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KatyK Thu 11-Apr-19 13:39:41

Many times. We went to dinner at a colleague of DH's many years ago. I was a shy little thing aand didnt know much about anything and was desperately trying to make conversation. I said that my neighbours were a funny lot and that they ate sprout tops. Our hostess said 'actually we're having those today'. blush Of course now I know that people eat them. The rest of the day was very uncomfortable.

Namsnanny Thu 11-Apr-19 13:20:19

I’ had loads of gaffs through the years, from both sides ☺️!!
One I remember was catching the bus regularly and seeing the same people everyday. Then after being on holiday and seeing them again I thought I knew one of them so sat down and started a conversation, only realising I didn’t know him at all half way through talking! He went red to the ears and thought I was chatting him up, I stuttered on and we both never raised our eyes to each other on our daily commit again!!! Tame by comparison to things now eh?!

Floradora9 Thu 11-Apr-19 13:17:10

I worked with a girl many years ago before it was common for people to be from other counties living in the UK . This girl and her sister were Polish and spent the time they travelled to school discussing the other passengers in their native tongue .
However one day as they were leaving the train a man spoke to them in Polish and said how sorry he was that they did not like his clothes . They never did it again.

mosaicwarts Thu 11-Apr-19 13:15:39

ha ha - hopefully she will tell all her friends! I was upset to find out that there were rumours about me in our village - it seems that the local saying about gossips is 'if they don't know, they make it up'.

shysal Thu 11-Apr-19 13:07:26

grin

grannyactivist Thu 11-Apr-19 12:22:06

I live opposite a bus stop that has a shelter with a seat. Some time ago whilst I was waiting for a bus a woman came and sat on the seat beside me and a couple of seconds later my lodger came out of the gate and headed into the town. She didn't see me so there was no acknowledgement, but it prompted the woman alongside me to comment that she and her friends would love to know what went on 'in that house'. She also mentioned various things she'd noted about about my visitors.

So, I told her it was my house and explained a bit about our lifestyle and the poor woman was completely mortified and very apologetic. I told her I could understand why people might wonder and not to worry about it, but I've seen her since and she is obviously still hugely embarrassed. blush

Have you ever caught out someone in an embarrassing gaffe, or have you been the one who is caught out?