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What on earth is going on?

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Lily65 Fri 15-Mar-19 14:50:53

This site seems to be becoming more and more unpleasant. I used to think of it like doing a crossword or glancing at a magazine with a coffee.....a nice and easy connection.

Its horrible ,especially fighting on a thread about a tragedy in NZ.

Lily65 Fri 15-Mar-19 20:03:55

I think so, never mind.

Urmstongran Fri 15-Mar-19 19:50:45

Oh. Probably!

Sorry to be dim. This (your question) is a thread on a forum (chat).

Got it. But surely you got my drift?

Lily65 Fri 15-Mar-19 19:37:43

Ah ok I think you mean thread?

Urmstongran Fri 15-Mar-19 19:35:06

Now I’m confused.

I thought you started this forum? You were the one to ask the question.

Lily65 Fri 15-Mar-19 19:33:28

UG, I haven't a clue what you are talking about. How can it be my forum?

Honestly, no idea whats going on here.???

Urmstongran Fri 15-Mar-19 18:34:31

I’m glad I didn’t spoil your forum Lily65

Seems I haven’t contravened a rule then (even one I didn’t know about).

Mapleleaf Fri 15-Mar-19 18:30:50

I'm blaming it on the windy weather! grin grin.
I do agree with your opening post, though, Lily65.

Lily65 Fri 15-Mar-19 17:37:19

Sorry, it wasn't meant to be a thread about threads, just a general comment really. Never mind. Its all getting a bit silly.

M0nica Fri 15-Mar-19 17:35:01

It is like the way light-hearted threads have to be labelled as such so that all the virtue signallers do not take it over and make it a discussion about poverty (again)

Maggiemaybe Fri 15-Mar-19 17:31:06

I think the guideline Gonegirl's talking about is "we will delete threads about other ongoing threads, as it causes too much confusion on the forums".

I haven't seen the thread in question - I'm trying to cut down on social media during Lent so miss a lot these days. But I'd agree in general that GN is a bit bad-tempered at the moment. Perhaps it's the weather getting to people or ruddy Brexit.

annep1 Fri 15-Mar-19 17:31:02


Maybe my fish fingers will do the trick!

Gonegirl Fri 15-Mar-19 17:18:27

(That was to Annep1)

Gonegirl Fri 15-Mar-19 17:17:33

NO being grumpy!!! wink grin

sodapop Fri 15-Mar-19 17:16:53

I would agree with you normally I lovecheese but the in fighting when so many people have died needlessly is appalling.
I like a robust forum but even I draw the line here.

EllanVannin Fri 15-Mar-19 17:15:09

Anniebach I'll look out for you. x

NanaandGrampy Fri 15-Mar-19 17:08:06

I think being anonymous , hidden behind their keyboard lets people be far meaner to each other than if they were face to face.

annep1 Fri 15-Mar-19 17:05:31

I'm feeling grumpy today and GN is making me worse.
Can people not be nice to each other.

Anniebach Fri 15-Mar-19 16:48:20

Ellen happens to me often x

Lily65 Fri 15-Mar-19 16:28:55

Never mind. I don't know the rules, it just seems to be getting out of hand .

EllanVannin Fri 15-Mar-19 16:18:05

Well clearly someone didn't like/approve of what I posted either. Then again the truth does hurt at times.

Urmstongran Fri 15-Mar-19 16:04:15

Fair point well made rosecarmel
But engaging with people isn’t easy when some are DETERMINED to jump on other’s viewpoints.

I’m just waiting for this forum to be taken down because I inadvertently posted and contravened some rule I didn’t even know existed. Then to compound the transgression I was unaware there was an underlying reason for the forum and naively entered into it.

#morefoolme

rosecarmel Fri 15-Mar-19 15:51:22

I don't know that turning away from a problem has ever solved a problem, but engaging in efforts to not make it worse seems to lean towards proceeding gently instead of matching one extreme act with another .. which is what silence and lack of action is .. at the opposite end of the spectrum of a brutal act ..

EllanVannin Fri 15-Mar-19 15:47:59

Pot-kettle-black @Lily65.

EllanVannin Fri 15-Mar-19 15:47:04

Urmstongran I'm so grateful to you x but sadly your reply wasn't what others wanted to see, if you get my drift as the whole opening thread was simply and purely aimed at me.

Gonegirl Fri 15-Mar-19 15:46:59

Righto. Sigh. [shrug]