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I have just been well and truly told off!

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Nannyme Wed 26-Sept-18 12:38:23

This morning I managed to get my shopping done quite quickly and had an hour left on my parking ticket so I offered to an elderly gentleman, actually I don’t think he was much older than me. He promptly told me in no uncertain terms that he didn’t do that sort of thing and I soukdn’t either and he would pay for his own ticket!, I have come home with my tail between my legs, but I stopped off to buy a nice cream cake to help me get over it!!

sarahellenwhitney Thu 27-Sept-18 10:06:37

Aggie have another cream bun on me. What a miserable old git that guy was.

theresacoo Thu 27-Sept-18 10:07:12

it was a nice gesture- he's a grumpy so and so.

lovebeigecardigans1955 Thu 27-Sept-18 10:07:48

He was an officious type, wasn't he? It'll make you think twice before doing this again but don't let if put you off being kind. In one of my local towns we did this all the time and nobody thought anything of it - it was just what we did.

quizqueen Thu 27-Sept-18 10:16:46

I would have replied to him that you will offer it to someone more grateful and you are glad that he hadn't accepted it now! You had paid for a space for a car for a certain time and it shouldn't matter what car is in that space if there is time left. Who cares if it's illegal; some rules are stupid and should be challenged. You'd probably get a lesser fine if you'd stabbed someone these days for all the police and courts care!!! Easy pickings is the name of the game in these modern times.

All councils and private companies are just out to rip you off and then complain more people shop on line. Luckily, my local council offers an annual parking clock for about £20 for local residents. You can use it an unlimited about of times for under 3 hours in each car park anywhere within your council tax area so local high streets are well used. My daughter buys me one every year as part of my Christmas present and, as it has no identifying features on it, I can let family borrow it too.

Bobdoesit Thu 27-Sept-18 10:28:18

I do it all the time and take tickets if they are offered to me.
Enjoy your cream cake and forget about him. flowers

ReadyMeals Thu 27-Sept-18 10:31:56

Well he was right to refuse it but he could have been more polite about it!

manma2 Thu 27-Sept-18 10:34:50

Miserable old beggar......hope you enjoyed your cream cake wink

rafichagran Thu 27-Sept-18 10:37:36

Miserable old sod, I have done this and people have always said thank you, Have also taken one too when offered. Saved me time and money. Enjoy your cake.

Blinko Thu 27-Sept-18 10:38:59

What a brilliant idea about the annual parking clock, QQ. Wish our council would implement something similar. We do get the first two hours free parking though so I suppose we must be thankful for small mercies.

Purplepoppies Thu 27-Sept-18 10:46:14

My aunty got a fine from taking someone else's ticket!! He shouldn't have spoken to you like though, there are nicer ways of saying no thank you

Lilyflower Thu 27-Sept-18 10:55:18

Just to point out that this sort of petty, official bullying is what we will all be in for in every area of our lives if people are foolish enough to vote for the extreme left candidate in the next election.

granfromafar Thu 27-Sept-18 11:03:07

Quizqueen, where do you live? Will be moving there pronto! Sometimes tickets are transferable, you just have to read the small print. We recently used the carpark for Lindisfarne castle and as we hadn't used up all the time, passed it on to another motorist who was very grateful. Had quite a bit of money on it so was hoping she was going to offer part of the cost but no such luck! Still, it was my good deed for the day. Hate the ones which require you to put registration number in too.

GabriellaG Thu 27-Sept-18 11:04:40

MawBroon
What a killjoy you are.

GabriellaG Thu 27-Sept-18 11:11:33

Day6
If, as you wrote, it was a virtually empty car park, why did you park next to a car which was parked at a 'wonky angle'? It makes no sense to do that, as you must have noticed when driving into the space.

Stella14 Thu 27-Sept-18 11:18:57

The powers that be may well say that tickets are not transferable. However, I take the view that when one is purchased, a parking space has been rented for that period of time. If the renter is leaving with time remaining, it’s quite reasonable to pass it on! I have never been one for blindly obeying rules. I feel that if we all did that, the path could lead to Orwell’s 1984! wink

JudyJudy12 Thu 27-Sept-18 11:19:50

Day6 I would not mention that it was an almost empty car park as there would be no reason that you had to park over the line because of the car in the next bay.

123kitty Thu 27-Sept-18 11:20:38

I bet he spent the whole day feeling so virtuous- silly old sod!

Stella14 Thu 27-Sept-18 11:25:29

Lilyflower, that is a very sweeping, and in my view, ill informed comment! What is your evidence for that?

MaryXYX Thu 27-Sept-18 11:30:53

If someone tried to induce me to break the law I would be angry. I wouldn't know if you were a habitual lawbreaker, or perhaps an undercover cop.

inishowen Thu 27-Sept-18 11:32:06

I always pass my ticket to someone else if there's time left on it. It's just the done thing isn't it? That man was rude. Please don't let him annoy you, and keep on what you've been doing.

Baggs Thu 27-Sept-18 11:35:31

Its being illegal does not make it wrong. Legality is not the same as rightness where real ethics are concerned.

Enjoy your cream bun, nannyme.

MawBroon Thu 27-Sept-18 11:35:48

MawBroon
What a killjoy you are ????

GabriellaG what on Earth do you base that on?
Hope nobody else feels the same. sad
I have on occasion offered and accepted the odd ticket, but I know that the wardens are ever more eagle eyed (photographing number plates) and I imagine OP while meaning well, was unaware she was both in danger of a penalty for herself and the other driver.
However, each to their own. I don’t go a bundle on self righteous lexicographical rectitude myself.

Nonnie Thu 27-Sept-18 11:38:39

QQ and Blinko we had annual car park passes which allowed us to park for 2 hours in any of our local council car parks but then the local traders didn't like that visitors had to pay about 50p an hour and got it changed. They seemed to think that visitors wouldn't come if they had to pay more to park although I have never checked the cost of parking when visiting a pretty town. The result was that our annual ticket cost went up by 60% so I didn't buy one and went less often into town to shop.

mabon1 Thu 27-Sept-18 11:44:00

You couldn't do that where I live as you have to put your registration number into the machine before parking.

eazybee Thu 27-Sept-18 11:45:54

Car parks and their charges can be the biggest scam out.
But here's the reverse; I frequently park in Wimborne town centre: 60p for one hour, 70p for two, and a colossal 80p for three hours. Which is why I do most of my shopping in Wimborne if possible.