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What irritates you about other Gransnetters?

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Nonnie Tue 03-Apr-18 13:15:17

Perhaps I should duck before I even start!

I think there are two things which make me wish people didn't do them.

1 When someone asks for really simple advice and people don't read what others have said before saying exactly the same. Yes, I understand on long threads that one cannot read it all and there are posters who say they haven't read it all and hope they are not repeating, they are not irritating.
2 People who post to say they don't know anything about the subject, why post at all then? No, I don't mean those who just want to show sympathy or that they care, of course that is appreciated. It feels like they just have to comment for the sake of commenting.

Perhaps I'm not in a very tolerant mood today. I admit I'm feeling emotional so maybe that is why. Or maybe I'm just plain grumpy!

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 19:37:40

Jane10 throw your corsets through the window along with my printer-scanner - liberation!!

Liberation from technology and liberation from Victorian corsets. grin

No-one on GN has sounded remotely Victorian to me!

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 19:35:35

Thanks anno, I was relying on you to have the answer to my problems!
Window it is then, although it could just be still under guarantee!

mollie Tue 03-Apr-18 19:06:26

I like paragraphs too. And spellings, but I’m just as guilty now and then. I’ve stopped feeling ignored when someone repeats my comments and gets mentioned for the point. But I hate it when I start a thread and someone comes along and drags my thread into another direction. It happens occasionally and I’ve usually failed to get it back on track. So annoying!

annodomini Tue 03-Apr-18 18:39:23

jalima, it sounds as if through the window would be the best solution to your scanner problem!

PamelaJ1 Tue 03-Apr-18 18:29:18

GillT- I blame all my grammar and punctuation inaccuracies on predictive text. I couldn’t even spell Nina correctly earlier!

Madgran77 Tue 03-Apr-18 18:20:09

Sorry ..."give honest opinions" ...

Madgran77 Tue 03-Apr-18 18:19:35

Rudeness/aggressiveness/ belittling posts that are claimed to be "straight talking; the truth" etc etc!!! One can be straight talking and five honest opinions that might be hard for the OP, without any of the above! Apart from anything else, now of the above help to get a point over!!

kittylester Tue 03-Apr-18 18:17:09

I agree with Jane10. Some people have no flipping awareness at all.

SpanielNanny Tue 03-Apr-18 17:54:55

It really does depend on my mood, some days my tolerance levels are lower than others. I must admit to getting slightly frustrated when posters say they can’t comment ‘without knowing both sides’. The very nature of the forum means that we will only ever hear the OP’s point of view. I can understand urging the OP to consider the other side, but declining to offer advice for that reason seems such a pointless comment.

Jane10 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:53:21

I'm cross just reading this thread!! From a couple of responses I find that apparently I'm stuck in a victorian time warp and rely on men. That's absolute b******s! I'm fed up with GNers who don't think how their posts make others feel. angry

MawBroon Tue 03-Apr-18 17:52:02

Elrel some days I could pick a fight in an empty room, so you are entirely excused!

Luckygirl Tue 03-Apr-18 17:50:37

grin

I don't mind poor grammar or mis-spellings. Some folk have not had the benefit of a good education and that is not their fault - as long as I can understand it then that is fine by me.

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:47:43

Like that

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:47:37

Oh - and posters who post one after another. Like me

I mean one post after another

Jalima1108 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:44:51

anno please could you pop round and set my scanner up please? It's been set up by a friend who is 'an expert', went again, then I did it and it was fine, now the printer is working but the scanner isn't!! DH doesn't have a clue what's wrong. I am ready to throw it through the window.

Thanks smile

MawBroon grin

I agree about the lack of paragraphs - sometimes a new poster writes an extremely long OP and I lose the will to read it part way through.

Oh - and posters who post one after another. Like me

GillT57 Tue 03-Apr-18 17:43:12

I get irritated too by lengthy posts without the use of paragraphs. Don't wish to be a grammar nazi, but sometimes poor punctuation and ambiguous meanings get me exhausted trying to work out what the OP is saying, I also loathe the word 'hubby' and I am afraid that I generally ignore the post if that word is used. shock. Generally feel a bit saddened by the number of women on GN who live their lives for/through/only for their grandchildren. Apologies if I offend anyone, that is not my intent, just an observation.

Elrel Tue 03-Apr-18 17:41:55

I'm not feeling irritated at all today! Some days I could pick an online fight with loads of people but maybe not on Gransnet!

ninathenana Tue 03-Apr-18 17:36:12

Apologies to the pedants for the rogue apostrophe.

ninathenana Tue 03-Apr-18 17:31:47

PamelaJ1
I think that was mean't to say nina ?
Thanks for the good intentions smilesmile

farview Tue 03-Apr-18 17:24:38

Well really it just shows that we gransnetters are all different ages,think,act,are different,come from all sorts of backgrounds e.g education,money,opinions are different,due to lots of reasons and we all need to tolerate each other,that's what friends do smile

MawBroon Tue 03-Apr-18 17:21:42

Well of course PamelaJ none of this thread would be necessary if we had all voted Remain
Oops, was it something I said?
gringrin

Bathsheba Tue 03-Apr-18 17:20:59

I agree - paragraphs would help enormously on long posts. As would the odd full stop, lol! I am amazed at people who just write a great long screed, with no punctuation whatsoever, and no paragraphs. How they expect anyone to be able to follow it I'll never know. It makes me feel out of breath grin

NanKate Tue 03-Apr-18 17:17:47

Those who are very PC who won't listen to the views of others, that don't conform to their way of thinking,

Luckygirl Tue 03-Apr-18 16:59:38

It would help me enormously if people writing a long post were to use paragraphs - as someone above has said - I am just getting that in, so as not to cause annoyance! grin

PamelaJ1 Tue 03-Apr-18 16:52:40

I a and Bluebelle I thought that only happened to me, so glad I’m in good company.
Please notice I mentioned you both!
It also irritates me when some posters try and turn everything into an argument about Brexit. I try to avoid those very cross discussions .