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grannyactivist Wed 29-Nov-17 14:20:03

I am excited because..........my foster son is coming to visit today. Hooray!! grin grin grin (He's also bringing his closest friends with him to visit his 'English family'.)

Nearly sixteen years ago a young teenage boy from Taiwan came to stay with me for a week while his homestay family went on holiday. He was here to learn English and although he had attended the local International School for a month or so he spoke barely any English and understood very little. He was overweight, shy and culturally adrift and we did our best to make him feel at home. We were so successful that at the end of the week he refused to leave us and return to his homestay family and begged us not to send him away; after several urgent phone calls between his mother and the school we were asked if we would allow him to stay for the reminder of his time in England and we agreed. He lived with us for almost a year and a half, taking holidays with us, celebrating birthdays etc. and eventually, at his family's request, I became his legal guardian. He did 'O' and 'A' levels and then went on to do a Foundation Degree, a BA (Hons) and finally a Masters Degree; returning to us for weekends and holiday periods. Eventually, after eleven years in the UK, he went back home to his first family in Taiwan where he now works as Business Manager in the family firm.
Since we first agreed to him living with us he has been a son to The Wonderful man and me, and a brother to my children. When he left I was devastated; I really thought I would hardly ever see him again, but he has managed to get home most years - and sometimes several times a year when he's heard I'm ill. He came home to attend their weddings when my son and daughter each got married and visits as soon as he can when there are new babies. I love him to pieces and am counting down to his 6pm arrival in great excitement.

What are you excited about?

Longdistancegrnny Thu 30-Nov-17 12:56:04

What a lovely story GA - and he sounds like a wonderful caring young man. Enjoy!
In less than two weeks time I won't be 'Longdistancegrnny' for a while, as DD, SiL and family are all coming here for a month over Christmas and New Year, so I shall become 'Hands on Granny' to a 3 year old and 5 month old twins! So very exciting here! My other DD and S have not met the babies yet, so I am even more excited on their behalf!

Irenelily Thu 30-Nov-17 12:50:48

What a wonderful gift you gave to that young man by your ongoing hospitality. Bless you Grannyactivist!
My excitement is Christmas this year, which I thought would be just DH and me as he is now very disabled and we couldn’t travel to my eldest daughter’s home as usual, but youngest DD’s husband says they will bring Christmas to us - he will do all the cooking - and the bonus is we shall have their two boys aged 8 and 10 so an exciting time to enjoy!

Shazmo24 Thu 30-Nov-17 12:28:59

With all the doom & gloom this story warmed my heart. If you hadn't taken this young man in he wouldn't be the man he is today.
So very pleased that you and your whole family played such an important part in his life at such a crucial stage. He now is repaying that love in coming to see you all whenever he can.
Have a wonderful time together

Lona Thu 30-Nov-17 12:16:59

That is great news grannya, no wonder you're excited! Hope you are feeling better now too xx

Morgana Thu 30-Nov-17 11:44:42

What a lovely story G.A. and so wonderful that he keeps in touch. I am looking forward to seeing the grandkids next week. The littlest one is six months so changes a lot between visits. I feel very blessed to have grandchildren.

JackyB Thu 30-Nov-17 11:32:24

Jaded old fogey that I am, I don't do "excited" any more - if I ever did.

However, I have managed to get a little excited that all my sons will be together at Christmas. Not with us, but in America, but I'll be with them in spirit.

And, like Chewbacca, I may be made redundant soon, which will be a blessing so shortly before retiring.

nellgwin Thu 30-Nov-17 11:12:16

I'm looking forward to our choir Christmas program, carol singing around the village, carol singing at village restaurant, and very lively carol singing in a very noisy bistro/bar were we sing our whole program with diners joining in and we all have a joyous and noisy time, that makes my Christmas. ?

newnanny Thu 30-Nov-17 11:05:04

I too foster a son. He is 11 and lived with us for 6 years now. He has just learned to swim butterfly and I will see this at Swimming Club this evening. I hope you have fantastic time Granny Activist and I hope my foster son will always remain in contact with us.

Theoddbird Thu 30-Nov-17 10:46:27

Lovely story...enjoy his visit smile

Kim19 Thu 30-Nov-17 10:36:17

GA this was a lovely bit of reading. Thank you so much for sharing and uplifting my day hugely. Exciting for me doesn't compare but since this is not a competition I will throw into the ring a prospective visit tomorrow to a restaurant I've fancied for a while with a dear friend. Even more exciting is that my elder son is coming to visit for a few days. I pick him up from the station on Saturday evening. Can't think of much else that would induce me to miss Strictly!! Life is good indeed.

ffinnochio Thu 30-Nov-17 10:08:38

Off to the UK to see my 4th grandchild for the first time sunshine and apartment hunting smile.

What a fab trip, Marmight.

Christinefrance Thu 30-Nov-17 08:57:16

That is a wonderful story GA congratulations to all of you, hope you have a great time.
Nothing major for me but looking forward to a Christmas meal with my fellow volunteers next week and all the excitement of the festive season to come.
Do hope things get better for you soon NanKate flowers

NfkDumpling Thu 30-Nov-17 07:09:03

Ooooh, the Ghan to Darwin! How fantastically wonderful! Will you be able to spend time in Kakadu?

And all the re-unions and family times looked forward to are wonderful. And congratulations on your redundancy Chewy. Retirement is wonderful!

MesMopTop Thu 30-Nov-17 03:24:09

You are in for a fabulous time Marmight, enjoy every minute of your trip!

Marmight Thu 30-Nov-17 01:53:43

Lovely story GA. I'm excited, not only because I've recently arrived in Oz to stay with my middle DD and her family, but because DD and I are flying up to Alice Springs this weekend and travelling on the Ghan from there to Darwin. I've always wanted to do it and its an early 'special' birthday present from me to to her and an even earlier one from me to me! ??

MesMopTop Thu 30-Nov-17 00:52:21

How lovely GA. I don't have anything specific as such, but I'm excited about Christmas coming up, despite not being "of the faith". I just love all the tinsel and tat, the trees and cards, the Christmas carols and all the excited children. Many of the homes where I live decorate the outside in the most amazing ways. I love walking around admiring their displays with DH and our dog. I've enjoyed doing the cards and am halfway through shopping. Usually I detest shopping but everyone just seems to be in festive mode, even tho it's still November. First time I've felt like this in Years. Added huge bonus is that I have Christmas off this year ? have lots of problems and issues but I've just decided that I am going to take and enjoy each day and make it the best I can. Got to finish cleaning up and sorting because tomorrow the tree is going up! Even bought some new devices, small but just lovely. Also tried my hand at making some and have turned out pretty good! Wishing each of you joy and peace, particularly if you are struggling c

Willow500 Wed 29-Nov-17 20:46:24

Granny what a fantastic story and a testament to you and your husbands care and commitment. No wonder you are excited - I hope you have a wonderful evening with your son. We are getting beyond excited as our son is coming to stay for 6 weeks in a fortnight together with Dil and our 2 little grandsons. They emigrated 4 years ago before the first one was born and this is the first time they've been back. We have had so many toys and children items loaned by friends and relatives the little ones will think Santa has been already. grin

Nanabilly Wed 29-Nov-17 19:39:47

What a heart warming story GA .Enjoy his visit.
I'm excited as our son and gs are coming to stay for a few days this friday and we shall be meeting his new gf who has made him the happiest he's been for a few years.

Chewbacca Wed 29-Nov-17 19:29:04

Well, I'm a bit excited because I'm hoping to hear that I will be made redundant shortly. The redundancy payment that I'll get will tide me over very nicely to when I get my SRP, which has been put back 3 times now. Fingers crossed!

Sar53 Wed 29-Nov-17 19:23:39

What a lovely story GA , I hope you have a wonderful time together.
I am very excited because DD2 is expecting her second baby in six weeks, 9 1/2 years after her first . I didn't think she would have any more and her first DD is also very excited about having a sibling. I am looking forward to lots of cuddles.

glammanana Wed 29-Nov-17 18:38:04

Such lovely news GA how wonderful for you all.
My special news will be arriving next April and May with the arrival of a new DGC & new GGC so I will be all cuddled up during those months for sure.
Enjoy your evening with your son GA

Coolgran65 Wed 29-Nov-17 18:26:58

GA, you've warmed my heart.

Teetime Wed 29-Nov-17 16:44:33

Great news GA lovely to hear that you are going to have an exciting time.
No not much going on here - looking forward to seeing DD2 and adored GS between Xmas and New Year other than that dreading the postman coning with my operation date before Xmas - I am hoping for January.
Have a great time. xxxx

annodomini Wed 29-Nov-17 16:41:24

GA, what a lovely story about your Taiwanese son. It says so much about you and the WM. I'm not sure that 'excited' is the right word but I'm looking forward to seeing DS2 and his two DSs, 10 and 12, when they come here for the weekend before Christmas. I haven't seen them since early September because my broken shoulder made it difficult for me to travel. They will drop me off for Christmas at DS1's home in Sandhurst because their own house is still being extended and, although the outside walls and roof are done, it's chaotic inside with walls being knocked down and new rooms created. So not so much excitement for me as quiet (?) satisfaction with GC and cats.

kittylester Wed 29-Nov-17 16:38:59

Lovely story ga and others. sunshine

Nothing special for me but nothing bad is going on in my immediate family currently - so that's good.

Leaves me time to worry about 2 neices, two sisters in law and two brothers in law. Hey ho.

Have a super time ga.

(hugs) Kate - do you need a rant?