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Impulse buys and do you regret them?

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Jane10 Tue 20-Nov-18 11:08:39

Yesterday, on the way to a group, I was walking through some little streets. Suddenly I saw a coat in a shop window. Reader I bought it!! (apologies Charlotte Bronte). I really don't do that sort of thing. I went in, tried it on and heard myself say 'I'll take it'.
I've never bought a coat before and live in anoraks and jackets. This new item is a long bright red coat. I look like an elderly grenadier guard in it. I just need a bearskin and a black horse to carry it off as an outfit.
Today. Do I regret it? Not really although I'll never actually wear it.
Mind you, previous impulse buys have always been a success. Maybe I should let my subconscious do the shopping more often? How about you others?

Sweetie222 Tue 20-Nov-18 19:42:28

Not sure if it qualifies as an impulse buy but when I was going on holiday last year I went shopping with my younger daughter.

Was thinking of maybe three or four items from nice shop bit more expensive than I'd usually go to (White Stuff .. most of my clothes come from Sainsburys Tu but I get lots of compliments on them).

Anyway, walked out with 18 items. Don't suppose I would have bought more than three of them if I was actually looking but she encouraged/made me buy anything I liked that fitted, small and round!

Still don't regret it a bit!

M0nica Tue 20-Nov-18 19:13:14

Lemongrove, I would have the beard if it weren't for electrolysis. It is that since childhood I have always been the odd one out in any group, which has never particularly bothered me, I decided long ago to just make the most of it and never worry about conforming or making myself blend in.

As a dear aunt once said, you are always the soldier putting your head above the parapet and having it shot off.

Jane10 Tue 20-Nov-18 19:02:08

I impulse bought a soup maker once too. I've never regretted that. It matches everything nicely Cherrytree59!

Nanabilly Tue 20-Nov-18 18:49:16

I think a red wool coat looks very smart especially she worn with a black and white dogtooth scarf.
As for the bright pink linen dress (sorry but I can't remember who it was) why don't you make it shorter and wear as either a top with black or grey trousers or a tunic with leggings .

Cherrytree59 Tue 20-Nov-18 18:39:51

Jane10 What about above Cossacks style hat? very chic smile.

I wish my impulse buy had little more Style
A soup maker!
Does have an orange handle.

travelsafar Tue 20-Nov-18 18:26:40

Oh yes i do this quite often.I have got wise to this trait of mine and always make sure i keep the reciept safe and dont cut off labels until i am 100% sure i am going to keep the item.

Jalima1108 Tue 20-Nov-18 17:55:56

I thought today that what I would like is a proper coat - all mine seem to be shorter jackets which are more practical if driving.

ginny Tue 20-Nov-18 17:52:46

I too bought a red coat last month. Not expensive but it was on impulse. I love it and it certainly looks cheerful. It’s lovely to wear something bright when the weather is dreary.

Jalima1108 Tue 20-Nov-18 17:37:33

It sounds lovely - wear it Jane10

However, I do have a short red wool jacket which I used to wear, until I wore it with black trousers on one Remembrance Day and found myself looking identical to the bandsmen and women.
I've not worn it since - I know I could wear it with something other than black trousers (if I had something).

However, yours is long so shouldn't be a problem. You could find one of those Russian fur hats to go with it!

Years ago I bought a nearly new car because I loved the colour - it was always troublesome and I had to trade it in.

Jane10 Tue 20-Nov-18 17:32:07

I once impulse bought a blouse. It cost several times what I'd usually pay but it's been such a good buy. I've actually been stopped by strangers to say how much they liked it.
I'm expecting salutes by passing guardsmen if I ever do wear it out!
PS the style consultant DD liked it. I'm planning to wear it at the weekend. Must look out my bearskin...

Day6 Tue 20-Nov-18 16:51:10

Yes Jane10, another impulse buyer here! I hope you wear your red coat.

I understand what you mean when you say you'll never wear it though. I bought (impulsively, but at different times) two very colourful jackets which I have never worn.

When I look at them hanging up in my wardrobe I still think they are lovely jackets, but they are just not me - maybe?

One is a lightly padded red cotton jacket with piped edges and the most exquisite pattern. I feel I'd stand out too much if I wore it. The other is a three quarter length green velvet jacket with a black collar and cuffs.

I love them both but perhaps I should give them away or sell them. I was trying to give rein to my Bohemian nature, I think, when I bought them! grin

Pssst, Jane - at least they aren't beige! grin

lemongrove Tue 20-Nov-18 16:42:04

I think impulse buys can often be good ones. After all, on some level you must really want it!
Wear it with pride Jane grin
Monica why do you say that ‘you stick out like a sore thumb’ ? Are you six feet tall or have a beard?

Anja Tue 20-Nov-18 16:40:44

Jane I like your style!

DoraMarr Tue 20-Nov-18 16:38:03

annodomini age has nothing to do with it:wear it if it makes you happy. The only inappropriate wear for us vintage women is anything too revealing: so, it’s legs or chest or arms, not all them or any two together.

Scribbles Tue 20-Nov-18 16:35:06

Ten years ago I made an impulse buy of a sequined Frank Usher top for evening wear. It cost the best part of a week's pay and I go to very few "dressed up" events so it's been worn maybe 6 or 7 times in that decade but I've never regretted it because a) it's gorgeous and b) it makes me feel good. So Jane, unless you used the rent money to buy it, put on your coat and flaunt it whenever the opportunity arises. Enjoy!

Anja Tue 20-Nov-18 16:32:36

I’ve just bought 5 bales of hay for an animal rescue site. I felt sorry for the ponies pictured knee-deep in snow.

eazybee Tue 20-Nov-18 16:11:36

My mother said you never regret an extravagance, and I do my best to honour her memory!
Trust your instinct and wear the coat.

M0nica Tue 20-Nov-18 13:30:41

My first ever 'civvy' coat (as distinct to my school gabardine mac that had to serve school and holidays) was a scarlet jacket. It was a 13th birthday present.

My DM wanted me to have a navy jacket (more practical), but my very stylish grandmother was with us and she backed me up in preferring the red jacket. I was still wearing that jacket when I went to university.

I have since had at least 4 or 5 red coats and 2 bright pink ones. Every time I wear a red coat I always give my DGM a passing thought.

Jane10 Tue 20-Nov-18 13:23:40

DS has just seen and gave it a thumbs up. He's red/green colour blind though and probably thought it was brown. DH is away just now but said it sounded OK when he phoned. DD (style consultant) due to visit this pm. Fingers crossed!

Greyduster Tue 20-Nov-18 12:37:30

I was quite taken aback when my DD bought me a bright red cashmere three quarter length car coat for a birthday. I would never have bought it for myself - I don’t do bright colours. But I wore it/wear it in the colder months and love it to bits. Jump in with both feet, Jane. You’ll love it in no time.

ninathenana Tue 20-Nov-18 12:35:51

I had a red knee lenth wool coat many years ago, I loved it and received many compliments when wearing it.
Wear it with pride Jane

Squiffy Tue 20-Nov-18 12:25:21

Do wear it Jane! Winter can be dreary enough with grey skies. A cheery red coat is very uplifting! Off to investigate red coats in my size . . . . . oh dear!

annodomini Tue 20-Nov-18 12:09:49

A bright pink linen dress from Ebay. What was I thinking? If I was 25 it might be suitable. But at 78? Oh dear! I can't see either of my GDs wanting it either. My greatest fault is late-night browsing and deciding I've found something perfect. Not so good in the cold light of day.

Auntieflo Tue 20-Nov-18 12:07:13

Oh do wear it. I bought a long, red coat a few years ago, and it has become my Christmas coat. I did wear it to our DGS passing out parade last year. With it’s brass buttons, it was quite military, and I found a black cloche hat to top it off.
Felt smart for a change, but I love my coat.

Dontaskme Tue 20-Nov-18 12:04:30

You have admitted to 2 impulse buys of RED coats - you very obviously love red coats and should just go ahead, wear them and enjoy them! What's wrong with a lovely red coat? Better than all the boring black and grey everyone else seem to be wearing. My coat is orange/mustardy, and what??!!