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petunia Tue 07-Aug-18 08:03:59

My name is Petunia and I am an addict.......of stripy tops. I did a bit of a wardrobe blitz at the weekend and was shocked to find I had 12 stripy tops.
It started innocently enough; I bought a Breton top some years ago. I liked the boat neck and the longer length .I liked the white and navy colour combination. It seemed so versatile but classic. I wore it in summer with shorts and winter with jeans. It was soft but robust and I wore it to the death. As it gasped its last breathes, I ordered what I thought were identical replacements. Two of them. But alas, they were not the same quality. These two were a bit coarser and closer fitting. So I then began the search for the perfect stripy top.
And that is how I managed to accumulate 12 navy and white stripy tops. There were more along the way but some have been relegated to the charity shop. Not all Breton style. In fact I have moved to short sleeves, ¾ sleeves, and long sleeves. The stripy top has become my go to top.
I did flirt with navy or black tops with white spots at one time but it wasn’t the same feeling. It wasn’t right.

So here I am now, a big trip planned very soon and the majority of tops I have are stripy and white with navy.
I need to break this addiction. I need another go to top. Any suggestions

thecatgrandma Wed 08-Aug-18 17:33:06

Agreed. But maybe in that situation your thoughts would be distorted and not able to see the original post for what it is.

Marmight Wed 08-Aug-18 16:00:31

Me too. I always home in on anything stripey, mostly blue/white although last week's purchase does have red as well; very patriotic. I have now decided to take myself in hand, after all enough is enough ...

knspol Wed 08-Aug-18 14:47:28

I was once told by a rather snooty French woman that she could tell I was a Brit because I wore stripes! Noticed later how many Brits were wearing striped tops. Tried to avoid them for awhile but can't resist, so many and always look fresh and clean and also I don't mind at all looking like a Brit.

Aepgirl Tue 07-Aug-18 20:29:20

I also love stripey tops, but I don't think of myself as an addict. They are so easy to wear with trousers, jeans and skirts. I find that Seasalt and Boden are best. Wear them with pride, and don't feel embarrassed.

Villamartin452 Tue 07-Aug-18 18:44:48

Is that all? 12? You should see my collection before you worry!

Jack62 Tue 07-Aug-18 16:54:15

Joules do a lovely Harbour striped top in many colour combos (I have lots of them!) They wash and wear well and always look fresh in short, 3/4 and long sleeved versions. Striped tops are a favourite, I have tried to veer away but always come back to them as a favourite!
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scrabble Tue 07-Aug-18 16:43:26

I have progressed to striped dresses.

sparkly1000 Tue 07-Aug-18 16:03:04

Interestingly there was an article in The Times weekend magazine supplement at the beginning of this month from a woman who had a rare form of OCD resulting in her acquiring over 400 navy knitted jumpers and cardigans.
She rarely wore any of them, too many.
She would regular get up in the middle of the night to check that they were all hung or stored in the right order.
Eventually the cycle was broken when her job required her to work abroad for 3 months, on her return she realised that she could live without them.
I don't think you have a problem.

leeds22 Tue 07-Aug-18 16:02:23

Only 12? Joules do a nice mid season weight. I also like Boden’s long sleeve one in lots of different colours. Their stripy tunics are good too. And I’m wearing a boden cream and blue stripe vest at the moment. Love em all!

grandmaz Tue 07-Aug-18 15:47:08

My pleasure rubytut...take care, though...it's very more-ish! Oldbatty...are you already a 'Tilletier'?? smile

oldbatty Tue 07-Aug-18 15:44:41

123kitty......you have your own French fashion advisor???? nice.

Jennylynn Tue 07-Aug-18 15:39:38

My best friend is a striped top addict. We have never looked at it as a problem. I bought her two new ones just recently and when we go shopping, I always point out all the garments that have stripes. They always look very smart on her

Peaseblossom Tue 07-Aug-18 15:08:43

Petinia If the others you ordered did not fit as well, why did you not return them?!

Jillyblom59 Tue 07-Aug-18 15:08:28

Me too. I have several stripey tops and I daren’t even hazard a guess at how many pairs of linen trousers.
I don’t feel guilty, its a far better addiction to have than drugs or alcohol. ?

TheMaggiejane1 Tue 07-Aug-18 14:30:47

My daughter recently bought a striped top with the slogan ‘I must stop buying striped tops’ on it. Sounds right up your street petunia.

willa45 Tue 07-Aug-18 14:12:03

Prints!! My addiction consists of print tops. If I see one I like, I can't resist. I lean towards flowers, geometric patterns, leopard spots, paisleys etc. I do notice a propensity towards Navy Blue and White or Navy, Avocado and White, Navy and Yellow....lots of Navy in my closet. Hmmm.....Does that mean anything psychological, I wonder?

Mabon, Sorry for your unhappiness. OK to release your frustrations by raining on happier threads .....just don't hit the 'send' button. Better still, why not start a thread of your own? There are many caring Gransnetters here, myself included.

123kitty Tue 07-Aug-18 13:45:49

White round neck t-shirts or Bretton tops and t-shirts, so chic. As my French fashion adviser says, leave all those dreadful flowery patterns for the sofas and cushions.

Eglantine21 Tue 07-Aug-18 13:33:40

I always lurch towards anything in yellow or mustardy sort of colour. In spite of the fact that I look terrible in in and have bought it in the past and never worn whatever it is that I have bought.

I still want it.

Billybob4491 Tue 07-Aug-18 13:15:59

Petunia, I have so many handbags I could open a handbag shop (Radley being my favourite).

Blinko Tue 07-Aug-18 13:03:02

J52 grin hilarious!

With me, it's grey cardigans...or anything grey and navy. I can't seem to stop myself. Till last week in Matalan, I found myself with yet another grey cardie in my hand on my way to checkout. Then I put it back on the rail! I'm being strict now.

Mapleleaf Tue 07-Aug-18 12:45:56

mabon1, you're doing it again, aren't you? I'm sorry to hear of your problems. However, has it not occurred to you that many posters on this thread also have serious issues that they are faced with and coping with, but that does not mean that they cannot enjoy a little bit of lightheartedness such as is being shown on this thread. If you find it upsetting, perhaps you should avoid anything of a lighthearted nature, but please don't criticise others who do get enjoyment from these threads.

Nvella Tue 07-Aug-18 12:31:46

Mine’s white tops - particularly in the summer. The minute I am in a shop I spot yet another one which might be perfect. I think I have about 15

petunia Tue 07-Aug-18 12:17:04

Thank you fish and kitty-how much of a co-incidence is that-I read mabon’s post and couldn’t think of a suitable reply quickly. Your replies hit the spot. I know there are people out there struggling with all manner of issues and I don’t want to minimise their pain. I am sure there is a tread here that will understand and support.

My post was meant to be light-hearted. I had a thread earlier this week about “stuff” and how it creeps up gradually. My wardrobe blitz sprang from that and the shock of finding so many similar things. It’s not until they are all gathered together and exposed that I realised how dire it all was. And don’t start me on the spice drawer-that’s a whole new thread in itself. Or shoes. Or handbags.
In my “stuff” thread, I spoke of me talking to my twenty year old self about the dangers of “stuff”. Here I am at sixty plus dealing with the fall out of forty plus years of “stuff” collection. I know it’s trivial.

Lilyflower Tue 07-Aug-18 11:43:03

My daughter probably has about twelve Breton striped tops. They are lovely.

I have about twelve tops in either black or white.

I might try spots in a few years time if I want a change.

J52 Tue 07-Aug-18 11:37:04

I’m another stripe top hoarder. There I’ve confessed!

Recently I was approached by a very nice man who chatted to me in a very familiar way. He then realised I was not his wife, just wearing the same striped top!