bad about anything which will, while not exactly taking your mind off your horrible situation, help to give you even a moment's relief.

Sending you and all your family love and hugs.

I am so sorry

Oh merlot I can’t even begin to imagine what you and your family are going through . As others have said I can completely understand that you have no interest in doing anything at all, as all of your thoughts and energies are going into the love you have for your dear daughter . I don’t “do” the god thing merlot but I will be thinking of you and your darling girl tonight as I think of my own loved ones. xx

My heart is breaking for you. So so sad

xx

I know how desolate I would be in your shoes. Warm wishes and caring thoughts are all I can send you. x

What an awful and sad situation for you all- no wonder you are 'having a bad day'. Just can't find the right words, any words really, apart that I am so so sorry for you, and hope paliative care will bring peace without pain. xxx

merlot I don’t know what to say. I can understand how hope can get you through so far but to now be faced with this utter sadness I am not surprised you don’t have the will to do anything today. Your poor family must be in bits. Thoughts and prayers for strength for you all is all I can offer

So sad for you Merlot, sending a gentle hug and prayers x

merlot Thoughts and prayers are all I can offer, but they are sincere

Merlot I am so sorry to hear your news. I completely understand how you cannot concentrate on anything at the moment. Our children are the most precious and remarkable achievement in our lives. I just hope you have the strength to get through this awful challenge. My thoughts are with you, your DH and your wonderful daughter.

merlot don't worry about bringing anyone down. You are a great poster on here, have been for a long time, and if anyone deserves support, you do. Keep giving us the chance to be with you in this in a small way.

I'm so very sorry Merlot. Love and big hugs to you all.

I have no words merlot. You can make sad threads if it helps you get through this dreadful time.

You have lots of friends on gn so use that friendship.

I'm very sorry to hear about your daughter.

Oh merlotgran. Just oh. Unbearably awful for you and your family. Life is so crushingly unfair sometimes.

merlogran, I can only imagine what you are going through I am so very sorry to read your news and can only send you my very best wishes.
Finding strength to cope with what you are going through must take so much effort and you must be exhausted. Never compare yourself with others, its a mistake people make to feel they are somehow coping less well than others in a similar situation. Not being able to focus on anything is a classic symptom of the pain and trauma you are going through - its nothing that needs excusing.
Take care of yourself - its not being selfish. All the very best to you and all your family.

I don’t know what to say Merlot except that I am so sad for you and your DD. You will find your strength from somewhere, just let yourself rest today. x

merlot . I am so saddened to hear this latest news of your daughter. Heartfelt thoughts to you all.?