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Niggles and smiles.

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Atqui Wed 31-Jan-18 14:00:09

OK, Let's first take it as read that most if not all Gransnetters are concerned about the state of the world, poverty, injustice, illnesses of loved ones etc etc. I'm just curious to know what minor things niggle people ( I don't mean language, but practical things like the chairbackrobe.) Mine is H putting dirty cups on worktop above the empty dishwasher!We could counter these grumbles with a couple of things that made us smile this week.

Menopaws Sat 03-Feb-18 15:14:12

On the flip side when he comes home and I see him come through door and he smiles at me, my heart still misses a beat

Menopaws Sat 03-Feb-18 15:12:40

Quote ' I was in the supermarket and thought these might be useful' I asked him to get something he would like for dinner. Chicken thighs. He hates chicken. Not just a couple but eight! Would you like chicken casserole? No thanks not keen on chicken. Ffs.

Menopaws Sat 03-Feb-18 15:07:20

Rosie, so many of my knives have flat ends,he has a whole workshop full of tools and yet my lovely kitchen knives are always the ones that get used, WHY???.

Menopaws Sat 03-Feb-18 15:03:26

Mercedes yes sugar, every morning he takes a teaspoon to coffee machine 9 inches away (yes I measured it) and always manages to knock some of spoon which creates a gritty surface. It's just not necessary

Rosieroe Sat 03-Feb-18 14:52:55

Jalimah if they are he will have been cutting through wire with them! lol

MaggieMay my OH does that too! I tell him that he’s wasteful as kitchen roll has to be thrown away whereas a plate which is washed and reused. And when wiping things he will always take several sheets of kitchen roll when he knows we started buying decent quality stuff so one (not the Juan one) sheet would do the job.

MaggieMay60 Sat 03-Feb-18 14:44:54

My DH will make himself toast, but never uses a plate, instead he will get a piece of kitchen roll and use that and then leave all of the crumbs and the piece of used kitchen roll on the worktop...and it is funny how he can remember where the toaster lives but cannot remember to put it back! Drives me Mad!!!

He always makes me a cuppa after our evening meal and is a good fixer of anything! May take a bit of time but he will do it.

Jalima1108 Sat 03-Feb-18 14:17:34

ps are my kitchen scissors behind your tv by any chance?

Jalima1108 Sat 03-Feb-18 14:16:50

hmm what to suggest?
I can think of something but best not put it into print.

Rosieroe Sat 03-Feb-18 14:12:13

Plenty of drawers in the house Jalima but it wouldn’t matter. In the drawer in the hall table I keep a really handy little tool, in its box. It is super wee gadget - a little brass hammer and its handle unscrews several times to reveal decreasing in size small screwdrivers. I bought it and kept it hidden for my use as he always ‘lost’ every screwdriver and I could never find one when it was needed. I eventually revealed that I had this and he uses it frequently (in fact last time I went to use it only the top half was there and the screwdriver parts were missing. Eventually found behind the tv where he had been using it.)

Jalima1108 Sat 03-Feb-18 13:36:11

We're lucky enough to have a utility room so DH has a couple of drawers in there with rubbish screwdrivers and other assorted bits and pieces which he might need handy instead of trekking out to the garage.
Have you got a spare drawer he could use? or one of those plastic toolboxes with a handle to keep somewhere?

the drawers aren't really spare btw - I have to keep tablecloths etc upstairs as there isn't a spare drawer downstairs for them!

However, he does seem to have misappropriated my kitchen scissors, hope they haven't ended up like your knife Rosieroe

Rosieroe Sat 03-Feb-18 13:30:44

This! Bottom one is (was) my favorite knife from my Sabatier knife set which OH used instead of a screwdriver. He was told off and reminded about the boxes of tools in the garage (and the little screwdriver I keep indoors). The top one is the replacement knife. It took me some time to find one to match the set. I’ve just used it and have found the tip is bent which can only mean that he has been at it again! ?

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Feb-18 20:33:09

Someone in this house follows me round, saying 'you have a letter from 'junk so and so', then, when getting no response, files it in my in tray (where it could stay for weeks!)
Ditto with important mail too hmm

Maggiemaybe Fri 02-Feb-18 20:29:56

Somebody in this house insists on opening obvious junk mail, reading it out loud when somebody else is trying to concentrate (on Gransnet), then putting it neatly back in the envelope and down onto the nearest surface, where it could stay forever, instead of whizzing it straight into the recycling.

But the good news is, my February GN Book Club book has arrived!

lemongrove Fri 02-Feb-18 20:28:50

Have you seen the price of them Jalima ?! It will be one only ( if I’m lucky.) ? but it may produce a lot of fruit,
( to go with my lot of gin.)

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Feb-18 20:22:37

a whole grove of them lemon!

lemongrove Fri 02-Feb-18 20:19:52

Thanks Jalima always wanted a lemon tree in the conservatory, so handy to slice into my g&t.????

NannyTee I have put three pints of your usual on the bar in The Argy......enjoy! They will deaden any pain.

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Feb-18 20:07:07

Ouch!
All I can suggest is plasters with lots of Savlon medicated cream.

NannyTee Fri 02-Feb-18 20:04:44

Well my niggles are two excruciatingly painful whitlows on my fingers . Wanting to cry with the throbbing pain.

Just put my house back in order after a lovely mad evening with DD and 3 GC. Priceless but shattered now haha.

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Feb-18 20:01:31

Tell Mrs Grumppa that we all think you're wonderful
Don't know what she's moaning about. wink

Jalima1108 Fri 02-Feb-18 20:00:46

well, except I have yet another sore throat
Vit D, Vit C with zinc and flavonoids lemongrove

And lemons of course. PickYourOwn.

lemongrove Fri 02-Feb-18 19:58:16

Haha, well, they don’t all wake you up by whacking you on the head with a baseball bat ( fortunately)??

WilmaKnickersfit Fri 02-Feb-18 18:12:29

NannyTee it was wonderful. grin

lemongrove I second Simon's Cat on YT. I thought all cats were like that! grin

grumppa Fri 02-Feb-18 17:20:33

Having read this thread, I think I am an exemplary H.

But would Mrs Grumppa agree?

FranT Fri 02-Feb-18 15:52:06

Was just thinking this Gypsyqueen13, but now always tell my friends 'treasure them whilst you've got them', but to be fair I was exactly the same, and used to moan and tell all and sundry that 'he did my head in'. Wish he still did! My smile is my 4 Grand kids ranging from 23, 16, 15 and 11, they're comical when they can be surgically removed from their phones.

lemongrove Fri 02-Feb-18 11:49:55

No niggles today ( well, except I have yet another sore throat)

DH now working in the garden on something we planned ( a year ago, but what the heck.) ?