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Izabella Tue 19-Mar-19 12:06:47

Well as first for me. Opening a new kitchen full of light, love and support

annodomini Mon 25-Mar-19 17:09:41

Don't worry about the toothlessness. When they start teething too early - as DS2 did, at 4 months - they seem less able to cope and consequently make much more fuss about it. Your GD's teeth will probably come in a rush all of a sudden and the teething period will be over before you (and her parents) know it.

Greyduster Mon 25-Mar-19 17:14:22

Maw I’m sure Otis will start making up his weight again soon. It still puts him over seven pounds which is a decent weight. All will be well.?

soop Mon 25-Mar-19 17:24:14

Mamissimo Socks are supposed to be worn like that. Mim says so. She's a bonnie wee lassie. Another lovely, infectious smile

dragonfly Just as you were beginning to feel perkier, the nurse's visit will have taken yet more wind out of your sails. Until your visit to the hospital tomorrow, try to relax and remember that you have an army of Granspals all rooting for you. flowers

N&G It's futile to invite this lot to slow down. I'm certain that they have been suppin' the poteen that Marydoll gives away in the Argy Bargy. No one in their right mind would pay for it. wink

1inamillion For a brief moment I thought that you were going to say that your dear husband was pissed. [ouch] blush Courst not. As Torben would say. grin
I will join you in a toasted teacake oozing with butter. (she says longingly)

Grey Bless your dear grandson. It seems to happen all too soon. In next to no time he'll be towering over you. Apart from Torben and the greatgrandchildren - I am the shortest member of the entire clan. grin

Had a lovely nap. A greenfinch flew into the bedroom window. It was an almighty crash. MacSporran investigated. Bird was lying on it's side but breathing. Thirty minutes later it was sitting on the path. And then...it flew away back to the sanctuary of the nest.

We shall both be visiting our friend in the care home tomorrow. I know that he'll be feeling very fragile since his wife's funeral. From hereon we'll do our best to be of comfort to him. It will seem very strange signing in without my pal adding her name to the visitors book.

Log off time. I shall return once we return from the visit. After which, back to the GP to have the dressings changed.

smile moon

Doodle Mon 25-Mar-19 17:55:18

Been at hospital all day today. For a change not for us but helping with relative whose children (who are very loving and supportive) had all got their own hospital/doctor/work appointments and couldn’t be there. What started out as an hours help turned into a whole day visit as the hospital suddenly decided to discharge relative at a moments notice. We were left to change appointments with SS, consultant, x ray and Red Cross and get patient home. All accomplished but worn out now so although I have read all the posts too exhausted to reply. So hope everyone in kitchen land is ok. Lovely, lovely photos of beautiful smiling babies ?. You must admit our kitchen babies are a handsome/beautiful bunch. Wishing improvement to all the poorly and a good nights sleep for all. I’m winding down with a wine and have left the bottle on the worktop for anyone wishing to join me ?.
P.s. DH informs he he has been invited to a photography exhibition in Slough.............California!!!!! ?

Mamissimo Mon 25-Mar-19 19:10:51

Doodle invited to go or invited to exhibit? Will you go? Exciting!

Thank you for the tooth reassurance - she chomps her way through everything with gusto already thank goodness!

Charleygirl5 Mon 25-Mar-19 19:14:52

Mamissimo what a gorgeous smiley baby- we do have a lovely selection in the kitchen and each is on their best behaviour when they know the photograph is for us lot.

callgirl1 Mon 25-Mar-19 20:17:35

Lovely happy photos of Mila and Mim, 2 beautiful girls, but then they come from good stock!
Dragonfly, hugs.
Soop, I`m glad the flowers are pleasing.
Ann, I hope that your husband is feeling a little better and calmer today, and that you have been able to relax.

dragonfly46 Mon 25-Mar-19 21:02:25

soop hoping your path results are good tomorrow. Thank you for your concern.

grannyqueenie Mon 25-Mar-19 22:09:09

callgirl your comments about good stock are just right! Sadly I can’t manage to look as elegant as you soop on a good day and after a good nights sleep, never mind just days after major surgery!! I frightened myself looking in the mirror this morning (after a fragmented nights sleep) when an old lady, suspiciously like my mother, looked right back at me!! Life without your friend will feel strange soop, bless you, you have so much going on in your life and all happening at the same time. Do take good care of yourself too flowers -though I’m sure your lovely man is doing his very best in that department.

Ann I’m so very sad to hear that your period of respite from worrying about your dog has been so fleeting. You really deserve better after all you’ve been through these past months and indeed years. I do hope things settle down a bit very soon flowers

You’re a good friend indeed, doodle, hope the ? wine has done it’s job well, leaving you nicely chilled out or even tucked up sound asleep already!

lina, I enjoyed that book so much, hope you do too!

I’ve just spent a frustrating hour on the “big” computer trying to secretly book a night away to give the old boy a surprise on his birthday this week. I got 99% through the process, while he was busy watching footie on tv, but then the ‘puter went into very slow motion and didn’t seem to complete the booking. I’ve had no email confirmation so I’m guessing the website was faulty or of course I may have entered something incorrectly wouldn’t be the first time! So I’ll have to sort it tomorrow, if I can get onto it without being overheard! So far birthday plans are not going well, good job it’s not a special one! I’d ordered him a nice pen too then today had an email telling me it’s not arriving any time soon. He insists he doesn’t care at all about these things but then looks disappointed if we all take him a his word - I can’t win!

Sorry kitchen friends I’ve once again spectacularly failed to properly catch up. So for anyone I’ve ignored I apologise, and if it was you I’ve missed please don’t take it personally!

I’ll leave you with pictures of some very chunky lambs I spotted yesterday. They made me smile, I hope they do the same for you!

Doodle Mon 25-Mar-19 22:33:42

mamissimo only invited to attend at our own cost. I don’t think they realise we live near Slough UK not Slough California. ? must just have sent out invitations at random.
grannyqueenie sounds as though you are trying to arrange a nice surprise for your DH. Hope you get it sorted out ok. Lovely photos.
Sleep well one and all.

callgirl1 Tue 26-Mar-19 00:06:18

I love the lamb pictures GrannyQ, I hope that you get your husband`s birthday surprise sorted in time.

Soop I do apologise, I could have sworn I wished you well with your results tomorrow, but can`t see it, so obviously I dreamt it!

Susan56 Tue 26-Mar-19 06:56:10

Soop,wishing you well at your appointment today?

grannyqueenie Tue 26-Mar-19 07:15:45

Ann, my sincere apolgies “dog” should of course read “dh”!

cornergran Tue 26-Mar-19 07:32:35

Good wishes from me for today soop, also for dragonfly who I believe has an unplanned hospital visit.

Is the broadband behaving kitty? Sometimes 24 hours is needed for a change to settle down. Fingers crossed.

The best laid plans grannyq, hope it all works out, men and birthdays eh?

Off to meet a cousin for lunch today, not sure why I agreed on a location an hour and a half away but I did. hmm. Will enjoy it once I’m there, just not looking forward to the journey.

Hope today is less stressful ann. Take care everyone.

1inamillion Tue 26-Mar-19 07:49:23

GrannyQ hope your can retrieve your holiday for DH's birthday.
Good luck soop and dragonfly with your hospital appointments.
ann, hope you and your husband receive much needed help soon.

Susan56 Tue 26-Mar-19 08:01:19

dragonfly,I hope your appointment goes well today?

Marydoll Tue 26-Mar-19 08:06:38

Just popping in to wish Soop and dragonly my best wishes for the hospital today.

I thought I would try and help Mr MD, with the fence painting yesterday, neither of us can move today. There is no fool like an old fool
I said that next time, we would pay someone to do it. His reply: It lasts about seven years this time, I will probably be dead by the next time it needs done! ?

His comment did set me thinking. I have new ceramic pans being delivered today, they come with a twenty five year guarantee, but I don't need a twenty five year guarantee. grin.

I have a thorn in my finger and I have tried everything to get it out, it's throbbing. I wondered if any of you wise Kitcheners have any tips on how to get it out. I have soaked it, poked with a needle, squeezed it, but no success.

I'm off to do some baking, I don't know what yet, but I shall leave something at the kitchen door.

Marydoll Tue 26-Mar-19 08:07:57

I also meant to send my good wishes to Anne and hope she is getting the support she and her DH need. flowers

annsixty Tue 26-Mar-19 08:26:30

Good morning all.
Sending very best wishes to soop and dragonfly for their visits today, hope all news is good.
My poor H is away with the fairies still.
He knew me but no idea whare he is or why.
He had kept the staff on their toes calling for them every two minutes.
I have my doubts he will be going back to the care home.
Nothing said but the ward Sister said when he is medically ready for discharge they will be liasing with SS to see what is best for him.
At least now they will be not be pressing for me to have him home as has happened on the last two admissions.
I am immeasurably sad that our lives have changed to this, we never expect it do we?

NanaandGrampy Tue 26-Mar-19 08:42:28

Morning all,

Sorry to hear your news is not better ann but it sounds like they will make plans that will support your H and you. Its very sad though and I hope YOU have support too x

ooooh Marydoll that sounds painful, my Nan used to swear by a dob of butter and a plaster, drew the splinter/thorn out apparently ???

Good luck today soop and dragonfly , hope all goes well , we'll be waiting with cake and tea and a comfy chair!!

Loving the lambs GrannieQ , we took the little boys to see lambing live - I'm a big believer in children seeing that sort of thing as a sort of circle of life thing. Suffice it to say they wont be eating lamb for a while lol - Cooper was convinced the little lamb arrived in his own carrier bag !!!

Good luck with the secret booking ! Those types of thing are always a disaster here so hope you have much more success !

Its a bright day today , we are off to weigh in where no doubt Grampy will have lost loads and me nothing - damn him !! He insists we stay when he loses as the old ladies make such a fuss of him. He's like the class pet lol !!!

Then to celebrate my lack of weight loss I will make him take me out for lunch!!!!

Well the oven is still not working , in fact its in bits now as we await the arrival of the replacement element - that's my excuse for eating out and Im sticking to it !!

Happy day everyone !

Bellanonna Tue 26-Mar-19 09:20:12

Ann how sad I feel for you. I’m sure the best decision for your H will be taken. As you say, it’s not something you expect and although I’ve no direct experience of your situation, I can imagine how harrowing it is for you, The important thing is to look after yourself. Hopefully you csn meet your granddaughter, go to the garden centre and have a coffee, just do,something a bit different. Meanwhile you know your H is being looked after by a team of people.

harrigran Tue 26-Mar-19 09:24:24

Marydoll, soak in sugar soap. When I worked in casualty we used to apply magnesium sulphate paste and bandage, haven't heard of it in years but assume it still exists. I think I would see someone about it because thorns can introduce infection.
Lovely babies. Friends baby didn't have one tooth until she was 18 months old, used to eat baguette ?

Marydoll Tue 26-Mar-19 09:36:56

Thanks Harriran, I have a tub of Magnesium Sulphate, which I bought the other day to replace the one I gave away to DD's fiancé, as he had a poisoned finger! It's really hard to get these days.

Marydoll Tue 26-Mar-19 09:37:27

Harrigran !

soop Tue 26-Mar-19 13:41:16

This is a very brief visit. I shall have more time when we return from the GP. I'm only having dressings changed today. I may get a call from the breast clinic in Glasgow (just a courstesy call) which may happen in my absence. Friday is proper hosp appointment at Vale of Leven. It is then that I shall have stage 2 of the plan explained in detail.

Been to visit our pal and another dear lady in the care home. About to have lunch.

callgirl1 David was greeted this morning. He'll be greeted again very shortly. smile

Pic of greatgrandson Teddy. He's a "thinker" wink

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