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mcem Mon 15-Oct-18 08:57:39

Anyone ready to start knitting royal baby jackets?

Sparklefizz Thu 25-Oct-18 18:36:14

Online criticism is at the root of so many young people's mental health problems. Their photos are savagely criticised, they are told they're too fat, too thin, too ugly, etc etc. They are miserable when no one gives their photos "likes".

I would be very upset if the criticism levelled at the RF on here were to be levelled at my daughter, son or grandchildren. Nobody deserves it or should have to put up with it.

I disagree with the remark "No one is above criticism". It's not a case of being "above it", but surely we can be kinder and nicer than that, not cruel and callous as many remarks in the media are.

Thank God the RF will never be reading this forum to see themselves shredded.

annep Thu 25-Oct-18 18:35:12

I've no objection to people being wealthy and having private health care if they have worked hard and not exploited anyone to get there!

Sparklefizz Thu 25-Oct-18 18:29:25

Well said Bridgeit.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 25-Oct-18 18:29:05

I overheard two ladies in M & S cafe today (estimate they were mid 60's - 70), they were very observant of all who passed by.

I think it is in our nature to observe and comment on life/people.

I would not like to be in their position, their every move is scrutinised. I really hope they are able to have some private family time when their child is here.

Far better to have the RF than a President.

Anniebach Thu 25-Oct-18 18:20:02

I agree with the above post, but no one is above critcism, be it one of us in our local coffee shop or the golf club dinner or the Windsors or anyone in the public eye

Bridgeit Thu 25-Oct-18 17:55:16

As I have said many times before , we are all an accident of birth, we do not choose who or what we are. At least they are a decent Royal family who carry out duties, (what ever you want to call it ) are greatly involved with charities. They have to put up with all the S- -T said about them, have their every move scrutinised, critisicised, or slavered over. My life, your lives, no one’s life will be any different if they weren’t here. I for one hope that the Royal family in their present form will continue to be an asset to the country & given the credit they deserve.

Anniebach Thu 25-Oct-18 17:30:10

I do critcise some of their clothes , still support the monarchy over a president

merlotgran Thu 25-Oct-18 17:22:55

And I love them so much I would never criticise their dress sense grin

#pantsonfire

Anniebach Thu 25-Oct-18 17:13:57

And me ?

Jalima1108 Thu 25-Oct-18 17:05:43

I love them
I love them too
me too
yes and me

grin

Anniebach Thu 25-Oct-18 16:17:20

Their work is more than shaking hands and smiling , this is what we see on tv screens. I don’t believe their lives are all sunshine and roses. They are not the only family who doesn’t use the NHS, they too have problems which money cannot take away .

gillybob Thu 25-Oct-18 16:08:17

Its certainly not the definition of "work" anyone I know would recognise either paddyann confused

paddyann Thu 25-Oct-18 15:58:39

My choice jalima same as their life is their choice.I was self employed so if we didn't work we didn;t eat.MY kids went to work with me from very early in their lives,my daughter was 8 days old her first day in the office.My OH did more than 8 or 10 hours a day,often not finishing until midnight or later.As I said it was our choice and I didn't ask for folk to sympathise OR look afer my kids.I'm not now either.Just showing that WORK means different things to different folk and shaking hands and smiling isn't the definaition of it I recognise

Grannybags Thu 25-Oct-18 15:56:53

gillybob grin

gillybob Thu 25-Oct-18 15:49:09

I can't see the point of a starting a thread such as this, where everyone has to agree with everything everyone says? How bloomin' boring would that be?

I love them
I love them too
me too
yes and me confused

Anniebach Thu 25-Oct-18 15:45:01

Surely we are allowed to post our opinions regardless if they are nasty negative, bitching, fawning.

Don’t critcise those in the thread title but personal attacks on posters are acceptable?

Critcise those in the thread title and you are bitching and need to find some hobbies !

gillybob Thu 25-Oct-18 15:33:07

My thoughts exactly annep.

annep Thu 25-Oct-18 15:29:34

I know I wouldnt want to do the tour that H&M are doing. But it doesn't make me a Royalist. I totally get what Paddyann said. I remember getting into the office and finding my coat pockets stuffed full of clothes pegs from bringing the clothes in off the line the previous evening as soon as I got out of the car, before starting dinner. Some of us had no choice but to work full time. They are privileged indeed. No wonder they live such long lives. No pressure, no financial worries, best health care, no waiting 2 weeks for ten min appointment! nannies, holidays, housework.....I could go on.
This is why you get nasty negative remarks from some folk.

Anniebach Thu 25-Oct-18 08:31:12

When I was 37, my daughters were in school and I was working 5 hours a day , wouldn’t work full time because I wanted to be with my daughters when they were home from school, didn’t work school holidays or if they were ill.

I didn’t work when pregnant.

eazybee Thu 25-Oct-18 08:08:32

Barefoot too, probably.

Jalima1108 Wed 24-Oct-18 23:28:50

Most of us ,at that age,would have had to get up early get other kids sorted for school,make breakfasts and get washing machine loaded ,food organised for after work and then head out to do our 8 or 10 hour stint in a job.

Goodness, pregnant, children, doing all the chores and a 10 hour stint each day at work must have been tough paddyann.
I must have been lucky that I didn't work such long hours when I was pregnant, only part-time. But then, I had no child-care whatsoever and a DH who was away working.

Anniebach Wed 24-Oct-18 21:06:34

The alleged handshake which some here will never forget

youtu.be/j3WHnMi3TJk

Anniebach Wed 24-Oct-18 20:43:59

Iam, I have many hobbies , as for being accused of bitching which means the posters consider me a bitch , I don’t care. I am no hypocrite .

Iam64 Wed 24-Oct-18 20:36:16

Blimey - now we're back to dragging Harry's dead mother into the area of criticism. I realise I'm not a Republican (any more) but I am an ordinary person, I have children a similar age to the 4 young members of the RF currently being dissected on here. I am so relieved that their lives aren't the subject of such cold critical and negative comments from a lot of grannies who well- need to get a hobby if this is the best we can do.
I've avoided using the word "bitchy" - I hate it. I have a lovely 10 year old female dog, a bitch. that's what a bitch is. It bothers me that women use the word to describe other women -it's derogatory and nasty. I know I know, I'm probably a snowflake and should be congregating with my adult children, the so called snow flake generation. (mine and all their friends work their socks off by the way.)

paddyann Wed 24-Oct-18 20:27:27

she's YOUNG ...ISH