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MissAdventure Tue 15-Jan-19 22:14:39

There are a lot of threads about the build up of clutter which needs to be sorted out and found a home, but what about the kind that you actively like?

Is your home full of candles, lamps, ornaments, and other things?

I've just been looking around, and mine is (too) full of bits and bobs.

Lumarei Wed 16-Jan-19 18:50:00

lovebeigecardigan1955. No books are not clutter as long as they are in a bookcase or shelf. :-). Nicely displayed sentimental ornaments are also no clutter in my eyes (although I have hardly any). As long as things have a ‘home’ and don’t pile up indiscriminately in corners and on any available surface things are just sentimental possessions.

sarahanew Wed 16-Jan-19 18:56:35

I like to declutter, feels good to have a sort out and tidy up and gi e a few things away to charity shops or friends or family who can make use of the stuff. But then I love charity shops and car boot sales and just end up buying other clutter! Oh well, it's all a change and no one loses out, me, family, friends, charity shops, car boot sellers...

OPgrndtr Wed 16-Jan-19 20:55:24

I call it a Throw Away Day. I have a small home w/6 bookcases and a cup collection on my kitchen wall. GC never give me anything. I have about a dozen family photos and four souveniers. I've always been a tidy housekeeper, but then I remarried. DH is a Keeper, but alot of his stuff is not. About three times a year I try to get his permission to throw some of his stuff away. That's why I celebrate Throw Away Day.

Barmeyoldbat Wed 16-Jan-19 22:11:19

I love that Throw Away Day

Jalima1108 Wed 16-Jan-19 23:03:18

Lots of my 'clutter' has a story behind it - either it was given by someone dear and perhaps deceased or inherited (each with its own story) or, as annsixty says, made or given by a DC or DGC, although I must confess some of the home-made precious stuff is carefully stored in a nice box!

And books .....

Patsy70 Wed 16-Jan-19 23:09:30

I have recently begun to declutter, and it is refreshing, as the stuff that needs to go, I DO NOT NEED! However, I do keep certain memorabilia which my children and grandchildren I think would find interesting. I like the idea of 'throw away day' and will continue to sort out cupboards.

Jalima1108 Wed 16-Jan-19 23:10:40

Juggernaut I have an unused celery jar somewhere and an unopened packet of those lights - thank you for the idea!

Now, where to put it, no space grin

GreenGran78 Thu 17-Jan-19 01:20:45

Kim19 Your Mum’s ‘wartime depravity’ sounds interesting. Can we have some more details?
Or was it a slip of the finger, and you meant ‘deprivation?’

BradfordLass72 Thu 17-Jan-19 02:57:02

This is as cluttered as I get.

MissAdventure mind still boggling at:

"I may get rid of a couple of dangly things."

MissAdventure Thu 17-Jan-19 07:39:15

I may treat you to a picture of one of my surfaces, Bradfordlass but I'm a bit scared you might tell me off!

Yours does look lovely, fresh and clean. smile

Lumarei Thu 17-Jan-19 08:42:29

Kim19 - I have begged my mum to get a skip and offered I would take any time off work to help her declutter so that one day when we have to clear the house (large 5 bed house with full celler all filled up) it would not be such a night mare. she just laughed and said. It’s mine and other people can throw everything away when she is gone.
Father in law has also so many little side tables and dressers and lamps that he found it hard to navigate around the house. He has just seen the light when he got rid of some random rugs on a carpet and a few little pieces of furniture and may continue the good work.

HazelGreen Thu 17-Jan-19 10:32:48

Spare long life shopping bags are returned to boot of car for next grocery run. The paper bags that come from other shopping are saved for charity collections .... they appreciate same for use in their shops.

Juggernaut Thu 17-Jan-19 10:57:05

Jalima
There's always space for a beautiful, illuminated celery jarwink

MissAdventure Thu 17-Jan-19 11:03:56

I don't have a celery jar.
Should I get one?smile

GrannyBeek Thu 17-Jan-19 13:19:08

My children are dreading having to clear our house. To be fair, a lot of the clutter belongs to DD, who still lives with us.

I have tried 'bring one thing into the house and throw one thing out'. I have tried 'throw out 10 things per day' (which turned out to be the empty dog food can and 9 paperclips). Tried 5 things - same result.

Like a lot of people, I went the opposite way to my mother. She got rid of a lot of my childhood things without telling me, and they had such happy memories. I have replaced some of them from charity shops/eBay! There's no hope for me.

Jalima1108 Thu 17-Jan-19 15:31:45

Having checked some out online, I'm not sure that my celery jar is beautiful - it's very plain.
But it does look very old.

rather like me in fact

Anniebach Thu 17-Jan-19 15:42:26

I love my clutter, my elder daughter could never resist buying me plant pots , angels and owls. And my grandchildren have given me quite a collection of Willow angels. And I have photographs of my daughters and grandchildren.

Anniebach Thu 17-Jan-19 15:43:35

And wind chimes and butterflies hanging from ceiling.

Willow500 Thu 17-Jan-19 15:59:27

Unfortunately I'm well aware of my clutter as the attached shows. All of this and more not on the picture has come out of the wall unit I'm currently renovating. I do try to keep the house tidy but love lights, candles and flowers so there are quite a few scattered about the rooms and kitchen. I can't wait to get this lot put away again - my mothers dinner service especially - the cats are banned from the conservatory at the moment in case they knock something over!

My bookcase has been whittled down to those collections I won't part with - we took 5 boxes of books to the local supermarket last year for their swap table. Needless to say I've not brought any home again!

Juggernaut Thu 17-Jan-19 16:26:07

Jalima
Beauty is in the eye etc!
I'm betting it's lovely, and will look glorious with tiny lights twinkling away, brightening up a corner!
MissA I'm not recommending you bring more 'stuff' into your home, but if you see a lovely one, why not!

Jalima1108 Fri 18-Jan-19 00:18:03

Having looked at some online now I'm not even sure it's a celery jar - MIL, who passed it on to me, said it was.
We used to put celery in it anyway

BradfordLass72 Fri 18-Jan-19 01:13:17

Oh no, I wouldn't tell you off and I'd love to see a photo.

Actually, I have heaps of things I could put our but don't. They're all packed away carefully. A de-cluttered house works for me because my eyesight is so poor.
I'm afraid I've dropped, knocked and smashed too many things to dare have stuff on display now.

MissAdventure Fri 18-Jan-19 01:33:31

One bit of my clutter

MissAdventure Fri 18-Jan-19 01:34:32

One of the danglers

MissAdventure Fri 18-Jan-19 01:37:50

Very blurry, but who can live without a plant, 3 Chinese children holding a pumpkin, and a wooden cat, complete with another dangler hanging off the wotnot. blush