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Panache Fri 22-Feb-19 12:17:15

Always a warm hearted and uplifting welcome awaits and whatever your difficulties, you leave fully enrapped in the warmth of Soop`s Kitchen with a smile and hope in your heart.

soop Mon 25-Feb-19 16:50:34

Another thought on the matter of that woman next door...she had better not walk into our kitchen. On her own head be it if she should even pop her head round the corner of the door. Us lot are mad as hell cats. angry sad

Willow500 Mon 25-Feb-19 16:53:56

Kitty poor Bertie – it’s good that the dentist has decided to leave things alone for now but it must have hurt poor little chap!

Galen I can’t believe someone could be so insensitive as your neighbour – there is nothing at all you could have done or said which would have saved Lucy and making you feel guilty is an unforgivable thing to do. If she is your neighbour it may be very awkward not to talk to her again but totally understandable. I do agree that you should talk to Venetia about it – she will no doubt be worried about you anyway and the support you can give each other would probably help.

Panache it’s good to see you posting again despite all the setbacks life seems to be throwing at you. I can see that Mr P wants to try and regain some of his independence again with the garden but I hope he is being sensible and not trying to do too much. Fingers crossed that the Canadian people make a sensible offer and you are able to start getting the ball rolling but I know what dread that must hold too. I saw an article on a treatment for MD which was on This Morning and shows great promise for that and other conditions to do with the circulatory system – it was very interesting but I fear the machine they were using was very expensive. I know that out local hero the soldier Ben Parkinson has been using a hyperbaric chamber to try and improve some of his problems with some success so breathing the pure oxygen does seem to help.

Morethan as everyone has said try to relax in Mexico and enjoy it. It’s very strange how life does seem to carry on as normal around you when it seems your own is in chaos but it’s the normality which gets us through and which is a must for your GC and probably your DIL too at this moment in time.

Ann enjoy your break but be ready for tantrums from Molly when you get home for daring to leave her – no matter that she’ll have been spoiled rotten by your GD you will still be in the doghouse!

N&G – erbert and sherbert grin love it! I hope you now get a well earned rest after all the hard work you’ve both been doing but you’ll definitely miss them!

Kitty Wolfie looks good in his ear defenders – as my son is a drum teacher he lets our grandsons loose in his studio on a regular basis and they both have to wear them – sensible approach. I’ve often worried about his own hearing over the years!

Soop I’m pleased you got your parcel sent at a reasonable rate – I was going to suggest using one of the online shippers which is sometimes easier as they come to collect. I’m sure the recipients will be over the moon when you all get together.

The sun is finally out here this afternoon. While everywhere seems to have been basking in glorious weather yesterday we had thick fog which didn’t lift all day and was still there this morning. I did walk to town in it but it was very cold and as I’ve been baking this afternoon (flapjack and cheese scones on the side to share) I’ve no idea if it’s any warmer. The days are getting longer quickly now and yes it does make me feel guilty that I’ve no real desire to be out there in the garden doing anything more than I’ve done thus far. I like to see it looking tidy but am no outdoor person at all.

A gardener would be great – I had one once but she did her back in and almost died having surgery on it so is no longer working. When Mr W retires next month I hope he’s ready to take up the mantle – oh look – there’s a pig flying over the house grin

soop Mon 25-Feb-19 16:59:41

Having got that off my chest, I just wanted to tell you of a lovely encounter we had during a sunny walk around Tarbert harbour. We met someone who used to live close by. We would often stop to chat with him and his wife and lovely wee dog. Sadly, his wife died some time ago. He purchased a smart motor home, and started travelling. He also bought himself a flat, which happens to be in the same location as the hospital we are visiting fairly regularly. We said our goodbyes and not long after, he caught up with us in the village store. He offered us the keys to his flat. In fact, whenever we visit that particular hospital, we have an open invitation to use the flat should we not wish to do the journey both ways in one go. Such kindness. We were both taken back by his geneoristy of spirit. Dear person.

callgirl1 Mon 25-Feb-19 17:06:39

A lovely, sensitive post Marelli.
I`m so sorry Corner, I forgot to wish Mr C a Happy Birthday, I hope you`ve been mollycoddling him.
Soop, I`m glad your parcel didn`t require a second mortgage.
I put a load into the washing machine earlier but it won`t start. My granddaughter used it this morning OK, so I`ll wait till she gets home and see if she did anything different that`s upset the poor thing. I`m hoping to avoid calling out an expensive engineer.
Ann, I hope you`re enjoying West Sussex, and that you`re having the same weather that we`re having. Molly will probably ignore you for the first few hours after you get home, to punish you for leaving her.

soop Mon 25-Feb-19 17:07:31

ann I'm willing to bet that Molly will wind her surrogate mummy around her wee paws. Cats always get their own way. It's a given. grin

We've been putting a dish of prime cat biscuits out every night for some long time. No takers. Last night, ta dah, the plate was left as clean as a whistle. We two jumped around with glee. Well, almost! wink

soop Mon 25-Feb-19 17:10:00

callgirl1 It's ann's Molly* who is being mollycoddled.

Happy birthday, Mr corner. wine

callgirl1 Mon 25-Feb-19 17:16:40

Soop, lol!

Marelli Mon 25-Feb-19 17:18:48

Thankyou, Bellanonna, Callgirl1 and Kitty xx

Nannytopsy Mon 25-Feb-19 17:30:19

Just got home from work and may be needed tomorrow morning but the tooth is finally coming out tomorrow afternoon, unless the dentist is on the golf course poorly again. I have lots to do about the house and want a few undisturbed days.
Strike through not working again?

Nannytopsy Mon 25-Feb-19 17:30:56

oh yes it is grin

soop Mon 25-Feb-19 17:36:32

A special and sensitive post, Marelli. x

I'm orf! Not forever, mind. Just until the morning. No care home visit until Wednesday. I shall therefore play catch-up with you lot tomorrow...or not...depending on how manic busy you'll be in the meantime. grin
moon

soop Mon 25-Feb-19 17:38:02

Nannytopsy The sooner out, the better you'll be. flowers

cornergran Mon 25-Feb-19 17:48:33

Mr C says thank you for all the good wishes. Its been a glorious day here so we've been out all day, a cooked breakfast by the coast then a visit to an NT for a behind the scenes tour, followed by tea and cake - all as requested by the birthday boy. He's a happy soul - just wait until the DiY and decorating starts and things could be different grin.

I'm sorry for that continuing delay callgirl frustrating for sure for you all. Dr Google is not always helpful.

How kind to offer you the use of a flat, soop, I do hope you take advantage of it should it be helpful.

Wishing you a painless dental procedure nannyt, thinking about these things is often worse than the reality. Honestly smile.

Take care all, busy time coming up so please excuse absence.

Charleygirl5 Mon 25-Feb-19 18:30:33

I wrote a missive and it vanished in front of my eyes.

corner please allow birthday boy a day off tomorrow with his feet up before the serious work begins.

Galen Mon 25-Feb-19 18:50:06

To be fair to Anne, she has got terminal oesophageal cancer. Although she’s been trying to point out for years how virtuous she was staying at home until her girls were at school, whereas naughty, neglectful me had Nannis and went to work.

Galen Mon 25-Feb-19 18:50:28

Nannies

harrigran Mon 25-Feb-19 19:27:21

Galen, there is no excuse for such crass behaviour, nobody has the right to tell you what you should be doing regarding your family.
I hope you can get over this upset.

callgirl1 Mon 25-Feb-19 21:28:24

Soop I somehow missed your post about the flat. What a wonderful gesture for that man to make, a true gentleman.

NanaandGrampy Tue 26-Feb-19 08:53:33

Morning all !!

Good luck at the dentist NannyT !! I am going to bite the bullet and make my apt today. I have been putting it off as I dread it so much but needs must !!

What a kind gesture Soop , I hope you take him up on his offer if it makes the travel slightly easier. Bet you cant wait for your family meet up!!

Just a flying visit from me as Grampy and I are off to Slimming where I shall have to face the music after 2 weeks of jammy dodgers and haribos :-)

Ill leave you with 2 pictures from one of my favourite photographers, I belong to the same group but def not in her league. March is storming up on us and this epitomises mad march hares for me :-)

Bellanonna Tue 26-Feb-19 08:59:29

What a great picture N&G. I’ve seen very few hares in my life so I envy your friend being able to take that wonderful photo.

GrannyGravy13 Tue 26-Feb-19 09:22:39

Soop what a lovely gesture of the flat use. There really are a lot of very kind people in this world, unfortunately it is usually “the bad ones” that get spoken about.

Galen I had to work and juggled between Nannies, au-pairs etc. We all have choices to make in our lives. The AC are still in contact with their favourite “Nanny”.

Well I am off to have my dress fitting this morning for a dear friends daughter wedding and then to the hairdresser. I looked in the mirror with my glasses on and I am currently sporting my fair share of grey, not sure I am ready to let it takeover yet!!!

Pleased Mr C had a fabulous birthday.

Sorry to all those I have missed, will try to catch up later ?☕️??

Charleygirl5 Tue 26-Feb-19 10:40:46

soop I also agree, that really was a very kind gesture re the flat. I do hope you take up his kind off because it will make life more pleasant for the pair of you.

NG* I love the photo of the mad March hares. That is what Tara is like first thing in the morning, pummelling at the door, balancing on her back legs, waiting for a member of staff to open the door for her. It always works because her claws are lethal and the door is fairly new.

Panache Tue 26-Feb-19 10:45:08

Still basking in the 20+% temperatures with our West Wales and Scotland breaking the records for February..........though a bit bright for my poor old eyes ......but there is always a way!

However yes,a good offer was handed into our estate agents by the Canadian couple yesterday..............and although we should be delighted, it really gives us an outsize headache.Of course we well know what we SHOULD do, but with the both of us truly merely holding on in the life department............ this is certainly not easy.
And to add to this another viewer (from Bristol) booked in early this morning....................I can vouch for Pembrokeshire well and truly being the place for plentiful viewers AND buyers!!

Lovely kind offer for you both Soop from obviously one of life`s kindest gents, and doesn`t it make you feel so good knowing there are such thoughtful people around?You really needed that offer I am sure.

Wishing you well for tomorrow`s mission Nannytopsy

Indeed Willow for the first time ever my man listens to when I call a halt to his activities,sadly his poor body allows for little, but I certainly need to encourage him so he does not become the "Couch Potato" the GP warned him off!
I sadly missed that programme about MD, but I do know there has been recent therapy trials for those of us suffering from the dry kind.Quite frankly I would certainly give it a try as it at least gives a measure of hope.

Excuse me folks but I must put my nose to the For sale And To Let columns,which normally at this time of year would be running into pages........this year it offers no more than a mere few on some days......all in the wrong areas at that!
Patience is a virtue so they say ........sadly mine is limited!

Enjoy the sunshine dear friends .

Charleygirl5 Tue 26-Feb-19 10:54:37

Panache if that was a decent offer- you know what you have to do. I would ask the estate agent selling your house if he knows of anywhere you could move to, be it sheltered or a ground floor flat, bite the bullet, pay somebody to pack for you and go.

Otherwise, why bother having people view if you are not going to move? I do realise it will be very difficult but decision time has arrived. You probably recognise I have no problems in that department, I make a decision and do it!

Feelingmyage55 Tue 26-Feb-19 11:06:01

Good morning all. I have been away and now I am back! Was at a much loved friend’s funeral and was struck, as always, at how we gather at such a time and the person we most wish was there, is not. Another friend is having a very, very big birthday this year and has invited everyone she cares about from all over the world, to a celebration, for this very reason.
Flowers to soop, kitty,dragonfly and everyone else with health problems and sadness weighing them down. Sorry not to get all the names as as have struggled to catch up.
panache. So glad to see you back. A suggestion, based on a successful experience with my parents - why not both speak and follow up with a letter, the sheltered housing administration. I know there are waiting lists but also that there may be room for flexibility based on your obvious need. Also when you are self funding, that can make a difference. It is difficult to be “pushy” but given your situation, you would be justified in being “politely, pushy”. Sometimes you just have to ask when it is not really in our nature. After all, remember, sheltered housing is meant for those most in need. Bon courage!
galen my deepest sympathy. And a reminder to self always, and your “friend” - if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all.
On a lighter note I have left a box of waffles and a jar of maple syrup on the side.

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