You are not fussing at all, annep. I had my cataract operation last Wednesday, and I still feel very 'wobbly'.
Consultant, Surgeon and Nursing have been first class - thankyou our wonderful NHS. The post operation regime is very strict with the 2 sets of drops and hygiene advice on no hair washing and no showers etc
I cannot go without my daily bath, so am having very shallow baths and wear my glasses in the bath (not a pretty sight!!). Also advised to use spray dry shampoo, so not ideal at all.
I do wish your Husband well, and am so sorry that you have to carry out all the 'Nurse' duties for him with your own health issues. Take care.