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Clichés past their sell-by date

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absent Mon 11-Mar-19 04:26:51

I recently re-encountered the phrase, "She got herself pregnant". Well, in the 21st century with IVF and its d-i-y equivalent with the turkey baster, that is, of course, possible. However, when it is followed with "Boys will be boys," that doesn't seem to be the case – and that is another expression that should be put in the bin.

It made me quite cross.

sodapop Tue 12-Mar-19 08:46:12

Thus it ever was sunseeker . Girls were sluts or hussies whilst men were just sowing their wild oats. When I first started working in a large psychiatric hospital there were a number of women who had been in patients for many years and were 'diagnosed' as being moral defectives as they had a baby out of wedlock. They were never able to function well outside the hospital environment as they had become institutionalised. So very sad.

Grammaretto Tue 12-Mar-19 11:37:00

sodapop I too worked in a place like this. There was just one lady aged about 75 who had her own room at the end of a psychiatric geriatric ward.
I asked because there seemed nothing wrong with her and she even went shopping. She had been unmarried, pregnant and put away by her father.
I was so shocked. I was 19 at the time.

Grammaretto Tue 12-Mar-19 12:10:00

Back to the cliches . What was even more damaging to your respectability than being a poor thing who got pregnant in the 60s was to be one of those girls who "sleep around" maybe a "slag"
So much for free love and flower power. In our neck of the woods net curtains twitched and you had to keep up with the Joneses.