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soop Sun 20-Jan-19 11:31:49

Here we are again. Happy as can be. All good friends and jolly good company.

WELCOME!

Susan56 Sun 17-Feb-19 22:38:32

So sorry for your loss doodle?Hoping for a calm sea for you tomorrow soop.Grannyq I have ordered a photo sphere for my husbands birthday.
We celebrated baby B’s first birthday today.Lots of birthday cake left over so will leave it on the side in the kitchen.

callgirl1 Sun 17-Feb-19 23:49:28

So sorry to read your sad news Doodle, may your sister-in -law rest in peace.
I hope I`m not too late tom wish Soop a safe journey tomorrow.
Good to read another of your epistles Panache, but so sorry that you`re still not receiving the helpthat you so need and deserve. Thank you for your lovely pm.
My son is still waiting to hear from the hospital. The doctors had a meeting last Wednesday, he was told they would ring him on that day or on Thursday. When he hadn`t heard by Friday, he rang them, to be greeted by a recording saying there was nobody there until Tuesday!
N&G, I hope you still have energy to post by the end of the week!
Ann, I hope that you and your lovely granddaughter enjoyed your carvery.

callgirl1 Sun 17-Feb-19 23:50:13

To wish...….who`s Tom?

Doodle Mon 18-Feb-19 09:56:23

callgirl. How awful for your son and all of you. We build ourselves up for things like this and to not let him know is really bad. They must have realised he’d be worried. Hope the news when it comes is good.

megan123 Mon 18-Feb-19 10:01:27

Condolences Doodle.
Sorry to hear about your son Callgirl.
Love soop thinking about you and to all who are having such trying times flowers

NanaandGrampy Mon 18-Feb-19 10:56:12

Morning all!!

As in the best laid plans , ours have gone Awry!

Jackson is poorly so we will delay our pickup till Thursday onthe hope he’ll be feeling better. Stevie is very pleased as he gets 2 extra days!!

Grampy may need a lie down in a dark room ?

I love this photo sprees Grannie , I am very tempted , having seen your pictures !!

The delay must be excruciating Callgirl !

We are off to the forest for den building and archery !! Both activities are fraught with danger as Stevie is under the misguided opinion he is sleeping out in his den!! And don’t get me started on archery - between him and Grampy no one is safe !!

Happy day all!

NanaandGrampy Mon 18-Feb-19 10:56:42

Sphere !! Not sprees !!

GrannyGravy13 Mon 18-Feb-19 10:57:42

Thinking of you soop ?

Sending hugs to all kitcheners with worries, bereavement and health problems ?

Having a day in on Granny duty, the 4 yr old has just discovered board games as opposed to virtual ones, it is going to be a long day ?

Bellanonna Mon 18-Feb-19 11:09:39

You’ll be back when you read these messages, Soop. I do hope your day went ok and that you got your ferry. You will be very tired!

kittylester Mon 18-Feb-19 11:19:32

I realise I am late but my best wishes are winging their way to you, soop!

callgirl, it's the waiting that gets you down. Your son is getting very bad patient care whatever the decision that was made.

doodle, I'm sorry for your loss. flowers

annsixty Mon 18-Feb-19 11:31:36

I can only echo the messages to doodle and callgirl my sympathy to both.
It is duller but mild here today, I am doing odd tidying up jobs ready for my D and GC coming on Thursday.
My H has an appointment at the falls clinic that morning, so I want everything doing before then.

He was very down when my GD and I went yesterday, he actually said he was depressed, a word I have never heard him use before.
We stayed nearly two hours and it was a relief to leave, I know that sounds selfish but I can't allow myself to wallow too much.
We did however enjoy our carvery meal at a local pub. The meat was lovely and the veg was good but not up to mine?
Thinking of soop today having been there.

grannyqueenie Mon 18-Feb-19 11:48:38

Like kitty and others my good wishes for soop will be seen after the event. Nevertheless I’m sure she will be heartened to read that so many of us are thinking of her today. callgirl the waiting is awfully hard to bear. I do hope everything starts to gain speed soon. Thinking of you.

Sorry to hear your news doodle, those folk who’ve been part of our lives for so many years are very special and leave a big gap.

Good luck with those “elf’n safety” issues n&g! I’m not sure who out of that twosome will be the harder to monitor... hmm, actually from what you’ve said in the past I probably have a fair idea!! You’d enjoy playing with a photo sphere, I’m sure.

Enjoying a quiet day here, tomorrow we’ll go to collect our gs and his sister - a lively but lovely pair of mischiefs, we really need dry days! There’s a house move happening this week, so we’ll hang on to them till it’s all done and dd and sil have sorted themselves out a little.

Well the ironing is done,the washing is drying..... shame about the tidying up, it’ll have to wait. I’m off to meet up with a good friend and her dog. We’ve both been suffering with sore knees lately so it will definitely be more of a gentle stroll than a proper walk and may well involve a cuppa!

Charleygirl5 Mon 18-Feb-19 11:55:47

callgirl your son's treatment to date is appalling.

I do hope it was not too windy in soop's neck of the woods and the ferry was running.

A friend of mine moved from London to Berwick a few years ago to be closer to family but medical services there are appalling- having to travel to Newcastle around 120 miles each way if there is something seriously wrong. Her sister has cancer, has been to around 4 different hospitals for different treatments and has never seen the same person twice.

I think I will stay in London- I had an OPD appointment today, my local is 2 miles away. Not the best but fine for most things.

MawBroon Mon 18-Feb-19 12:01:08

So cross that my post expressing condolences to Doodle and good wishes to Soop seems to have disappeared (I blame Brexitgrin )
Sincere wishes if a bit late. Thinking of all with problems, worries, sadnesses or tribulations xx

Willow500 Mon 18-Feb-19 13:28:32

I'm so remiss in not responding for some time to all our dear kitcheners - I've been reading but never actually finding time to post. Welcome to all our newcomers and I have brought some cheese scones for all to share.

Doodle my condolences too on your sad loss - your SIL will be very much missed I'm sure.

Soop thoughts are with you today - I hope you managed to get the ferry and don't have to make the even longer trip. As someone said we who have hospital facilities 'on hand' don't appreciate how difficult it must be to live so far away.

Panache it's good to read your post and know that Mr P is slowly recovering - not so good that he now has sciatica to contend with and that things are still not moving fast enough in the care department.

Synonymous I'm sure once the day for your husband's op finally arrives you'll all heave a sigh of relief - only then can you actually begin to process the recovery/caring period. The waiting must be awful not just for him but for you all.

Ann I'm sure Molly will be fine although the vet is probably worried about her stitches. Once they have a taste of the outside life they can't wait to be out and about again.

I went away to the bungalow for a few days last week but started with a cold 2 days in so spent one day on the sofa wrapped in a blanket watching box sets. It was almost worth feeling poorly especially with no work to worry about grin This morning I've had a bad nose bleed - something I've been dreading since being on the blood thinning meds - bit scary but it stopped eventually.

Apologies to all those I've missed out - I have read everything! I will pop back in later to see if there is any news from Soop.

Galen Mon 18-Feb-19 15:52:30

Condolences Doodle

Now come on confess!
WHO PUT VIAGRA IN MY WILDLIFE POND?
The frogs are going crazy! At this rate I’ll have enough frogspawn to populate the British isles!

GrannyGravy13 Mon 18-Feb-19 15:59:04

Galen ???????

annsixty Mon 18-Feb-19 16:09:10

Willow500
I have noticed another poster named Willow10 I confess I have had you mixed up.
Has this impacted at all on you, has anyone else noticed?

dragonfly46 Mon 18-Feb-19 16:37:33

Doodle so sorry to hear about your SiL. Sad times.

Callgirl so sorry your son is left no knowing what has been decided. Fortunately where I go I get an appointment to go back again before I leave. Surely that is such an easy thing to do - he should not be waiting for a phone call. I do hope they get in touch tomorrow.

ann I am sorry your DH is feeling depressed. He will have up and down days. Fortunately with this disease he will have forgotten he was depressed next time you see him. My mum keeps asking for my dad but she seems to think he is down at the shops!

I am so jealous of all of you seeing your GC this week. Ours are still too small to have half term and I do not know when we will get to see them again. Once my DH is fully recovered from his sciatica we will have to go down to see them I think. It doesn't help that one of my friends keeps commenting on why I am not seeing my GC.
My young friend's husband is still missing - so sad!

I hope you had a successful trip soop and your next appointment is in place.

NanaandGrampy Mon 18-Feb-19 17:04:18

Evening all!!

We survived our Bear Grylls experience but it’s not until you see nature through the eyes of a young city bred boy do you realise how bloody marvellous it all is !! I have attached a picture , I missed the one of Grampy rescuing Stevie from the big ( and by big I mean huge ! ) slide !!

We are returning him with all his limbs to his Mum and Dad tomorrow but Jackson has tonsillitis so there will be a slight delay before we collect them , if he improves enough.

We shall be spending our down time putting things away , cleaning and buying more food !! Where do young boys put it??

Galen we have frog spawn envy here !! Stevie would love some but we haven’t seen any to collect .

So sorry to hear your friends husband is still missing Dragonfly do they suspect foul play?

We ignored all elf and safety issues GrannyQ , working on the principle that his Dad has shown him the rules for penknives , he is allowed one given to him by Grampy to splice twigs and such . I’m very proud of the way he is careful with it and puts it safely away when done. As to the rest - if being a boy gets you a few bumps and bruises so be it ?. I don’t know who had more fun the big ‘un or the little ‘un.

Hope all went well with soop I’ll pop in later !

NanaandGrampy Mon 18-Feb-19 17:05:17

Argh , added the same picture twice!

soop Mon 18-Feb-19 17:21:49

callgirl I can barely begin to imagine how bloody awful the endless waiting for news must be for your son, and all the rest of the family. My love to you.

Galen How come your frogs have been on VIAGRA? Did you purchance sneek into the not-so-poorly-chaps ward and rifle through the lockers? hmm Now I've heard it all. grin

ann You can only do what you already do for the sake of your dear husband. It is a cruel illness and, you are not to blame. You have a duty to take the best possible care of yourself. I'm happy to hear that you enjoyed time with your granddaughter. She sounds like a treasure.

I am very weary. MacSporran opted to drive the entire round trip of 240 miles. We dare not trust that the ferry would definitely be operating. The wind was gusting gale-force at times.
The hospital is situated high on a hill in Greenock. Merely walking from the car to the entrance was an ordeal. Had it not been for MacS I would have been blown out of sight.
Half an hour lying face-down with my breasts held in two apertures wasn't as uncomfortable as it sounds. It's the noise! Even with ear protectors, and music being played, the experience is capable of producing a monumental head ache.
Well, that's another boxed ticked. The three dimensional images will help the lovely lady consultant come to the right decisions regarding treatment. THANK YOU NHS and all who make a difference to the the not-so-well.
We stopped off at the Oyster Bar for coffee and a bite to eat. Now we are home and MacS is snoozing. I'm dolled-up in jim-jams and furry slippers.
I am sending every one of you my love. I shall be at home tomorrow and will call in for a proper catch-up. She says quietly and hopefully. smile moon

annodomini Mon 18-Feb-19 18:00:07

callgirl, there is no excuse for the treatment of your son - or should I say, lack of treatment? Either way, it's shocking that they are showing such lack of care for a patient who must be feeling very anxious at what is a devastating diagnosis. A word to the hospital's PALS organisation is called for. They need to know the effect the medics' behaviour is having on your son.
My condolences to you, Doodle. It was good that your SiL was so well cared for at the end.
Sorry it has taken me so long to catch up fully. I was away during the weekend for a good friend's 80th birthday party.

Galen Mon 18-Feb-19 19:09:33

N&G it’s actually illegal to collect and move frogspawn I’m afraid!☹️

Doodle Mon 18-Feb-19 19:16:50

Thank you again one and all for your kind wishes.

Oh soop you must both be exhausted. What a journey. Snuggldown in your jim-jams and rest. Hope all is well.

galen ?? that cheered me up no end.

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