This site seems to be becoming more and more unpleasant. I used to think of it like doing a crossword or glancing at a magazine with a coffee.....a nice and easy connection.
Its horrible ,especially fighting on a thread about a tragedy in NZ.
It is like the way light-hearted threads have to be labelled as such so that all the virtue signallers do not take it over and make it a discussion about poverty (again)
I think the guideline Gonegirl's talking about is "we will delete threads about other ongoing threads, as it causes too much confusion on the forums".
I haven't seen the thread in question - I'm trying to cut down on social media during Lent so miss a lot these days. But I'd agree in general that GN is a bit bad-tempered at the moment. Perhaps it's the weather getting to people or ruddy Brexit.
I would agree with you normally I lovecheese but the in fighting when so many people have died needlessly is appalling. I like a robust forum but even I draw the line here.
Fair point well made rosecarmel But engaging with people isn’t easy when some are DETERMINED to jump on other’s viewpoints.
I’m just waiting for this forum to be taken down because I inadvertently posted and contravened some rule I didn’t even know existed. Then to compound the transgression I was unaware there was an underlying reason for the forum and naively entered into it.
I don't know that turning away from a problem has ever solved a problem, but engaging in efforts to not make it worse seems to lean towards proceeding gently instead of matching one extreme act with another .. which is what silence and lack of action is .. at the opposite end of the spectrum of a brutal act ..
Urmstongran I'm so grateful to you x but sadly your reply wasn't what others wanted to see, if you get my drift as the whole opening thread was simply and purely aimed at me.