Please don't judge her. I know that does sound OTT but people cope in their own ways and, unless you have been in the same situation, it is very difficult to understand.
DS's neighbour, who was 94, told her daughter that she was now ready to 'go in the cupboard' a couple of weeks before she died. Apparently her husband's ashes had been kept there for many years.
DiL's sister lost someone dear and had some of his ashes put into a tattoo.
We haven't done anything with DS's ashes yet, we have ideas of what to do but want to be sure that everyone is happy with whatever the final decision is. I don't know how hard it will be to part with them, will it feel like another bereavement?
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