India was amazing, such a country of contrasts.High end luxury in the hotels we stayed at, but step outside the grounds and there is dire poverty. Dehli is like a huge building site with so much contruction going on, and everywhere there are people peddling their wares from stalls, shop fronts or just a blanket on the ground.Cows, pigs and dogs amble up and down completely ignoring the madcap traffic and there is the incessant sound of horns being blown. No one seems to observe any rules when driving and infact most traffic that is going in one direction can suddenly have vechiles coming in the other direction, there are bikes, camel carts and elephants all using the same roads as huge lorries and cars. I bought many mementoes of my trip and the markets are a wonderous experience. Out in the more rural areas it is like a time warp with women doing the washing at the river banks, grinding corn and chillies between huge stones, they also squat and shape cow dung into frisbie shapes which are then set out to dry in the sun for use later as material for fires. Some scenes are almost biblical, palm trees, camels, oxen and little huts built from straw or sticks, the women dressed in brightly coloured saris and their washing spread over bushes to dry. It is a magical place. But it is changing and our tour guide says if you went back in 15 years lots of what we saw will be gone for ever. I am so glad i went i will never forget it.
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